FabSwingers.com forum: My gf

By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Would love to see her sucking and fucking another guy. And she's admitted she'd like to try a threesome with another guy.

Problem is that she keeps suggesting my best mate. I've said if we go down this path, we can't bring in close friends as it will make things awkward between us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure she actually wants a 3some or does she just fancy your mate?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It could be that she doesn't want to say no to you outright so she's choosing a man she knows you won't agree to?

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By *orny guy 6630 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

She brought it up out of nowhere last night. And as things stand, she's still unaware I want to see her pussy filled with someone else's cock.

There is an element of me not wanting to see a close friend fuck her. But if it's someone we were to swing with, it's a different thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"She brought it up out of nowhere last night. And as things stand, she's still unaware I want to see her pussy filled with someone else's cock.

There is an element of me not wanting to see a close friend fuck her. But if it's someone we were to swing with, it's a different thing. "

Oh right.

I always say that anything like a threesome has to be something all three are happy with so if you don't want your mate to be the third it's a no go. To be honest I wouldn't want to see my husband with my best mate so I understand where you're coming from. Maybe if you tell her you'd enjoy it just not with him...

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"It could be that she doesn't want to say no to you outright so she's choosing a man she knows you won't agree to?"

Yes, or she is testing your resolve and how far you are willing to go if you really want this. The point is that it seems this is about what you want, not about what she wants, because what she wants she's already told you: your mate.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Proceed very carefully you are likely to lose your girlfriend, your mate, or both.

Perhaps you should open her eyes to other possibilities, through Fab for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to see a lady that wanted mfm but said for her to do it would have to be with man she already new had conecton with. Not a stranger where I said someone off here or at a club you don't have to see again if you don't want. Playing too near home or friends can be good as reason to be your house etc without others asking who was that but it can lead to bigger problems personal I aways stay away from friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what will happen if you follow through with this.

You will never trust your gf near your best mate and vice versa.

Your best mate will then tell all of his mates he’s fucked your gf and they will immediately think she’s fair game, it’s male mentality at its finest.

You lose your best mate, your gf will tire of your new insecurities and it all falls apart.

She’s suggesting him because mate, women are not daft. She’s basically saying no. Don’t push it buddy.

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By *ldschoolfunCouple
over a year ago

Knebworth

Get to a club asap, don't do it with your mate. Plenty of people out there, and she can decide if she really wants to go through with it

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By *ickD80Man
52 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"She brought it up out of nowhere last night. And as things stand, she's still unaware I want to see her pussy filled with someone else's cock.

There is an element of me not wanting to see a close friend fuck her. But if it's someone we were to swing with, it's a different thing. "

You’ve obviously discussed that you want to have a 3 some and you’ve told her that it can’t be with a close friend, but she’s unaware that you want to see her with another man? How is she unaware if you’ve discussed having a 3 some? I’m confused

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By *revaunanceCouple
52 weeks ago

Exeter

I'm intrigued to know how you got on when you arranged your last threesome with your girlfriend?

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1441106

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
52 weeks ago

manchester

"Would love to see her sucking and fucking another guy. And she's admitted she'd like to try a threesome with another guy.

Problem is that she keeps suggesting my best mate. I've said if we go down this path, we can't bring in close friends as it will make things awkward between us all. "

Pretty sure this should be in the story section. And filed under jackanory

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By *endalshaggersCouple
52 weeks ago

Lake District

Best friends are always very very sticky waters.

I fancy my wife's best friend, I'd love her to join us, but I know if she did it would potentially open up feelings for her, would inevitably cause some sort of stain on their friendship, and things would never be as they currently are again. It's a very fine line.

The issue here is it seems fairly obvious your friend has a thing for your mate, which is probably why she suggested him. And from your side, you say you want to see another man with her. When you visualise it, who do you see? Random Barry from accounts or your best mate? I'd wager its more likely Random Barry.

Let's say it does happen- as another commenter had said you could have everything to lose here over a very short term gain. If your missus and mate enjoy it, who's to say they won't continue behind your back? Who's to say your mate won't go bragging and other friends in your circle then may fancy their chances?

If it were me in your situation, I'd explain how uncomfortable you'd feel if it was your mate. I can see from her side as well and she maybe would be more comfortable with someone she knows.

Maybe in this situation hire a male esc*rt? Someone who would do the job, tick the boxes of having a MMF and you get to see another guy with her, but not someone close to you that it may be awkward and chances are you'd never see this guy again?

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
52 weeks ago

Middle England

"I'm intrigued to know how you got on when you arranged your last threesome with your girlfriend?

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1441106"

I feel sorry for the girlfriend. I suspect this profile will soon be UNLOS

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
52 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"Would love to see her sucking and fucking another guy. And she's admitted she'd like to try a threesome with another guy.

Problem is that she keeps suggesting my best mate. I've said if we go down this path, we can't bring in close friends as it will make things awkward between us all.

Pretty sure this should be in the story section. And filed under jackanory "

i properly snort laughed at this

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
52 weeks ago

Glasgowish

so how does your gf feel about your single male profile?

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By *orny-DJMan
52 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"so how does your gf feel about your single male profile? "

I was wondering that too. Verified by 3 meets too.

So you think it's ok to cheat on your girlfriend, but you'd have a problem with her shagging your best mate?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
52 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
52 weeks ago

Norwich

Op why not see if the guy you had a meet with is interested?

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