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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

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By *1966Man
35 weeks ago

horsham

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need "

24 verifications ?

Put the cans away and go to bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

24 verifications ?

Put the cans away and go to bed"

24 is only the published ones!

As for cans, if you read my profile I don't drink.

It's just a bit of fun to try and make a few people smile

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By *elloWoman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

You might be having trouble because of the 44E and athletic part, those lovely ladies are probably laying down with backache or have been knocked out by the boobs flying as they run in the treadmill.

Also don't forget to be polite when you start your message by saying '_ello sugar tits , FAF'

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By *attering_ramMan
35 weeks ago

near you

The back ache part had me howling !

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By *r-8-BBCMan
35 weeks ago

LONDON

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By *ames250122Man
35 weeks ago

Worcester

The only real advice I can give is just be patient. It can take a while as a single male profile and five weeks isn’t a very long time. Some won’t even consider meeting if the guy is relatively new or if they have no verifications. Just be mindful that since your new your naturally going to be eager to have your first meet and make it happen which can put people off if you come across to eager in your messages. Otherwise though as long as your been respectful, put some effort into your profile and photos, make sure to read their profile properly before messaging and put some effort into your messages then your not doing anything that’s you should be doing or anything stopping you from getting a meet. It’s just a case of chatting to the right person at the right time, just like with meeting someone in the outside world. In part it by chance you message someone at the right time when they’re not already chatting to one or more people they’re investing in getting to know and not really looking for another single guy ( there are a lot of us on here to be fair). Then it just be because they don’t feel the same attraction, which is natural as everyone is attracted to different things. It happens to everyone no matter how good looking or wonderful a person they are. I had a lovely social with a lady tonight that I’d chatted with on here for a bit and got on well with. Then had a lovely time chatting and having a laugh when we meet for a social but after she was honest and said she didn’t feel a connection. It happens, not everyone is for everyone and as depressing as it is and a bit of a blow don’t read to much into it, whether it’s not hearing back from your first message, a couple of messages or a social. You will make friends and find people that are right for you and you for them it just can take time. In the meantime, visit and join a club as they can verify you as being real, also try going to social swinger intro events advertised on here like up the brum so you can make some other swinger friends from here and get to know people

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By *oetic licenceCouple
35 weeks ago

Matlock

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

24 verifications ?

Put the cans away and go to bed

24 is only the published ones!

As for cans, if you read my profile I don't drink.

It's just a bit of fun to try and make a few people smile "

It made me smile, I don't think people are reading it properly. Lol. Really don't think you need advice. Shelly.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

Think the angle is wrong on the photos, try mote with the left hand.

You age limit is not narrow enought do you know the men to women ratio

Maybe try sending the head shot on the bellend, that or get it a top hat and bow tie.

Oh and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"You might be having trouble because of the 44E and athletic part, those lovely ladies are probably laying down with backache or have been knocked out by the boobs flying as they run in the treadmill.

Also don't forget to be polite when you start your message by saying '_ello sugar tits , FAF'

"

Hello sugar tits,FAF

I will definitely try that it does seem much better than "ere darling fancy a bunk up"

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Legendary post mate, got a few chuckles from us

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By *-jonMan
35 weeks ago

London

"Legendary post mate, got a few chuckles from us

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OP - it’s so Fab forum. Top work!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Think the angle is wrong on the photos, try mote with the left hand.

You age limit is not narrow enought do you know the men to women ratio

Maybe try sending the head shot on the bellend, that or get it a top hat and bow tie.

Oh and happy fabbing

"

You are so right although I struggle taking pictures with my left hand last time I tried It i just ended up with half a dozen pictures of my palm and wrist

Now to dig out the old action man toys I'm sure he had a tuxedo with bow tie, might be a little on the large side but with a fair wind and some superglue I'm sure I can dress the bell-end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Legendary post mate, got a few chuckles from us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Legendary post mate, got a few chuckles from us

OP - it’s so Fab forum. Top work! "

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By *oiluvfunMan
35 weeks ago

Penrith

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need "

Correct punctuation and grammar go a long way

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By *elloWoman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

Correct punctuation and grammar go a long way

"

Oh that's a good one, guys don't forget that after reading a potential shags profile to send them a message letting them know their punctuation and grammar errors, nothing gets a gusset damper than an impromptu English lesson

Damn with all these hints and tips you've got you'll be beating them off with a stick,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

Correct punctuation and grammar go a long way

"

That's what is letting me down, I never woz much good at stool always struggled with the 3 r's ing whiting and wifmatic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Hi all,

Looking for advice,

After being on fab for a while (5 weeks) I just don't seem able to get a meet, I have searched the forums and taken on the advice.

Get some nice head shots/ so I've taken some really close up ones of my helmet.

I always message politely and concisely, I would never message saying fancy a fuck/ I would word it along the lines of, can I fill your belly full of muck.

I read their profile and try to incorporate their likes or comments. I.E if they say that they like clubbing I would say, I'd like to club you and drag you back to mine.

In the forums I've seen it suggested that we send a face picture wit first message, I've found a nice picture of Hugh Grant that I send with first contact.

Apparently sending a dick pic is wrong,I don't do that I always send at least three from different angles.

I just can't see what I doing wrong, surely someone out there in fabland will be able to help point me in the right direction to get a meet.

Preferably 23 to 27,brunette,green eyes,massive tits minimum 44E, slim waist, athletic and financially comfortable with own car I.E range rover, porsche,hi end Mercedes no audi drivers.

Go on fabbers help a bro in need

Correct punctuation and grammar go a long way

Oh that's a good one, guys don't forget that after reading a potential shags profile to send them a message letting them know their punctuation and grammar errors, nothing gets a gusset damper than an impromptu English lesson

Damn with all these hints and tips you've got you'll be beating them off with a stick,

"

I'm sorting my stick as I type this, just got to finish eating the chocolate coated ice cream off it, and I will be all set with a stick for beating

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By *awpleasureMan
35 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

A sense of humour goes a long way. Very tongue in cheek! Minimum 44E

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