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"So we are fairly new to this as a couple and when looking for other couples or single F on here how do you come to an agreement on who you like? Problem we have is I Mr like a certain type of woman. Now we have also discovered on our journey that Mrs also has a type of woman but different to me ![]() Just find two women, one that suits each of your preferences, and have an FFFM They're ten a penny on Fab. Should be a doddle. ![]() | |||
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"So we are fairly new to this as a couple and when looking for other couples or single F on here how do you come to an agreement on who you like? Problem we have is I Mr like a certain type of woman. Now we have also discovered on our journey that Mrs also has a type of woman but different to me ![]() That's what we say I think. For us both there has to be some physical attraction and a need to connect on a mental level I.e we get on, click etc | |||
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"I know people will say that neither side should ever take one for the team but we never think it's quite that clear cut. For us the best way to express it would be that we both have a minimum threshold. If the other party really likes the look of someone, but us not so much, but they are above the threshold, then one will "take one for the team" to that extent. But if the person/couple are below that, then no" Now thats an intriguing thought. I would love to know what the threshold is | |||
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"Nobody should take one for the team, wait till you find someone you both like...otherwise it could well end in regrets and a shit night." “Nobody should take one for the team” Most broken rule in the lifestyle. | |||
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" Now thats an intriguing thought. I would love to know what the threshold is" As the 4 way attraction is so hard to find we do have a threshold.... So... say it was myself that wouldn't 'choose' the male half of the other couple. I would go ahead with it if he wasn't an absolute no, if there were things about him I could focus on as positives ... I've a friend in the scene who has said she's had some of the best sex in her life with men whom were initially a 'no' due to attraction for her. K | |||
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"So we are fairly new to this as a couple and when looking for other couples or single F on here how do you come to an agreement on who you like? Problem we have is I Mr like a certain type of woman. Now we have also discovered on our journey that Mrs also has a type of woman but different to me ![]() Cherry is certainly more fussy than I Tony yet neither will take one for the team. Luckily in general we go for the same type and look. We have some basic wants, once enough boxes are ticked it's down to face pics then social (with no promises of play after) | |||
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"Neither of us would put the other in such a situation where we're taking one for the team. That said, being pragmatic with expectations and flexible if one of us takes a particular liking to a couple or wants to try a certain thing is a must. But then good comms should be standard in any couple really." I think pragmatism is the answer | |||
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"Go to clubs, you will find that you are more likely to play with people you speak to in person than by sifting loads of pics and profiles. " Yeah starting to agree with that one. Been to a club twice now met some lovely people | |||
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"Yeah that’ll make it even more difficult for you both. A four way attraction is very hard to get right - liking different types of women, even harder still! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Firstly it’s so hard to find a couples profile that has any pics of Mr and even more difficult as it’s usually just his cock 10/10 incredibly accurate statement. | |||
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