FabSwingers.com forum: To old?

By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

Absolutely not, if you get on with one another then go for it.

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By *unchalMan
32 weeks ago

Dartford

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

Depends. Too old for what? A shag? No. Romance, marriage, kids, old age, yeah probably, unless you are rich.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Just seeing each other. See what happens from there

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I’d say, lucky you!

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By *avexxMan
32 weeks ago

cheshire

i certainly dont think your to old,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

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By *allguynowMan
32 weeks ago

durham

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

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not to old at all. Your both adults capable of making a decision. Get her shagged!!

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Why question the age gap if you are ok with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"Why question the age gap if you are ok with it"

I am ok with it. I’m just curious how other people see it.

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By *enfleetMaleMan
32 weeks ago

Hadleigh

If you both want the same thing and it's legal then why worry about it? I've been to plenty of clubs where there are people much older than me having more fun than me. Age has nothing to do with it. 2 adults wanting a good time is what matters most.

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By *agneto.Man
32 weeks ago

Bham

As long as she's into it, fine. Don't mind anyone else. Some women like older men, some women have no age preferences, just go with it if you're both fine with it.

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
32 weeks ago

Lahinch

Yes, you're too old. Is she after a sugar daddy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"Yes, you're too old. Is she after a sugar daddy?"

No, but I could live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Why question the age gap if you are ok with it

I am ok with it. I’m just curious how other people see it. "

Personally, I think if you need others to approve, then you're not ok with it. I could be wrong. But I was always told, if in doubt, dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"Why question the age gap if you are ok with it

I am ok with it. I’m just curious how other people see it.

Personally, I think if you need others to approve, then you're not ok with it. I could be wrong. But I was always told, if in doubt, dont"

I’m not sure I’m looking for approval. I think I might just be bragging

I woke up happy today

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
32 weeks ago

Somerset

Depends. Too old for what? A shag? No. Romance, marriage, kids, old age, yeah probably, unless you are rich. "
What’s money got to do with it? Do you believe women are all that shallow and materialistic? I found romance, love, kids and a life partner with a woman with a not dissimilar age gap 11 years ago when earning less money than I had since the mid 90s.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Central

No, if her's and your own preferences match

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By *icecouple561Couple
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32 weeks ago

East Sussex

You're 18 years older than her. It could work.

When you say chatting, have you agreed to see each other again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

"You're 18 years older than her. It could work.

When you say chatting, have you agreed to see each other again?"

Yes, we are meeting for lunch later today.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

"You're 18 years older than her. It could work.

When you say chatting, have you agreed to see each other again?

Yes, we are meeting for lunch later today. "

I say enjoy your lunch together and don't even think about your respective ages.

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By *uckurcumMan
32 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Age isn't relevant if two or more people get on mentally and physically...

The problem is and always has been that society has frowned and somehow twisted the narrative and fact that an age gap is perverse and disgusting,and that your either looking for a sugar daddy or mummy or your a rent boy!

Even in these liberated times,sadly age gaps are seen as crossing the line...

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By *en_Dover79Man
32 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

28 isn't a baby and your in your prime.. crack on

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
32 weeks ago

Hyde

"You're 18 years older than her. It could work.

When you say chatting, have you agreed to see each other again?

Yes, we are meeting for lunch later today. "

Go for it!!

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By *llNatural36FWoman
32 weeks ago

Denbighshire

If you’re both happy then why not go for it, you’ve nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Thanks everyone. I’ll let you know how it goes.

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By *tew2009Man
32 weeks ago

wakefield

If you're happy with it and it works then age should never NEVER be an issue....just enjoy it for however long it lasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

My dad's gf was 19 when they met, he was 45.

They are still together and he's about to turn 76

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By *J the bullMan
32 weeks ago

Washington

Age is just a number if there is the right connection

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By *hrimper36Couple
32 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Yes the age gap will throw up problems from time to time op but everything throws up problems so just live your best life and enjoy the time together.

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By *hunkynGirthyMan
32 weeks ago

Barnsley

Yeah you are correct for sure , but for a shirt time fling definitely be good fun idea hah

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By *erkshire8299Man
32 weeks ago

slough

Members of The Rolling Stones don't worry about big age differences ...why should you.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
32 weeks ago

Tamworth

If you have common interests, then no.

If either of you start dictating to eachother about no longer enjoying age appropriate things, then yes.

My ex was 26 years older than me, I was 24 when we first got together and it was hard doing alot of things a normal mid 20's person enjoyed because he didn't like me acting younger than him. Don't be that person. And likewise if she starts acting like it, leave.

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By *herryEatersCouple
32 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

Hell no lol. Tony met a 25 year old, chatted for months with an 18 year old and had a 27 year old 'friend' for a few months

. If it works and your both happy, it works.

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By *Spicey4MeMan
32 weeks ago

Leeds

As long as you are able to communicate and are attracted to each other what is the issue.

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By *itegreensWoman
32 weeks ago

southampton

Definitely not

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By *etsgoexploring3Man
32 weeks ago

Teesside

To have fun with each other definitely not too old, but if you were looking to have a serious relationship then project forward when you are 60 and… you might not have much in common. Even a decade can mean you have different memories and attitudes to life. But heh everybody is different, this site is about fun so go for it, and lucky you

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By *itegreensWoman
32 weeks ago

southampton

Surely people grow together , I think it’s less likely they will lose common interests by being in a relationship

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By *unchalMan
32 weeks ago

Dartford

Depends. Too old for what? A shag? No. Romance, marriage, kids, old age, yeah probably, unless you are rich. What’s money got to do with it? Do you believe women are all that shallow and materialistic? I found romance, love, kids and a life partner with a woman with a not dissimilar age gap 11 years ago when earning less money than I had since the mid 90s."

I was thinking that rich folk are often able to do what they like regardless of what others think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Thanks everyone for all your replies. Much appreciated.

Little update. Things are going well.

Turns out she is just as dirty as my! Lol

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm 44 and was seeing a 28 year old for 18 months (just turned 27 when I met him), my rule of thumb is anyone 5 years older than my eldest son is "up for grabs" so to speak.

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By *ndyLou4UCouple
32 weeks ago

Plymouth

Have to disagree, my Mr is 22 years older than me, granted we aren't having any babies but I adore him, he's my world

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By *oiluvfunMan
32 weeks ago

Penrith

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

Not at all. You both enjoyed each other's company, and there was clearly mutual attraction, so crack on, just go with the flow! Life is for living

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By *onningtonplumberMan
32 weeks ago

Donnington

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

Definately not

I stared swinging when I was 38 my partner at the time was 18 we split 7 years later when she wanted children.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Manchester

Why are you too old?

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By *rinceHarry9thMan
32 weeks ago

Chester

Take what you can get, while you can still get it is my thought

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By *unchalMan
32 weeks ago

Dartford

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

I NEED an update! What happened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

I NEED an update! What happened? "

We are still seeing each other. Things are going really well.

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By *unchalMan
31 weeks ago

Dartford

"Last night I was out for a few drinks. I got talking to a girl and we got on really well.

Anyway to cut it short she’s 28 and I’m 46.

Interested in what the general consensus is on this.

I’m I to old?

I NEED an update! What happened?

We are still seeing each other. Things are going really well.

Glad to hear it. Have fun. Good luck.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
31 weeks ago

Kimberley

Personally I wouldn’t do it, the age gap is too great. I wouldn’t be worried what anyone thought but I would be worried about the future.

In all relationships the start is all exciting and full of lust but as real life settles in I think our interests and expectations would be wildly different.

At 26 you are beginning your adult life and looking forward to marriage and kids. Pushing 50 is the age where generally that’s all ticked off and you are looking forward to easing off. We would be just too different.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
31 weeks ago

outside of penrith

Answer to that would you feel confident take her to meet family friends your kids if you have them or would you feel uncomfortable with her friend etc

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
31 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"Age isn't relevant if two or more people get on mentally and physically...

Even in these liberated times,sadly age gaps are seen as crossing the line..."

Society frowns upon swinging but here we all are in a swinging site.

Do what is best for you, follow your heart but use your brain too. You’ll do what you believe is right. Mrs SW

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