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"Friendly and fun ones xx" Is the first line important ? as I struggle to think of something that is interesting enough | |||
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"Friendly and fun ones xx Is the first line important ? as I struggle to think of something that is interesting enough " The first line and the title are the most important became this is what the receiver sees before they decide to open your message or not. Boring or generic title/ first line unlikely to even be opened. | |||
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"Friendly and fun ones xx Is the first line important ? as I struggle to think of something that is interesting enough The first line and the title are the most important became this is what the receiver sees before they decide to open your message or not. Boring or generic title/ first line unlikely to even be opened." I can think of titles but I’m clueless with the first line | |||
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"Something either interesting- either if they're noticed we've posted in a forum or it's something they've read on our profile. Just a standard "hi how are you" type message is annoying. Anyone can send one of those. C xoxo" This! | |||
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"Something with a bit of banter that shows they have looked at the profile. Honestly it isn't too much to ask." "I don’t mean it’s too much to ask at all. I mean, if there’s little to no info on a profile or just sexual things, I find it hard to send a message, as I don’t like sending anyone things that are sexual on a first message . But that’s just me, though. | |||
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"Something with a bit of banter that shows they have looked at the profile. Honestly it isn't too much to ask. "I don’t mean it’s too much to ask at all. I mean, if there’s little to no info on a profile or just sexual things, I find it hard to send a message, as I don’t like sending anyone things that are sexual on a first message . But that’s just me, though." Do you really want to message people who wont give clear indications on their profile though? Also never send a sexual message on the first one. Unless it says to do so on the profile. | |||
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"Something with a bit of banter that shows they have looked at the profile. Honestly it isn't too much to ask. "I don’t mean it’s too much to ask at all. I mean, if there’s little to no info on a profile or just sexual things, I find it hard to send a message, as I don’t like sending anyone things that are sexual on a first message . But that’s just me, though. Do you really want to message people who wont give clear indications on their profile though? Also never send a sexual message on the first one. Unless it says to do so on the profile. " Not really, but where I live, there are a lot of profiles with no info. However, I love to travel, so I don’t mind going a bit further if I find profiles I have more in common with, as a connection is more important to me than having a one-night stand. I’d never send a sexual message first; I believe it’s disrespectful. | |||
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"An intelligent, polite, funny message is always a nice surprise, if you acknowledge that we are a couple and don’t gross us out that’s even better" I definitely need to work on my approach I’d like to say my messages are intelligent and polite but lack humour | |||
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"Something with a bit of banter that shows they have looked at the profile. Honestly it isn't too much to ask. "I don’t mean it’s too much to ask at all. I mean, if there’s little to no info on a profile or just sexual things, I find it hard to send a message, as I don’t like sending anyone things that are sexual on a first message . But that’s just me, though. Do you really want to message people who wont give clear indications on their profile though? Also never send a sexual message on the first one. Unless it says to do so on the profile. Not really, but where I live, there are a lot of profiles with no info. However, I love to travel, so I don’t mind going a bit further if I find profiles I have more in common with, as a connection is more important to me than having a one-night stand. I’d never send a sexual message first; I believe it’s disrespectful." You seem to have the right mindset tbh man. It's a marathon not a sprint and it is all a learning experience | |||
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"Just put you into your message op and if they like you then they will reply if not they won’t. T" Great advice I’ve learned recently to just be myself. Not everyone can like you on here or in life | |||
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"Ones that are confident and naughty but without calling me a whore or a slut" I don’t send either of those. I guess I’m just polite in my message’s. How’s life treating you both in Brazil? I’d love to visit sometime | |||
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"Ones that are confident and naughty but without calling me a whore or a slut I don’t send either of those. I guess I’m just polite in my message’s. How’s life treating you both in Brazil? I’d love to visit sometime " Life is good here but play time is limited. We tend to get more fun when travelling. | |||
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"Ones that are confident and naughty but without calling me a whore or a slut I don’t send either of those. I guess I’m just polite in my message’s. How’s life treating you both in Brazil? I’d love to visit sometime Life is good here but play time is limited. We tend to get more fun when travelling." that’s good to hear. Shame you can’t. I travel a lot too. Lived in the USA as i child and went back 2 years go to visit. I go around Europe alot too though | |||
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"Ones that don’t include a dick pic !" that would be a good start wouldn’t it | |||
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"Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?" horny messages | |||
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"Really struggling with the first line of messages anyone have any tips?" how can anyone give you tips thats like asking others to write it for you ??? only eou know you and you'll need to work it out for yourself if you want to meet others .. iits not rocket science its about you and what you want to talk about ... you just have to figure it out | |||
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"Something with a bit of banter that shows they have looked at the profile. Honestly it isn't too much to ask. "I don’t mean it’s too much to ask at all. I mean, if there’s little to no info on a profile or just sexual things, I find it hard to send a message, as I don’t like sending anyone things that are sexual on a first message . But that’s just me, though." See this response indicates to me you want to message everyone. If there is little to no info or things you dislike, why would you even try to construct a message, makes zero sense, move on to a profile that ticks your boxes Theres no one size fits all message what suits one won't suit another | |||
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"Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?" A call from the Lottery would be nice. | |||
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"Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?" One that hasn’t been crowdsourced, and is a reflection of the person sending it. | |||
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