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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

I’m not getting any messages

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry to hear this. You have lots of good pics.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
37 weeks ago

South Down

Why ask for help when you've never bothered to act on any advice given previously?

Of course no-one is beholden to take advice, but to continually ask the same question over and over just screams "look at me"

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

You're one man in a quite a few thousand. An estimate, but the ratio of men to women across practically all apps and sites are a minimum of 10:1, more I'd say.

This is absolutely normal and you're better off just putting feelers out, send the odd message, ignoring this, getting on with your life and not expecting much.

Lack of a response counts as a no here, due to having to sort out a huge amount of messages every day and not having enough time to do it.

If you hope and pray too much, you'll end up disappointed. It's a harsh reality, but it is reality nonetheless.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
37 weeks ago

Lancs


"I’m not getting any messages "

As you appear to have been told multiple times before I would suggest going back to one of the many threads you’ve posted before on this and taking some of the advice.

You have a decent range of pics but your bio is crap. You need to actually write about what you are looking for and, more importantly, what you can offer potential partners.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

If you’re sending messages which aren’t being replied to, which are like your many forum posts (ie brief and entitled-sounding) - I’m not surprised.

If you’re waiting for people to message you on the ‘strength’ of your profile text - I’m also not surprised.

Added to this would be the problem of anyone checking your forum history and the fact you’ve not really taken any of the kindly-offered advice to date, to which point, I don’t really know why I’m bothering typing this….

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’m not getting any messages "

This is a statement, not a question which requires an answer.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
37 weeks ago

East Sussex

Danny, are you sending messages and not getting replies or waiting for people to message you?

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By *edWitch0000Woman
37 weeks ago

worthing

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford

Why should people message you, OP? What have you got to offer that others can't? And are you making it clear on your profile what you can offer rather than just using generic "I'm looking to meet women/couples" or similar, or worse still have a list of your demands without anything else?

Most of the time, the profile is the reason why the person doesn't get any messages.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
37 weeks ago

west london

There's alot lot lot lot more men here than any other category. Be patient

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By *endalshaggersCouple
37 weeks ago

Kendal

Unlucky.

99% of all the single male profiles on this site state they're "Looking to explore and try new things".

Sure you have a decent selection of different pictures but your profile message is crap. It gives absolutely no clue as to what you're actually looking for, or wanting, from this site bar obviously wanting sex.

Flesh your profile text out a bit more, give potential partners something to go off.

With the huge ratio of single men on here people aren't going to waste their time messaging you to find out what it is you're after when there's a queue of other single males behind you.

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