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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as saying tok much?

..iv recently found myself that my responses to messages are quite long

So, is there such a thing as saying too much in a message? I dont do one line messages or a few word messages.

..dont know what im doing wrong

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Just be yourself and write them as long as you feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends what your saying, at least it seems like your serious about meeting someone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As others have said it does depend on what you're saying also the length and content of the message you're responding to. People probably don't want to know your shopping list or a long account of your daily doings but an interesting and chatty message is always nice to receive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You carnt win most profiles say no txt speak. No one liners they will be deleted and ignored.

I always make a point of having some form of readable content.Just to find it gets deleted sometimes with out being read. Its got to the point where i dont bother now (i think i must smell). By the way feel free to ignore this comment and carry on with the conversation as if i wasnt here every one else does! lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You carnt win most profiles say no txt speak. No one liners they will be deleted and ignored.

I always make a point of having some form of readable content.Just to find it gets deleted sometimes with out being read. Its got to the point where i dont bother now (i think i must smell). By the way feel free to ignore this comment and carry on with the conversation as if i wasnt here every one else does! lol "

Did someone speak?

It can be tough, we always try and respond to messages unless they're rude or "can I fuck the missus?" type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, i never put that i think its disrespectful there are two people to a couple the clues in the title, and i always address both parties.

In their defence they must get such a large influx of mail full of arse holes they will not look fully at all messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is quite frustrating. Where we do send a lengthy message stating what im looking for and how i match what they are looking for..or at other times just commenting on their status..

..but i do agree that their influx of messages is greater than ours (lucky buggers lol) so the level of response would be relative.

Their comes a time where you think 'it may actually

just be me' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i often write fairly long messages after reading a good profile. I try to put as much thought as possible in, but, if i'm completely honest, I've had the most success on here when i've just been lazy and sent out a few crappy one liners. Most my meets, and future arranged meets have originated from a lazy one line message that developed into more of a conversation.

Just include a face and body pic. They will often reply regardless of message content if they are interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well i often write fairly long messages after reading a good profile. I try to put as much thought as possible in, but, if i'm completely honest, I've had the most success on here when i've just been lazy and sent out a few crappy one liners. Most my meets, and future arranged meets have originated from a lazy one line message that developed into more of a conversation.

Just include a face and body pic. They will often reply regardless of message content if they are interested. "

That is quite true. I once had a reply from my message saying my message shows that i think too much lol

..funny

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Size matters? Or is it quality? Or a combination. I am, of course, not talking about cock sizes or message length but biscuits as I'm eating one now with a cup of tea.

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town


"Is there such a thing as saying tok much?

..iv recently found myself that my responses to messages are quite long

So, is there such a thing as saying too much in a message? I dont do one line messages or a few word messages.

..dont know what im doing wrong

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i personally prefer someone to take the time to write...its the one liners that put me off..i enjoy my mind being stimulated and then the rest follows!..keep talking.. keep writing.. and if you are ever this way let me know!..lol...(as you can see.. i dont really do one liners either..

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