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By *arriedcouple95 OP   Couple
33 weeks ago

Plymouth

We are a happy married couple since 2017 and we are looking for a open minded woman to help us is there any advice we could get to be able to get such women we are open to talk anyone

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By *alandNitaCouple
33 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"We are a happy married couple since 2017 and we are looking for a open minded woman to help us is there any advice we could get to be able to get such women we are open to talk anyone "

The biggest issue you will find is that single bi women are the most "in demand" people on Fab... to the point that they are often referred to as unicorns.

Many single ladies are also reluctant to make arrangements with couples as there is aften a feeling that they are required only to put on a "girl on girl" performance for the bloke.

We personally find that it's much easier to converse with single ladies in clubs than it is on here.

Cal

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By *ikesEmBigMan
33 weeks ago

Herts


"We are a happy married couple since 2017 and we are looking for a open minded woman to help us is there any advice we could get to be able to get such women we are open to talk anyone "

Join the queue

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By *iss DevilWoman
33 weeks ago

Bedford

You are both straight, and you don't explain on your profile how the extra woman would be fitting in your dynamics.

Your age range is very limited, too. And maybe try some pics without Instagram or Snapchat filters?

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By *rpeggioCouple
33 weeks ago

Baughurst

You appear to be asking for help to deliveroo yourselves a woman to spice up your marriage. Single women are not in fab as a public service to men or couples. They are here with their own preferences and likes.

Maybe think instead what can you offer to them that thousands and thousands of men and couples looking for women can't offer. In what way are you different or stand out?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
32 weeks ago

Leeds

Your age range is very limiting.

You are both straight, where does a women joining you both fit in here.

All your pics are snap c filtered which is off-putting.

Bi women aren't just commodities for you to use what's in it for her?

Mrs

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By *ev_1Couple
32 weeks ago

Bickliegh


"Your age range is very limiting.

You are both straight, where does a women joining you both fit in here.

All your pics are snap c filtered which is off-putting.

Bi women aren't just commodities for you to use what's in it for her?

Mrs "

agree with this x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
32 weeks ago

Coventry

Just relax and be yourselves. Coming across a little desperate or as if you're fetishising the whole thing can be a bit off putting (not aimed at you specifically but is the way a lot of couples can come across). You're more likely to get someone when things are nice and natural and feels like you're taking a genuine intrest in the individual and their desires rather that act and your desires. People like to feel like an equal stakeholder and not just someone else's play thing of experiment. It's almost like the less you try more the more successful you'll be (obviously you still have to get out there, say hello and make opportunities). But in our experience we don't go out looking for single women, its just sort of happened naturally when cross paths with a lady and the attraction/chemistry is there. Hopefully your sort of understand what I mean. And as others have avoid frustration with an understanding that it can be difficult to find. But also optimistic because despite the ratios there's still plenty out there who love meeting the right couples and it happens everyday.

Also if you go to clubs try a couples and single ladies night. Because chances are the single ladies there are specifically looking for couples.

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