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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I missing something or just stupid but I cant seem to understand why a straight guy would want to meet a cd/tv ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps they r just findin their sexuality ,,,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

They're not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not straight."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often wondered about this when a straight guy approaches me. I usually ask him what the game is and even been told its to bump their friends list up. I always say no to them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often wondered about this when a straight guy approaches me. I usually ask him what the game is and even been told its to bump their friends list up. I always say no to them now "

We get told sorry its a mistake when we ask

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It used to annoy me, but I'm not so bothered now when I get a message from some straight guy who wants to do me, or for me to do them.

I'm now on the warpath against guys who have no pics and then message you asking if they can see your private pics

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Am I missing something or just stupid but I cant seem to understand why a straight guy would want to meet a cd/tv ?"

It's not you that is stupid.

It's them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bottom line is they do not want to put bi down as they believe it will put cpls off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not straight."

They can still count themselves as straight if the tv is convincing. Apparently!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bottom line is they do not want to put bi down as they believe it will put cpls off"

This is exactly it! We only tend to meet orally bi guys, but the amount of messages we get from so called 'straight' guys who then say that the above quote is exactly the reason they put 'straight' in their profiles - why lie? Just to get meets? We just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not straight.

They can still count themselves as straight if the tv is convincing. Apparently!!! "

PMSL!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a popular internet search tool, and type the following.

"The straightness of gay men - Steve Hughes"

Regards

M and J

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I used to wonder about this too but I've realised over time that lots of guys who say or think they're straight simply get turned on by the idea of having someone who's dressed sexily wanking or sucking them and then maybe getting to fuck that person.

I don't mind now if they say they're straight on their profile as long as they treat me nicely.

XX

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Totally agree , nothing wrong with having fun with a sexy TV/CD , some make better friends than straight people xxxx

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By *aidbackcplMan
over a year ago

blackpool


"I used to wonder about this too but I've realised over time that lots of guys who say or think they're straight simply get turned on by the idea of having someone who's dressed sexily wanking or sucking them and then maybe getting to fuck that person.

I don't mind now if they say they're straight on their profile as long as they treat me nicely.

XX"

we have met a lovely tv/tgirl off here twice now and had so much horny fun with her we love it .

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By *owie144TV/TS
over a year ago

halesowen

I used to be a closest cross dresser but found out that I was just a bisexual. I have had more messages from straight men than ever since I changed my profile to BI. I send these people invites or messages and get no answer from them. I put it down to them just not being ready to say they are Bi.

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By *andydavidsonTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Until youve decided on a sexual preference, you cant give yourself a label.

Therefore by default we are all born Bi-Curious until we decide if we like willy, fanny or a bit of both.

Or am i just over simplifying things? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they like tv/ts simply because they usually dress sexy and take more attention to looking good then long term wives who just get stuck in a rut about how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe they like tv/ts simply because they usually dress sexy and take more attention to looking good then long term wives who just get stuck in a rut about how they look"

Regardless how much effort they put in to getting dressed doesn't take the fact away that they have a cock and balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys are scared to state bisexuality cause they know they'll be discriminated against. Also sexuality can be such a grey area - just to play devils advocate it's possible that straight guys are attracted to the feminine features of a lovely t-girl as opposed to her genitalia.

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By *ipper DeVineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This iS a good topic. I have to put down bisexual even though I'm not attracted to men, I'm 100% in to girls, there gorgeous. And I won't to be with one forever, I like there clothes, mannerisms, ans style, looks, and so on. I don't won't to shag a bloke I find it hard to get aroused for them. Just not for me,

Now here is the dodgy bit? I love being shagged and love sucking on a cock, but absolutely no attraction to the male form. So what am I ment to out down? Xxx one Love to you all xxx

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Until youve decided on a sexual preference, you cant give yourself a label.

Therefore by default we are all born Bi-Curious until we decide if we like willy, fanny or a bit of both.

Or am i just over simplifying things? Lol"

IMHO every male and female finds themselves on a sexual preference scale with say gay = 1, bi = 5 and hetero = 10.

Until we individually experience and experiment sexually, we can't say where we are on the scale.

Me, I have myself as bisexual on FAB. But I do not fuck guys nor do I let guys fuck me - that is reserved for partners.

The difficulty is that the "bi" label means different things to different people. I think that thouse who have accepted their sexuality fully understand that bi means different things and understand that the "bi" label does not just mean 5 on the scale I mention above.

I think also that hetero people through social conditioning, religious/cultural upbringing etc often find it difficult to accept that they are anything less than 10 - I.e. 100% straight 100% of the time.

Swingingdom is a fickle world - seems Ok for females to say they are bi (no doubt cos to a guy that conjures up voyeuristic lesbian fantasy imagery) but woe betide any guy that says they are bi.

Hope this helps the debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I missing something or just stupid but I cant seem to understand why a straight guy would want to meet a cd/tv ?"

They wouldn't; simple as that - the men you're talking about are obviously not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of variety maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I missing something or just stupid but I cant seem to understand why a straight guy would want to meet a cd/tv ?"

It's because you look like a woman and all t girls have nice legs.

Simple

X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"maybe they like tv/ts simply because they usually dress sexy and take more attention to looking good then long term wives who just get stuck in a rut about how they look

Regardless how much effort they put in to getting dressed doesn't take the fact away that they have a cock and balls"

Think that's how some of the "straight" men justify it to themselves.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Until youve decided on a sexual preference, you cant give yourself a label.

Therefore by default we are all born Bi-Curious until we decide if we like willy, fanny or a bit of both.

Or am i just over simplifying things? Lol

IMHO every male and female finds themselves on a sexual preference scale with say gay = 1, bi = 5 and hetero = 10.

Until we individually experience and experiment sexually, we can't say where we are on the scale.

Me, I have myself as bisexual on FAB. But I do not fuck guys nor do I let guys fuck me - that is reserved for partners.

The difficulty is that the "bi" label means different things to different people. I think that thouse who have accepted their sexuality fully understand that bi means different things and understand that the "bi" label does not just mean 5 on the scale I mention above.

I think also that hetero people through social conditioning, religious/cultural upbringing etc often find it difficult to accept that they are anything less than 10 - I.e. 100% straight 100% of the time.

Swingingdom is a fickle world - seems Ok for females to say they are bi (no doubt cos to a guy that conjures up voyeuristic lesbian fantasy imagery) but woe betide any guy that says they are bi.

Hope this helps the debate.

"

Why do some bisexuals find it difficult to accept there are people who are 100% heterosexual, not remotely curious, happy in their sexuality enjoying full and happy sex lives?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not straight. "

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By *rcalmMan
over a year ago

leeds/bradford

a shags a shag m/fm,anal,just sex,but i say im not bi?? must be a whore,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I Mrs wanted to play with a woman that is dressed like a man that would make me straight?! No it wouldn't because they are still a female underneath the clothes.

It always seems to be people that are bi that can not accept that some one is straight, always has been and will be. It is that sort of thinking why we won't play with a couple were the male is bi.

Yes I am aware that not all people think like that before it is said.

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