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Seeking Advice: How to Arrange My First Meet for Verification?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey fellow swingers,

I hope you're all having a fantastic time exploring the swinging scene! I'm relatively new here and eager to dive in, but I've hit a bit of a roadblock. I'm keen on getting verified through a first meet, but I'm not quite sure how to go about arranging it.

So, I'm turning to the experienced folks here for some advice. How did you manage to set up your first meet for verification? Any tips or strategies you can share?

I'm all ears and open to suggestions! Whether it's about initiating the conversation, choosing the right venue, or simply breaking the ice, I'd love to hear your insights.

Thanks in advance for your help, and I can't wait to start mingling with you all!

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Go to you local swingers club and talk to people and if you chat to someone say that your new and ask if the wouldn’t mind verifying you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice one dude, appreciate the advice

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By *ixiekissesWoman
over a year ago

Happy place

You have been on here over a year....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah signed up ages ago and haven't bothered until now lol probably should have set up a new profile

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Just chat to someone and ask them out for coffee.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton

Go to a local social mixer and chat to people. The organiser may give you a veri but if you can get a couple from people who you meet you'll have a good start. It's also a good way to make connections for RL fun, much better than sending messages on here.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Local club or organised social events (check out the meets and events section)

It's easy to get verified at either of these.

Mrs

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By *nytime2023Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

As others have said, socials and clubs is the best way. All but two of our verifications are from either socials or clubs. It’s really hard for single guys on here, particularly when you’re seeking females or FF couples. Good luck. V&K xx

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london


"Just chat to someone and ask them out for coffee."

Hi, great photo, interestingly succinct profile, fancy a coffee next time we pass by your way? We often head past your way. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like a plan to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice I can offer is to stop getting so hung up on that little green tick.

The more you have that as your focus, the less likely it is to happen.

Think about it, if people you show an interest in feel that you are only doing so because you're after getting that verification rather than you being genuinely interested in them, you've blown it.

Nobody on here is obliged to do you any favours, so it's unlikely that someone will willing meet you for a coffee just so you can get your green tick.

You have to remember that people have lives outside of fab and that they aren't swinging 24/7 or for anyone else's benefit but their own.

If you're that desperate for a veri, you can always try going on cam in the chat rooms and seeing if someone will verify you that way.

OK, it's not quite the same as a meet veri, but it still gives you that green tick and if you don't display your verifications or the summary, then nobody will know if it's a cam or meet veri.

What you should do is focus on finding people that you are compatible with.

Not everyone on here requires you to be verified and you also have to consider that a lot of people will appreciate that we all start out on here without a verification.

Some of us are even foolish enough to delete our verified profile only to return to the site after a while and have to start all over again

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Go to a club and chat to people. Ask them to verify you because you are new and are trying to build your profile. Ask the staff in the club to verify you too. They will always be happy to do that.

We would never meet an unverified account off here unless it was just a chance meet in a club.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

For single men here it's always about how he sells himself and investing effort. Profiles need to be top notch, giving women what they'd need to be able to see that he could be better for them than the dozens of others. Lots of photos, so we can guage whether we'd want to be next to you.

Get to socials and clubs and be friendly. People will verify you, without sex. It's not a magic bullet though

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