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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off????

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Its a woman thing, most guys wouldnt even notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any female form is beautiful

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I feel the same way. Have you thought about wearing something that makes you feel sexier?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Wear something that shows off the ok bits and hides the bits you dont like....but chances are if your getting down and dirty that no-one is taking a blind bit of notice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off???? "

some of them, yes

others, not so much

others will positively thrive on your wobbly bits

you need to find confidence in yourself tho, not just thru the validation of others

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I rarely play naked because of my ample wobbly bits - but I cover up in something black and sheer (not a floor length flannelette nightie!)and nobody seems to have minded thus far. Just makes me feel a little less self-conscious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys!!! I will do as suggested!!! Last year it didn't seem to matter, but feel a bit more conscious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off????

some of them, yes

others, not so much

others will positively thrive on your wobbly bits

you need to find confidence in yourself tho, not just thru the validation of others "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont bother how a woman looks, as im interested in the conversation and laughs,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not at all worried about ladies tummies wobbling. I think all the shape issues are created by various industries, clothing and diet to push their products. I'm a little bit tubby myself and no girl has ever said anything negative to me. It's an age thing and also a having kids thing and if you've always been a little bit wobbly ...so what .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a body stocking or outfit you feel sexy in.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off???? "

Personally, I love the soft wobbly bits!

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

its not just the body its the personality too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear something that shows off the ok bits and hides the bits you dont like....but chances are if your getting down and dirty that no-one is taking a blind bit of notice... "

Good advice. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Corsets are great for hiding wobbly bellies!

I feel the same about mine, I've had mails from some seriously fit guys recently and I feel a bit... Oh god.. "My body isn't sexy enough to play with one like that.. "

But someone said to me.. He mailed you didn't he..

So..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wobbly belly, I have one of my own lol.

Like a woman to have curves rather than skin and bone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy women every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've got a lot of wobbly bits and I've met 1 or 2 very very fit handsome men but like everyone said just wear something u feel sexy and comfortable in.I just wear a sexy nightie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've got a lot of wobbly bits and I've met 1 or 2 very very fit handsome men but like everyone said just wear something u feel sexy and comfortable in.I just wear a sexy nightie x"

Just what she said.

I'm a very wobberly larger lady and the fit boys I've played with is a pretty long and gorgeously sexy list. Anne summers do a great range in basques and negligees, stick one of them on with some M&S fishnet hold ups and I feel like a sexual goddess.

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Getting my corset and hold-ups on for a meet is all part of the fun, almost like fore-play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let it all wobble,I feel so daft trying to dress sexy so it's naked all the way with me.

Not had any complaints ... Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I quite like wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very self conscious about my bad bits too and have been reluctant to meet some hotties! Am glad I have though , have not had a problem yet, infact am seeing one tonight for the third time so deep down I can't be that bad !! Lighting and certain clothing certainly helps! you go girl!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could wear a tunic, you dont looks so fat when your lying down.

draw the curtains and light some candles.

most men are just interested in your tits and fanny, and your mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could wear a tunic, you dont looks so fat when your lying down.

draw the curtains and light some candles.

most men are just interested in your tits and fanny, and your mouth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god for posts like this to remind us that we are not alone!

often my excitement for a meet has been overshadowed by being so self conscious about my wobbly bits.

biting the bullet,dressing to accentuate my more attractive bits,being complimented and of course having a mind blowing time have added a little more confidence to the next meet.

be proud of who you are!!x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off????

some of them, yes

others, not so much

others will positively thrive on your wobbly bits

you need to find confidence in yourself tho, not just thru the validation of others "

Couldn't have worded it better!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wear a body stocking or outfit you feel sexy in.poppyxx "

I don't think about my wobbly bits when I'm naked. I feel like the Michelin man swallowed by Moby Dick in a body suit: not sexy at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could wear a tunic, you dont looks so fat when your lying down.

draw the curtains and light some candles.

most men are just interested in your tits and fanny, and your mouth."

I'm really glad I don't meet men like that

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just let it all wobble,I feel so daft trying to dress sexy so it's naked all the way with me.

Not had any complaints ... Yet "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"you could wear a tunic, you dont looks so fat when your lying down.

draw the curtains and light some candles.

most men are just interested in your tits and fanny, and your mouth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could wear a tunic, you dont looks so fat when your lying down.

draw the curtains and light some candles.

most men are just interested in your tits and fanny, and your mouth.

I'm really glad I don't meet men like that "

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Insecurities only lie with ourselves. I have a love/hate relationship with my body but haven't had any complaints, it's just MY perception.

As others have said above, if I don't feel 100% confident enough to be naked, I'll wear something that excentuates my boobs and hips but hides my tummy and just pair it with stockings or knee-highs.

Most guys won't want you to take off a mini tartan skirt and shirt, btw.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have been worried about my wobbly bits my whole life but the older I get the more I think I can still be sexy and horny and if people can't see beyond the exterior they're not worth my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mummy tummy and for that reason I will never be naked during a meet... But instead keep it as a more intimate pleasures with the mr

I don't see covering up as a negative anymore but like to put a positive spin on it and tell myself that I am dressing to impress (which hopefully I do)

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By *arandjasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

its to see there are women who feel as i do about their wobbly bits, i hate mine and always try to cover my tummy, but as someone else said it is OUR perception of ourselves that is the problem, having said that, i have started an excercise regime to try and tone it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What great responses!!!

Thank you everyone!!! And very true!

It's nice to know others feel the same!!!

I am exercising to try and help, but need to get a grip and think yay I am sexy!!!

Love and sexy hugs to you all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off???? "

We are all what we are , no point in worrying about it in my opinion. Wobbly bits are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off???? "

You need not to worry about your wobbly bits as a lot of guys love a woman with meat on their bones and a bit of extra curves, you just need to be comfortable with yourself... And I'm sure there's tons of guys that will find you attractive and think your beautiful regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wobbly bits. Hate them but still seem to get some hot men! They say they love real women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have similar issues and have often worn stuff to try to cover, but most of my meets have had me naked by the end of the session! I have met some very fit guys and to begin with I did worry about being my size when they were obvious gym goers (and a couple of personal trainers) but I went with it and have been very glad I did. Think when I'm in the moment I come across as being much more confident than I actually am and that must help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are a lot of things, but they aren't daft. When they meet us they assess us and usually make a decision about if they want to play. No point hiding behind a baggy jumper or a big handbag, they know what size we are and if they like it or not. Anyway women are more critical of other women than men are. If they like you and they want you then be happy.

Blokes like the woman bouncing on their cock and enjoying it. They don't like the woman whispering about the size of their wobbly bits and too shy to take their coat off..... If ya catch my drift!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see so many embracing wobbly bits. Mummy tummy here and loving it...my children made it and I'm adding to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few really fit men say hi and at the min I'm not playing but if I'm honest another reason is that I hate my tummy lol and have got extra paranoid about it!! I'm not massive though!!

Honest thoughts does it put fit men off???? "

how longs a piece of string?

Some men will like wobbly bits some wont

Just be honest

I've never had any problems meeting on here and i've never had a guy turn me down in the flesh, but i've always been honest about the fact i'm not body beautiful and I have honest pics so if guys don't like my body shape they wont mail me, if they do mail me then I take that as they don't mind i'm less than perfect and are happy to meet me regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are a lot of things, but they aren't daft. When they meet us they assess us and usually make a decision about if they want to play. No point hiding behind a baggy jumper or a big handbag, they know what size we are and if they like it or not. Anyway women are more critical of other women than men are. If they like you and they want you then be happy.

Blokes like the woman bouncing on their cock and enjoying it. They don't like the woman whispering about the size of their wobbly bits and too shy to take their coat off..... If ya catch my drift! "

You're right about women generally being more critical than men are...it's one of the reasons I have held back in the past with meeting couples but I'm slowly getting there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What GREAT replies!!!! And YES Your ALL RIGHT!!!

Wish we could all have a party and let loose!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive a big tum as had 4 operatiins

It dont spoil my fun

Lifes to short to have hangups be proud of your body and enjoy life and sex xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think other women are more critical than men also.

have only met three couples and the women werent slim.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm a size 6/8 and yes I have morphed my stomach into more than it is! It is a female trait that we make worse by our own minds! So just relax and realise that all women are the same! And as others have said, just wear something that makes you feel sexy

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