FabSwingers.com forum: PE still a massive issue!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I posted on here about a year ago as I have been suffering with premature ejaculation since my teens. it was on a meet when I came 3 times, twice without even beimg touched, I was so embarrassed we left and I have had a huge confidence issue ever since, even with my wife.

I tried a lot of things, pills, sprays, changing my mastabation routine to retrain my mind, nothing has worked and I am scared to meet again.

I have read that a case of PE where the cause is mental can be cured by hypnotherapy, has anyone any experience in this?

I hope I can get some help soon as I am desperate now, it gets me down and.i dont have many people I can talk to about it. Thanks for listening people

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Hi, I posted on here about a year ago as I have been suffering with premature ejaculation since my teens. it was on a meet when I came 3 times, twice without even beimg touched, I was so embarrassed we left and I have had a huge confidence issue ever since, even with my wife.

I tried a lot of things, pills, sprays, changing my mastabation routine to retrain my mind, nothing has worked and I am scared to meet again.

I have read that a case of PE where the cause is mental can be cured by hypnotherapy, has anyone any experience in this?

I hope I can get some help soon as I am desperate now, it gets me down and.i dont have many people I can talk to about it. Thanks for listening people

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I would say its worth giving it a try. You need to go in with a clear mind for it to work. Best of luck.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

u said it can be anything from 40 sec to 3mins, is that just with the wife? are u quicker in a meet or have u not tried again since ur bad experience?

there's lots of guys out there that wouldn't last much more than 3 mins in just penetration can u mix it up with more foreplay eg 69 oral etc etc or would u cum in that senario aswell

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

I tried a lot of things, pills, sprays, changing my mastabation routine to retrain my mind, nothing has worked and I am scared to meet again.

I have read that a case of PE where the cause is mental can be cured by hypnotherapy, has anyone any experience in this?

I hope I can get some help soon as I am desperate now, it gets me down and.i dont have many people I can talk to about it. Thanks for listening people

It looks like you have tried most of the "self help" options.Think you need to pluck up some courage and see your GP to discuss the possible referral of both yourself and your wife(eventually)to a psychosexual counsellor.

The problem kind of "self feeds" and trained consellors have a variety of techniques...some of which you have mentioned...along with training in psychotherapy...hypnotherapy could be part of this but strongly suggest NHS based treatment.You may need to fuss up about the swinging that you have tried together and would suggest that this is probably put on hold until the problem is resolved.

Hope this helps.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

As a trained hypnotherapist I would say hypnosis would be of help. Do research and choose a good hypnotherapist. Don't equate price with how good the hypnotherapist is. So if one says they will charge £100 and another says they will charge £50 don't assume the £100 one is better than the £50 one.

Don't be afraid to ask the hypnotherapist questions about how he or she would be able to help you. I think you should be able to be helped in one session.

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