FabSwingers.com forum: Couple Rooms question

By *otnews OP Man
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

My partner and I are just starting out in attending clubs. We've set our boundaries and visited a club in the last week. We really enjoyed doing our thing and being watched and doing some watching. We don't want to play with others and avoided a lot of eye contact in playrooms as we didn't want to be prick-teases for the single guys - who were pretty much all respectful.

Definitely going to sample the couples room on our next visit - would love a bit of feedback from established couples on if it's common to just want to play by ourselves but enjoy others playing in the same space without direct interaction (but maybe a nice bit of watching the others playing around us).

Is there an etiquette to this? Are there others that enjoy it and can share how they set up? Is it common or is the expectation to swap more if playing in these rooms?

Happy to receive answers here or by DM - but not looking to set up any play.

We played at Quest-Leeds and will probably be there again when next playing.

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

Lots of couples just play with each other in club's. If you go in a couples room and avoid eye contact you're unlikely to be bothered. If someone asks can they join in just say "no we're ok thanks" .

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By *rpeggioCouple
3 weeks ago

Baughurst

It's very common at clubs. If you don't make much eye contact, usually other couples will not ask if you want to join them or them joining you. Looking is ok, many couples love being watched while watching others, and listening to the other couples moaning with pleasure.

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

What you describe it pretty much what we do.

We’ve only had someone once try to join in uninvited ( a single lady of all things) in 40 plus visits to clubs; so youll be fine

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
3 weeks ago

Kent

We’ve been to a lot of events and played together. We were only interested in the exhibitionist side of things when we first started out, our first club visit we played together in a room with a gate on it so people could watch but not enter the room. We are now full swap but it’s taken two+ years and a LOT of conversations to get here and we certainly don’t have it all worked out yet but there’s a lot of couples who are only looking to watch and be watched. My advice would be to make sure you both have the confidence to say no and be firm with people if they approach. Personally, we kept away from the orgy rooms/beds so we weren’t too close to other people when we were only looking to play with each other. If people are playing openly then they won’t mind being watched as long as it isn’t done in a creepy way.

C x

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Pick an event without single guys and that solves that part of your request

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