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By *he Bearded Rock Geek OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Huthwaite

Evening all,

Question for the ladies and couples.

I'm assuming you all get inundated with messages.

So what title/subject makes a message stand out from the crowd before you even open it?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Honestly, I don't think I notice the title.

I notice if there's an attachment, if they have a blank profile pic and the first line of the actual message. I usually click on the profile before I even read the message.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
32 weeks ago

Hyde


"Honestly, I don't think I notice the title.

I notice if there's an attachment, if they have a blank profile pic and the first line of the actual message. I usually click on the profile before I even read the message."

This^

K

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Same. I click the profile first to decide if I am going to be interested.

If there is only dick pics or they have attached dick pics to the message I reply no thanks

If they are messaging again after being told no thanks... block

If I am interested I reply.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
32 weeks ago

Flagrante

Seeing as 9 out of the last 10 message titles were hey, hi or a variation of these I'm not sure a title makes any difference as we hadn't noticed until now. Like others it's more about the profile.

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By *assy LassieWoman
32 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Don't really care

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
32 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't take notice.

If we get a message I check the profile out, if I like the profile I'll reply if I don't I won't.

Mrs

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By *iss DevilWoman
32 weeks ago

Bedford

Message subject or content don't matter too much for me, but the profile of the person does. The person could have sent the best message yet if they are miles away, unless they are going to the same event I am going, my reply is going to be along the "thanks but no, thanks" lines.

I kind of understand why men cast very wide nets and send the same message to women/couples within a certain radius, but isn't it pointless? Is any man seriously prepared to travel 100, 200 or even more miles just for a shag? Or just for a social, as most women and couples don't have sex on the first meet.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
32 weeks ago

tf1

What they all said.

I look at the profile. If it’s crap I delete the message.

If it’s ok I open the message. If that’s loads of cock pics I block.

If the message in some way interests me I might reply. Really depends on what else is going on in my life at the time.

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