FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie visiting a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

I've never been to a club before, but am intending to visit a Remix night in Swindon sometime soon. I'm not going with any expectation that I'm gonna get to play (I mean that would be nice though!). But I'm viewing it as an introduction to the lifestyle, to meet some nice people, and generally socialise with others of the same ilk.

My question is.....what is the etiquette for a complete club novice like myself. Would be bad if I unintentionally upset folk there on my first outing!!

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
37 weeks ago

Essex

Don’t get d*unk and make a fool of yourself and just be yourself at the end of the day as not everyone is for you and vice versa.

Be sociable and talk to people but don’t be pushy and as you said don’t go expecting to play but rather to experience the night and watch the dynamics of others and if you do play them it’s an added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Dont be part of the wanking dead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

Cheers. Not getting d*unk won't be hard for me.....gave up alcohol over a year ago and don't miss it at all. Not many of my fellow Scotsmen would agree with me though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

??.....I think I know what ya mean?!

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
37 weeks ago

Essex

"??.....I think I know what ya mean?!"

Wanking dead are the guys who stand next to a couple playing and just wank without so much as asking if it’s okay or having taken any time to converse with any one that is playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

Cheers. That was what I was thinking it was tbf. Won't be joining their ranks.

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By *ellhungvweMan
37 weeks ago

Cheltenham

1. Don’t be a dick

2. Respect peoples space

3. Be a human

4. Go to 1

Like others have said, alcohol and clubs generally don’t mix well. Be sociable, make sure you have condoms and don’t expect anything to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

Basically don't be a twat is what I'm hearing. Makes perfect sense. Anything specific ( apart from not being a complete knobhead that is) that I should be aware of?

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
37 weeks ago

Essex

"Basically don't be a twat is what I'm hearing. Makes perfect sense. Anything specific ( apart from not being a complete knobhead that is) that I should be aware of?"

Take flip flops as you really don’t want to feel that squelch between toes and have to mentally guess if what you’ve just stepped on is friendly matter or not……

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

flip flops.... with...or without socks is the real question

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By *uknfukCouple
36 weeks ago

CH1

Talk to people, been as couple and single, chatting has lead to invites.

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By *iss DevilWoman
36 weeks ago

Bedford

flip flops.... with...or without socks is the real question"

This should not even be a question!

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