FabSwingers.com forum: Profile thoughts please...

By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Southend

Hi all,

Had a profile on here for a while, but been hidden until fairly recently as simply not had the time.

Would appreciate honest thoughts around profile. Only thing I will say in advance is due to line of work I do not have a face pic on profile.

Thanks in advance for your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Profile blurb is only one aspect of the site

Go on chat forum and chat to some people that you like, see if you click.

Have a look for some socials in your area.

Stalk some mens profiles in secret mode and have a look at their photos

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By *izzy.Woman
47 weeks ago

Stoke area

I've had a quick look and it's a good profile explaining clearly what you are looking for and your interests.

My only negative is that you don't have a profile pic. Some people have filters set, that you would be blocked and wouldn't be able to contact them due to this.

Just put your public photo as your profile pic. You don't need to have face pics, but nothing stopping you having a variety of photos and just crop your face off them.

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By *revaunanceCouple
47 weeks ago

Exeter

To echo the thoughts of others your blurb is short and sweet and to the point, and you don't have a profile pic.

Picking up on the latter point, it's worth knowing that most people won't meet with a silhouette, so an interesting profile pic is usually the first enticement to look further. As previously suggested you can just set the pic you currently have on your profile as your profile pic. However if you are going to do that I would suggest that you upload the same photo with a pixellated face rather than a great big orange block. You can use free tools online to pixelate your face to protect your privacy, just google it.

Good luck

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Southend

Many thanks for your replies, in all honesty I thought my public profile was my main profile pic!

I'll get that sorted out.

Appreciate your time in replying

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By *izzy.Woman
47 weeks ago

Stoke area

"Many thanks for your replies, in all honesty I thought my public profile was my main profile pic!

I'll get that sorted out.

Appreciate your time in replying"

Good to see you followed advise given

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By *antasysoulsCouple
47 weeks ago

Dumfries

Tbh certain phrases on fab are really just red flags for certain things "been here before know how this works" no you haven't "can't accommodate" yeah because you're not single "can't have a face pic because of work" yeah because you're the only person on fab that has a job "to the university of Sydney" so you have an iq in the double digits. Theres many more to which result in men not getting meets and wondering why.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

Would appreciate honest thoughts around profile. "

"Like to explore new things"

This is so vague. Could you maybe give some examples ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

"Only thing I will say in advance is due to line of work I do not have a face pic on profile.

Even without showing your face it's easily possible have a wide range of pics

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Southend

That was more intended as I'm open minded for suggestions of others, hadn't considered that context.

I'll add more around that and delve a little deeper.

Thanks for the pointer...

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Southend

Seems silly asking for advice and then not taking it.

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By *r_Curious_1 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Southend

Ha ha good point re the orange blob! It was a speed thing, I'll get that updated sometime soon too

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By *allySlinkyWoman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

"Ha ha good point re the orange blob! It was a speed thing, I'll get that updated sometime soon too"

Just crop off the orange blob. It will only take seconds.

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