FabSwingers.com forum: Identify swingers

By *ab couple 100 OP Couple
42 weeks ago

wolverhampton

How to identify a swinger when in public eg bars etc.

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By *ogerroger69Man
42 weeks ago

West Yorks

Gosh that’s a million dollar question x

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By * and M lookingCouple
42 weeks ago

Worcester

Go on Fab while you are in the pub / club and enable who's near.

We did it at one of our favourite local bars and there were 2 profiles that were in the same bar.

We ended up chatting to both that night.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
42 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Go onto Fab Swingers and click on "who's near".

If you see us, say hi! X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

There was a thread yesterday.

I remember mention of black rings on right ring finger

Upside down pineapple

Fab lolly fridge magnet

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By *ingeandTCouple
42 weeks ago

Peterborough

My husband will often just ask/tell people!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

"Go on Fab while you are in the pub / club and enable who's near.

We did it at one of our favourite local bars and there were 2 profiles that were in the same bar.

We ended up chatting to both that night.

I did it once and there was a tall young man in the same pub. We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
42 weeks ago

There and Here

Do be aware that not everyone wants to be approached by other swingers when they're out.

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By *herryEatersCouple
42 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Ha yes it's a difficult one. Sometimes we can tell by the way they look at us, that look in their eye, how affectionate/tactile they are when they come over and sit with us

.... Look around, catch their eye, smile

Fab lolly fridge magnet !, must get one of those and stick it on the car lol

. Hmmm a fab lolly attached to Cherry's handbag, lolly earrings or necklace...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd be extremely pissed if someone approached me in a bar/public as a swinger.

Easiest way is go to a swingers club/social.

Mrs

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By *valanche1001Man
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Surely the anklet is a good indicator, add an ‘H W’ or a key and you can proceed directly to waving your penis about - I think, don’t quote me in your court case.

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By *randmrs757Couple
42 weeks ago

South coast

"Go on Fab while you are in the pub / club and enable who's near.

We did it at one of our favourite local bars and there were 2 profiles that were in the same bar.

We ended up chatting to both that night.

I did it once and there was a tall young man in the same pub. We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy. "

But was it worth the 2 hour walk to get there?

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

taunton somerset

put simply you dont unless things get flirty ... people have tried for years to make a sign for swinging mainly men (i wonder why) and it never works why because 99% of swingers dont want a sign they dont want mainly men pestering then whiles out and about ...

its why you see certain people pushing ''the sign'' agenda ... i could not think of anything worse ..

swinging is about meeting those you want to meet not those you dont

the latest upsidedown pineapple i have a friend who decided to get it tattooed he turned up at the club and nearly everyone spent the night taking the piss but he thought it was a real sign he now realise what a idiot he is for getting it done

even the anklets that are pretty clear in what they mean dont work

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

" We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy.

But was it worth the 2 hour walk to get there?

He had to give me mouth to mouth resuscitation and a few chest pumps

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By *WB85Man
42 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If only it was that easy.

I sometimes have to remind myself that I'm in the vanilla world and not be inappropriate as you may be in a club situation.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Central

Most people prefer discretion. Sure, engage socially and tell people what you want to about yourself - but don't assume that most swingers are out to all and sundry

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By *lueDressWoman
42 weeks ago

Bath

About 25 years ago someone that I used to know.. He would presume that if someone was wearing leather trousers that they were into the kink world. What a twat

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By *teveanddebsCouple
42 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

For my mum cuckold relationships my gf wore my chastity key around her neck and on an anklet .... That plus a glimpse of her stocking top was a reasonable clue to the eagle eyed

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By *rpeggioCouple
42 weeks ago

Baughurst

"How to identify a swinger when in public eg bars etc."

And then what? Being approached by all sorts of people that think that because we are swingers we'll have sex with anyone or everyone? Single men who are not even swingers? Entitled couples? Couples that have had one too many on the night?

We prefer to keep swinging to clubs, parties and Fab, where we can socialise, mingle and control whom we approach if we detect some interest (and easily deal with rejection from them) and choose who we are open to be approached from.

So even if there was a universal sign for it, we would not use it in a vanilla environment.

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By *exymarvelMan
42 weeks ago

cardiff

Id say if ur on fab in the bar then itll be down to the situation, if ur in a swinging setting and if you werent. Maybe a discrete message through fab offering a social chat or drink. And if its ignored or politely refused then stay away. Discretion and politeness is key

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Afraid to say my husband does same.. initially as a joke but it puts the question out there

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By *wingdance1Couple
42 weeks ago

Cumberland

" We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy.

But was it worth the 2 hour walk to get there?

He had to give me mouth to mouth resuscitation and a few chest pumps"

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By *NMMaleMan
42 weeks ago

Bewdley

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By *NMMaleMan
42 weeks ago

Bewdley

"Go on Fab while you are in the pub / club and enable who's near.

We did it at one of our favourite local bars and there were 2 profiles that were in the same bar.

We ended up chatting to both that night.

Ooh where was that? X

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By *revaunanceCouple
42 weeks ago

Exeter

Why identify people? Surely if they want to be known they would identify themselves?

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By *ags73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

" We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy.

But was it worth the 2 hour walk to get there?

He had to give me mouth to mouth resuscitation and a few chest pumps"

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By *adyinred696969Couple
42 weeks ago

Brecon

We would go out of our way to avoid advertising that we are swingers in public!

To be honest, we would probably have second thoughts about approaching someone who advertised publicly too, we prefer a bit of discretion.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
42 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

"Do be aware that not everyone wants to be approached by other swingers when they're out."

this is very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

We are aware if some if the signs like inverted pineapple. But we kinda like to not advertise.

We would be more likely to find out by accident by talking than picking up on covert signs. Well the off woukd she can chat for Wales.

There are way to many single males who "identify as swingers" because they want a threesome or kink their partner isn't into and they are to cheap to pay for it. With the misplaced idea that when you give the secret signal/handshake everything is on offer.

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By *ysonfuryMan
41 weeks ago

Stockport

"There was a thread yesterday.

I remember mention of black rings on right ring finger

Upside down pineapple

Fab lolly fridge magnet"

I've got the fab lolly fridge magnet and a pineapple bottle opener as a couple of clues

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By *unglevipsCouple
41 weeks ago

Somerset

"About 25 years ago someone that I used to know.. He would presume that if someone was wearing leather trousers that they were into the kink world. What a twat"

I’m wondering whether we worked with the same guy at some stage.

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By *i_Blonde_BabeWoman
41 weeks ago

cardiff or just passing through

I wear an anklet when out but it’s more just to turn him on - in probably 5 years of wearing one it has never lead to any form of approach from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've been identified while out at the shops but then my face pics are known. Though they haven't come up to me I realised they are fellow fabbers by the way they give me knowing looks and smiles then they message me on here

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By *ACOLCouple
41 weeks ago

limerick

I never knew about the ankle thingy until a family member asked k if I knew what it meant recently (they have no clue about our fav hobbie) I was shocked and laughed it off as I like how they look mainly

Lina

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By *ecky and justCouple
41 weeks ago

Godalming

Our gate post has concrete pineapple on top and the doormat is upside down pineapples..

if you find where we are and present us with an upside down pineapple and give the secret handshake you’ll be whisked inside for 24 hours of depravity and kink.

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By *reenleavesCouple
41 weeks ago

North Wales

It's probably easier to identify yourselves as swingers and let them find you

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By *edsthewordMan
41 weeks ago

West Midlands

"I wear an anklet when out but it’s more just to turn him on - in probably 5 years of wearing one it has never lead to any form of approach from anyone

They’re probably just intimidated - you’re gorgeous.

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By *oomerangbobMan
41 weeks ago

stanhope

Stem of pampas grass behind their right ear I think

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By *heckmate969TV/TS
39 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Where can I find the Who's Near icon?

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By *revaunanceCouple
39 weeks ago

Exeter

"Where can I find the Who's Near icon?"

If your on a phone it is a grey button at the top right of the Home Screen called ‘see who’s near’.

You cannot see the button on a PC.

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By *heckmate969TV/TS
39 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I use an iPad or laptop, so that explains it.

Thank you.

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By *adCherriesCouple
39 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I dont know but we once booked into a hotel and got a message off a couple on fab asking if they had just seen us booking into said hotel. We asked how they knew it was us and they said you looked like swingers. They were going to the same event and we shared a cab (but nothing else lol)

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By *bcplCouple
39 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

"Go on Fab while you are in the pub / club and enable who's near.

We did it at one of our favourite local bars and there were 2 profiles that were in the same bar.

We ended up chatting to both that night.

I did it once and there was a tall young man in the same pub. We had sex in the Wetherspoons toilets. Classy. "

Would love this to happen with the Mrs

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By *ommander_StraxMan
39 weeks ago

Telford

I always heard about the pineapple and the grass outside, which always made me laugh. I bloody hate pineapple

Though it’s oddly easy when the wife and I go to clubs and stop over. You get the state and, occasionally, the FAB message from people who clock who you are.

Though I will admit it it would be a LOT easier if we could have faces public… sadly no can do.

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