FabSwingers.com forum: 40 and Stupidly high libido

By *OYFB OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but in the last couple of months all I can think about is sex.

And you’d think that’s great.

But it’s not.

I’m frequently distracted in work, I’m lurking on fab way more than I have the time to.

I’m in a sexless relationship, live on a small island where it looks like there are a lot of profiles but the majority of them are trolls or fake profiles.

I feel like I’m going mad!

Never in my life has my sex drive been so high, and it’s when I’m at my ugliest, oldest and fattest (most undesirable). Sometimes I wonder if someone is playing a cruel joke on me!

Has this happened to anyone else? Is it the start of menopause or something?

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By *hrimper36Couple
35 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Hi op.

It could be a thousand different things but the truth is seldom found on forums so I’d suggest seeking help from professional sectors but hey it may just be your age.

Good luck.

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By *rego69Man
35 weeks ago

Chelmsford

It spring time doing it to me am sure of it!

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By *OYFB OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

That is very true and don’t worry, I wouldn’t replace proper medical advice with comments on a forum!

Just wondered if anyone else has been through similar

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but in the last couple of months all I can think about is sex.

And you’d think that’s great.

But it’s not.

I’m frequently distracted in work, I’m lurking on fab way more than I have the time to.

I’m in a sexless relationship, live on a small island where it looks like there are a lot of profiles but the majority of them are trolls or fake profiles.

I feel like I’m going mad!

Never in my life has my sex drive been so high, and it’s when I’m at my ugliest, oldest and fattest (most undesirable). Sometimes I wonder if someone is playing a cruel joke on me!

Has this happened to anyone else? Is it the start of menopause or something? "

your not going mad, Im older than you and my sex drive has never been so high. I have a lot of energy to burn. Get a medical check up, always good to check these things anyway. But hey embrace who you are, your now in a different phase of your life, and your desirable as many of the guys here will tell you .

Embrace it and go have fun xxx

stay safe and happy fabbing

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By *ullsfan77Man
35 weeks ago

Torquay

Hello OP-I wouldn’t have called you any of those things you have called yourself! It’s a shame I don’t still live where you do.

Seriously though, might be worth getting yourself checked out to make sure there is nothing amiss and making sure that your partner is aware that you have needs. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Hi OP, firstly let me sympathise with you about living in Jersey and being on Fab. It’s not a great experience.

My sex drive is higher now than it’s ever been and I’m 65 this year. Think of it as a positive thing.

Have you given any thought to going to a club in the UK? I used to when I was in my last relationship and I loved them.

I’m now thinking about solo trips.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Doesn't sound anything wrong to me , I'm in same boat and loving it, personally I'm putting it down to sorting shit out in my life and its a knock on effect on my sex drive , might just be a case of you've managed to remove a load of stress from your life, but don't be hating on yourself , your currently best version of you xxxx

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By *ellinever70Woman
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It sounds like it's having an impact on your daily functioning, which doesn't sound that great at all really.

Have you tried switching your focus to something more fulfilling?

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