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By *immy_gent OP   Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Hey, I was d*unk last night and lying next to a girl I have fancied for ages. We were both naked and fooling around. She got me a condom but almost as soon as i put it on I lost my erection and couldn't get it back. This has happened twice now with different girls but the problem stopped with the last girl after about the third or fourth time we tried.

I don't think I'm going to get that many chances with the current girl I'm seeing and want to know if anyone has used any of pills you can get online?

Is there anything anyone can recommend?

Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try shagging them when your sober!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try shagging them when your sober! "

lol

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By *immy_gent OP   Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

haha, thanks! Unfortunately, that's not likely to happen for a while...

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"haha, thanks! Unfortunately, that's not likely to happen for a while..."

Youre not likely to be sober for a while?? Thats slightly worrying......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol is most likely to be causing the problem and doubt taking tablets will have much effect. Try drinking less next time and see if that makes a difference. Probably more pleasant for the lady concerned if you're less d*unk. Good luck.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I agree it's probably the alcohol; if you can maintain an erection when you're sober that's the answer. I never drink when I'm playing for precisely that reason - did it once and it was just too embarrassing. I'd also be very wary of taking any tablets bought online & not prescribed as you don't know what you're buying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's either alcohol, or the condoms you are using are too tight. Those are the only reasons I ever struggle. If the problem persists when sober, switch to a wider brand of condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I was d*unk last night and lying next to a girl I have fancied for ages. We were both naked and fooling around. She got me a condom but almost as soon as i put it on I lost my erection and couldn't get it back. This has happened twice now with different girls but the problem stopped with the last girl after about the third or fourth time we tried.

I don't think I'm going to get that many chances with the current girl I'm seeing and want to know if anyone has used any of pills you can get online?

Is there anything anyone can recommend?

Thank you in advance"

Im going to say the same as the others. Either just have the one drink or no drink. Id like a drink out with someone but and this is going to sound double-standards, dont think it would affect the female like it may possibly the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whiskey dick never works,also do you have to be d*unk to find her attractive?

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By *immy_gent OP   Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Hey, thanks everyone for your help. The problem is that there are a few issues that I can't really explain which means that we just can't have sex unless she's d*unk.

As regards to me, I'm not sure if it's purely the drink or the fact that I have tried so hard and so long to get this girl, that I'm too worried something is gonna go wrong or something. I honestly don't know what it is, I just don't want it to happen again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she can't have sex unless she's really d*unk then please tread carefully as there may be issues of consent. Encourage her to seek specialist counselling if the opportunity arises and it's appropriate as I've heard it can be very effective. Good luck.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

She has to be d*unk to have sex.....woooooah. Back away mate very quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she can't have sex unless she's really d*unk then please tread carefully as there may be issues of consent. Encourage her to seek specialist counselling if the opportunity arises and it's appropriate as I've heard it can be very effective. Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha, thanks! Unfortunately, that's not likely to happen for a while..."

Why are you an alcoholic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha, thanks! Unfortunately, that's not likely to happen for a while..."

Why? Have you run out of beer then..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like performance anxiety. alcohol does not help either.take the pressure off your self and say you dont have any condoms and enjoy everything but the intercourse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, thanks everyone for your help. The problem is that there are a few issues that I can't really explain which means that we just can't have sex unless she's d*unk.

As regards to me, I'm not sure if it's purely the drink or the fact that I have tried so hard and so long to get this girl, that I'm too worried something is gonna go wrong or something. I honestly don't know what it is, I just don't want it to happen again! "

Can't have sex with YOU unless she's d*unk, or just can't in general unless she's plastered? Either way, you are on dodgy ground there with consent issues.

Your drinking is NOT helping - it will only make any emotional issues worse, NOT better.

I think you and this 'young lady' need to have a proper conversation - when BOTH of you are stone-cold sober!!

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By *immy_gent OP   Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Ok, I understand what people are saying. Just to be clear, there are no consent issues involved at all. I would never go near that kind of situation.

Thanks for the advice about enjoying everything else within sex but that was a no go too. I'm thinking about trying a 'little blue pill' and seeing if that works, has anyone tried this before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unclear why you would pose a risk to your health by taking a pill when many people above have advised you that alcohol is likely to be causing the problem. Your body so up to you what you do. Not sure how effective the little blue pills are when you've had a skinful tho. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a pill safe when you've been drinking?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Hey, thanks everyone for your help. The problem is that there are a few issues that I can't really explain which means that we just can't have sex unless she's d*unk.

As regards to me, I'm not sure if it's purely the drink or the fact that I have tried so hard and so long to get this girl, that I'm too worried something is gonna go wrong or something. I honestly don't know what it is, I just don't want it to happen again!

Can't have sex with YOU unless she's d*unk, or just can't in general unless she's plastered? Either way, you are on dodgy ground there with consent issues.

Your drinking is NOT helping - it will only make any emotional issues worse, NOT better.

I think you and this 'young lady' need to have a proper conversation - when BOTH of you are stone-cold sober!!"

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Will the little blue pill be on prescription? As I very much doubt a doctor will prescribe it. If you buy it online how do you know its safe? You could have an unknown medical problem and take a pill with drink. Very risky.

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