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I redone my profile am I wasting my time

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

brighton

We redone our profile the last one really wasn't working

What do people think are we wasting our time

I have been as honest and to the point

?

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By *edWitch0000Woman
38 weeks ago

worthing

Honestly, looking for a single woman is hard as it is, and your situation is challenging as there are things you aren't able to do sexually. You may be lucky and find a bi (female leaning) woman who was into your partner and happy for you to join to the level you are able, but you're fishing in a very small pond. Also not sure how you're planning to attract a woman when you have no pics of your partner?

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By *chochamberWoman
38 weeks ago

Munster

You need to put up pics and advertise the ways you can bring joy to a play mate.

You are curvey.... Do you like curvey? What are you offering?

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By *ickNick500Man
38 weeks ago

Herts

I'd suggest trying some of the social events, where you can be yourselves and people can take you as they find you. Will be much easier for your personality to outshine any physical challenges.

Or even a club if you are feeling up to it.

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By *iss DevilWoman
38 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, your profile is very confusing. The username suggests just a single man, most of your veris are regarding a single man and your only public photo is just of a man. Are you a couple then or not? And if you are, is she involved in the meets or would it just be the male? If you are a genuine couple that are meeting together, get photos of the two of you together. They don't have to be explicit.

And good luck, OP.

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By *layfullsamMan
38 weeks ago

Solihull

Your profile is your shop window Thomas, be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself would you meet you if you were a single lady browsing?

I’d think socials and clubs would be best so people can see past the health problems and see your personality etc

You won’t be for the majority (like most of us that have difficulty with getting a meet) but you might just meet that one person who wants what you can offer

Sad to hear of your difficulties re health have a great weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"We redone our profile the last one really wasn't working

What do people think are we wasting our time

I have been as honest and to the point

? "
who is the we the pic is of a man ?

If it's getting you down then quit because its not worth feeling bad about it. Too many men and not enough women so it's unlikely you will meet anyone right

Take care hun xxxxx

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

brighton

Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
38 weeks ago

Chester


"Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go "

I don’t understand how it’s using her as bait if it’s a couple account and it sounds like you want to meet together?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Central

It's fine having some limitations

, which the male half has outlined for himself.

But the profile is written as if it's totally a single man's profile. Make it clear and not confusing, otherwise just that will deter people.

Rewrite it as a couple's profile.

You will have to sell yourselves, especially if you want to meet women.

I'd recommend clubs, so that you get others to know you as you are.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
38 weeks ago

South Down


"Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go "

It's not using her as bait if you're looking to meet as a couple. The majority of people interested in meeting a couple will want to see both of you

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

brighton

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By *adCherriesCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go "

I dont think your profile is just the problem.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go "

I much prefer social events to meet people, it's far easier at face value.

I would suggest a profile pic at minimum id ignore a black profile pic.

Maybe more pics of you both too, we have to guage attraction from a profile on here so more than one pic would be a good start.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Also a bit more bio, it's good you've addressed your stroke but what are you looking for? what can you offer? What are you into? I can't tell at all.

Mrs

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
37 weeks ago

Tamworth

I mean, your profile only outlines you, the male half of the couple.

Are you a couple or not? What do you want and what are you offering? Why haven't you changed the silhouette pic?

Be honest with yourself, looking at your profile, would you want to meet you?

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By *alandNitaCouple
37 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"We redone our profile the last one really wasn't working

What do people think are we wasting our time

I have been as honest and to the point

? "

If your write up is honest as yoy say, you should probably have a single male profile.

There's no indication in the text that you're a couple.

Nita

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By *edWitch0000Woman
37 weeks ago

worthing


"Ok thanks to you all made be see I'm wasting my time

By showing pictures of my wife and technical using her as bait is something I think is unfair

I will change the thing and give up this path and try the social events and give thet a go "

You've changed your bio I think? I'm sure last time I looked it mentioned playing with your wife. Now it just looks like you're a single man and this post backs that up. Why are you trying to use a couple profile if you're not playing as a couple?

To answer your original question in light of this information, I'm sorry but I think looking for women on a swinger site as a single man when you aren't physically capable of having full sex isn't likely to be successful. If you were looking to date I wouldn't say such a thing but swinging is essentially about sex, so...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

There is nothing in your profile about what the woman of the couple can offer

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By *aughtythomas42 OP   Man
37 weeks ago

brighton


"There is nothing in your profile about what the woman of the couple can offer"

We have chess and tea ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"There is nothing in your profile about what the woman of the couple can offer

We have chess and tea ?"

Maybe you could mention tea and chess on your profile then

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By *edWitch0000Woman
37 weeks ago

worthing

'Lady I do have'

You're just looking more and more sus! If you have a couple profile why are you not posting from it? Are you pulling our legs?

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"'Lady I do have'

You're just looking more and more sus! If you have a couple profile why are you not posting from it? Are you pulling our legs?"

I’d agree - it now looks really dodgy! Get a single male profile if that’s how you want things to go.

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