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So couples and single fems here's a question. What should be on a single fella....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile? What do you want to know and what do want to see? A fare few single fellas havnt much written but still "seem" to be very successful? Id be interested in your imput! Feel free to shoot my down in flames.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Whatever he wants to put on it.

Wont please all the people all the time, so best thing is please yourself.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And PS, I think yours looks fine as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thankyou jezabel you little minx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I like to see more than a one line lazy profile, like 'here for a good time not for a long time' or 'fill this out later'

I look at the profile before I open a message, so if the profile is lazy, I don't bother to read the message, you'd think it was rocket science, but it isn't! Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately for me there is no right or wrong way to write a profile, it's jut a numbers game on fab as a single guy I'm afraid to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a nice variety of pics and like someone said above-a lazy one line profile implies to me that they're going to make zero effort when it comes to meeting. Ms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cock pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics? "

Not for me but some people like to see them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Cock pics? "

No thanks! I do state that on my profile but some men still want to send them!

Seems a lot of men don't like to ready the wordy bit on a profile and head straight for the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me Im not interested in cock shots. Our profile says VWE males and single means single. Face shot on first message cuts to the chase. If u are 5 ft 2 dont say you are 6ft and verified is always better

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

[Removed by poster at 24/03/13 20:20:44]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be honest about what you want and whats you actually want. Most couples don't want to be led on so a phone chat is good and an honest cock size and fun lead to good veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of typos, parties and socially. Other than that I think it's a great profile. Would love to see a body shot, maybe with an open shirt stood in a sexy way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got to say i agree re the cock pictures, looking round the various profiles itmake me laugh at a picgrown bloke trying to take a pic of himself with hospital phone. comical.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

No no no cock pics on Avatar...keep them hidden in your friends library for the chosen ones to enjoy!! Make us salivate and want to see more xx

When are you guys going to understand that for a large number of women, our most important and most excitable sexual organ is the BRAIN!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be honest about what you want and whats you actually want. Most couples don't want to be led on so a phone chat is good and an honest cock size and fun lead to good veris "

This.

Don't try and cover all bases. Say what you like and what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cock shots.No 4 word profiles.No Arsenal shirts .

But to be honest we're more interested in whether people who mail us have read ours first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree re Coldplay Crystals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree re Coldplay Crystals "

What makes you think it's crystal posting and not wheels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile? What do you want to know and what do want to see? A fare few single fellas havnt much written but still "seem" to be very successful? Id be interested in your imput! Feel free to shoot my down in flames. "

We usually go for single guy profiles with no spelling mistakes, use a spell checker or word,

A fully clothed full figure picture is nice as well as a face pic.

We are automatically put off by any guy that mentions the word bull or cuckolding etc , and at a meet any guy that tries to behave like that is automatically sent home.

If every picture has you holding alcohol that's a put off, as well as pictures of men doing past conquests

if your realistic about this decide how far you will travel or say you only meet in towns with stations , we only meet in southampton and are not prepared to travel anywhere , but that's because both of us do over 1k miles a week each with our work , and at the weekends we don't want to drive

We like professional people that take care in their appearance so mention that, when he was single and used pof he used to get a professional photo done as face pic .

Be a bit more fussy in what your after from a couple, setting ages from 18 to 99 is a no no,

Feel confident to either say your bi or not and wether you would entertain a bi guy or just straight , we wouldn't have a bi single guy not our thing, but would have a bi guy if it was in a couple

We would feel comfortable if a single guy when exchanging numbers gave a landline as well

But it's all different strokes for different folks and you need to do what feel is right. Whilst remembering women like to be stimulated mentally and like guys that make them laugh

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another tip I've just learned is don't type a reply on a phone, one handed while carrying a take awayin this weather sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for the two PMs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was apologizing the first message which was meant to go to the forum and was a complete accident, the second was an apology followed an explanation in the thread with all due respect i wish i hadn't bothered,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest OP..I find more receptiveness on my style of pics from outwith the forums really...my profile is essentially to reflect my time on fab..and hopefully its there to attract the people I'd be interested in meeting.

I personally hate 'dress'(suits etc) or successive lone pictures, as they show no interaction with others.

If it puts people off to see the pics on my profile..fair enough, I just know theres another dimension that isnt on a screen.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"No 4 word profiles.No Arsenal shirts "

This cracked me up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile? What do you want to know and what do want to see? A fare few single fellas havnt much written but still "seem" to be very successful? Id be interested in your imput! Feel free to shoot my down in flames. "

bi

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