FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to meet, need verification!

By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

So seem to be hopelessly trying to contact users but getting no response as I haven't met or talked over cam! Seems to be a catch 22 situation, any advice on how to break the cycle?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
32 weeks ago

Get a meet by either going to a fab social event/club or going on cam in the chatrooms. You should be aware though that having a verification doesn't suddenly open up a sea of pussy to you, that is a huge misconception.

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By *harAndBryCouple
32 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"So seem to be hopelessly trying to contact users but getting no response as I haven't met or talked over cam! Seems to be a catch 22 situation, any advice on how to break the cycle?"

Get to a social and someone will verify you there....it doesn't have to be a play meet to show that you're a real person who will leave the house.

There's the Crowland Social and Stamford Socials on your doorstep, plus we've heard of the Peterborough Social and there's the North Norfolk Social in Kings Lynn.

(Bry)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
32 weeks ago

Leeds

It's so easy to get verified you just need to make a little effort.

There's tons of social events you could pop along to to get verified (listed in the meets and events section)

Go to a club and ask them to verify you.

Go on can and politely ask someone to verify you.

Once you have a verification it doesn't make meeting any easier.

Mrs

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By *oiluvfunMan
32 weeks ago

Penrith

I would lose the first and last lines from your profile text mate, and expand a little more about yourself, who you are, what you are looking for etc.

Consider increasing your upper age bracket too, as there are far more mature people in the swinging world, than the younger set.

As someone else has mentioned, verifications won’t suddenly open up “a sea of pussy” in Fab, even less in the clubs scene

But be patient, think about who you are really looking for in here, and only message those profiles you genuinely feel you could be a match with. The ‘scattergun’ approach is easily seen through, and gets you a one way ticket to Block Street…..

There are people in here who shy away from profiles with hundreds of veris, so try not to get too frustrated with your seemingly lack of ‘success’ so far. It is very early days for a solo guy in here….

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By *iss DevilWoman
32 weeks ago

Bedford

You're listing yourself as straight yet you're happy to meet TV/TS? As someone else has said, rethink your age range as it's quite restrictive. And do get yourself to an organised social or to a club, as networking is needed for single men on here.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Get to socials and clubs to meet people who will give you a verification.

Having a verification won't suddenly make you more attractive to people who aren't attracted to you though

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
32 weeks ago

Lincoln

"So seem to be hopelessly trying to contact users but getting no response as I haven't met or talked over cam! Seems to be a catch 22 situation, any advice on how to break the cycle?

Get to a social and someone will verify you there....it doesn't have to be a play meet to show that you're a real person who will leave the house.

There's the Crowland Social and Stamford Socials on your doorstep, plus we've heard of the Peterborough Social and there's the North Norfolk Social in Kings Lynn.

(Bry)"

And us in Lincoln too

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By *istressandSlut69Couple
32 weeks ago

West Midlands

Go to a social if it’s important to you. Or on cam, it’s not hard. They are to prove you’re real.

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