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By *umandass123 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

sutton

I’ve recently come back here but now as a solo male so it’s a completely different experience!

Literally any and all advice about improving my profile would be greatly appreciated

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By *ottodot123Couple
31 weeks ago

Gillingham

More pics. More pics with some good feel to them would be a big bonus for me.

Although I love the face pic. You look really handsome and fun.

Spelling mistake in 3 paragraph. Should be have not gave.

I don't know if I need to be told about your recently singleness quite so much but I appreciate writing profiles isn't easy at all and I'm sure it's been a big life event for you.

I'm sure having been here for many years you'll know the standard advice for single men. Go to socials and clubs. I'm sure you'd do very well. Then your expand your circle, veris will come and probably you'll do better on fab itself.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Get rid of the bit about your age and height in the text, as your age is out and people can already see both those things.

Maybe more about what things you're into and what you can offer anyone who chooses to meet you.

As the poster above said, more pics would be good too.

Join in on the forums, get to an organised social as they are great ways to meet others.

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By *umandass123 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

sutton

Appreciate you taking the time out to help. Heading to a party soon so hopefully getting verified should help too

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Your profile pic is really nice but add a couple more photos.

The profile text is generic. It doesn’t distinguish you from anyone else. What do you do for fun? What do you like? What are your hobbies? Just to give an idea of your personality.

Good luck. You’ve made a good start.

Dee x

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By *ickD80Man
31 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You say that you’re looking to explore the kinky side of life, well so are the large majority of people here, kinky can mean anything from a threesome to being tied up, gagged and blindfolded and then being fucked in your ass and mouth by complete strangers, non stop for an entire day….saying you want to explore being kinky means nothing, you need to be more specific.

Thanks for telling us that you like going out socialising, that really gives us an insight into what you’re like as a person….again, saying you like going out socialising tells us absolutely nothing because the large majority of people like going out socialising. Knowing that you like going out socialising doesn’t help anyone to determine whether you’re a good match for them or not, being more specific and telling us about things you like to do that isn’t something almost everyone else likes gives us a better understanding of your personality and helps us decide if we’d maych or not.

So you’re looking for a couple but open to new experiences? We don’t have a clue what you’ve experienced in the past so telling us you’re open to new experiences tells us nothing. How do we know whether the experiences we want to do with you are either something you’ve done before and will do again, something you’ve done before and don’t want to do again or something new to you that you’re open to explore? Without a list of everything you’ve experienced in the past, telling us you’re interested in trying new experiences is pointless.

You’re looking for like minded people? Like minded in what way? We don’t know anything about you because everything you’ve said is too vague and doesn’t tell us anything, so how do we know if we’re like minded to you or not. And who isn’t looking for someone who’s like minded to them? No one’s looking for someone who has completely different interests and desires….

If you deleted your bio and replaced it with just ‘i’m a person’ you’d be giving as much insight into your personality and what you’re looking for as your current bio does.

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By *umandass123 OP   Man
31 weeks ago

sutton

Appreciate the feedback truly!

My sex life has always been pretty liberal, and have only been here before now as part of a couple. Also even though I’m not a dinosaur I’ve not been properly single since I was 16. So all this profile building stuff I’m clueless about!

I’m used to forming connections via in person contact as that’s all I’ve known. Any of the atypical sexual experiences I’ve had all came from that route.

All I know is that I want to explore my sexuality and in an ideal world would’ve preferred doing so with a partner. However due to unrelated problems this is no longer a reality when I’d love nothing more than to have been able to be on this site looking for men like yourself to share her with.

Was a hell of a lot easier navigating this place as a couple, rather than just looking like any other bloke trying to get his dick wet. As we all know there’s an abundance of these on here!

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