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Accommodating in profile advice needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I finished my time in the services & moved home with my father. I was all set to buy my own place but he suggested that we get a bigger & better place together as he wasn't happy with the area he was in. It made sense so we did. I am not embarrassed by this & originally put it on my profile as I don't want anyone thinking I am married or involved.

He does holiday 3 or 4 times a year & is out with his shaky hand club a lot so accommodating is not always out of the question. Would this put you off or should I put it back in my profile?

Many thanks for your replies & any more profile tips would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to be honest and put it back on your profile. Wouldn't put us off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My advice would be to be honest and put it back on your profile. Wouldn't put us off. "

It's what I was leaning towards, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put us off either

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

enjoy and go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, I finished my time in the services & moved home with my father. I was all set to buy my own place but he suggested that we get a bigger & better place together as he wasn't happy with the area he was in. It made sense so we did. I am not embarrassed by this & originally put it on my profile as I don't want anyone thinking I am married or involved.

He does holiday 3 or 4 times a year & is out with his shaky hand club a lot so accommodating is not always out of the question. Would this put you off or should I put it back in my profile?

Many thanks for your replies & any more profile tips would be appreciated.

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Hi. Nice profile, nice pics. Shame no public face pic. Anyway, you are too far from me. But yes put that you can accommodate back in your profile, I would explain why too briefly. I, as a female, like info and give it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, I finished my time in the services & moved home with my father. I was all set to buy my own place but he suggested that we get a bigger & better place together as he wasn't happy with the area he was in. It made sense so we did. I am not embarrassed by this & originally put it on my profile as I don't want anyone thinking I am married or involved.

He does holiday 3 or 4 times a year & is out with his shaky hand club a lot so accommodating is not always out of the question. Would this put you off or should I put it back in my profile?

Many thanks for your replies & any more profile tips would be appreciated.

"

Hi. Nice profile, nice pics. Shame no public face pic. Anyway, you are too far from me. But yes put that you can accommodate back in your profile, I would explain why too briefly. I, as a female, like info and give it myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys, I have put it back on my profile now. I have face pics in my private gallery for friends but am considering putting up on public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not quite sure what you asking?

Would what put me off, the fact you live with your dad?

If so, only put it in your profile if you wish to, I don't accommodate but I give no explanation as to why, my home life is my business and I don't feel I need to explain it to people on here, if they assume its because im married then so be it, im not but I don't feel I need to explain that to anyone on here, and if they tell me they don't want to meet because they feel im playing away I don't try to change their mind by explaining im not, I feel people want to know way to much of your private life on here, just for a shag!!

By the way no it wouldn't put me off so long as he wasn't there when you invited me round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys, I have put it back on my profile now. I have face pics in my private gallery for friends but am considering putting up on public. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not quite sure what you asking?

Would what put me off, the fact you live with your dad?

If so, only put it in your profile if you wish to, I don't accommodate but I give no explanation as to why, my home life is my business and I don't feel I need to explain it to people on here, if they assume its because im married then so be it, im not but I don't feel I need to explain that to anyone on here, and if they tell me they don't want to meet because they feel im playing away I don't try to change their mind by explaining im not, I feel people want to know way to much of your private life on here, just for a shag!!

By the way no it wouldn't put me off so long as he wasn't there when you invited me round lol"
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Ha ha, of course that'd be just plain wrong thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the honest and upfront approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer the honest and upfront approach. "

So do I which is why I put it on originally, just wasn't sure if it would be off putting. But now I think if someone wants to meet, it won't matter. Not sure about the face pics tho being a fugly!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You worrying too much that's all

Trust me the ladies on here always find out if you are honest or not with this accommodation talk and will be fine with any alternative if you can't take them home with your dad being around

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You come across as a decent guy, and you've provided info that many of us would like. You maybe don't need as much detail on how you worked out the family accom part, but having something does set you apart from many, and they leave people wondering if they're cheating, so you're definitely doing the right thing.

Good luck!

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