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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago

huya yeah a newbie. lol sent few mails only one reply I doing something wrong. is my profile that bad ? any help pointers be grand thank u x

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By *uliette500Woman
41 weeks ago

Hull

You bio is confusing and difficult to read. Maybe have a look at that and use sentences with proper English not text speak.

You need to give some idea of what you are looking for and what you can offer.

Also you have only been on here 2 weeks, can I ask what are you expectations of this site?

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By *enk15Man
41 weeks ago

Evesham

Sounds like your expectations are too high.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Your bio is borderline unreadable.

You haven't put any info about what you are looking for or what you can offer any potential meets.

Single men have a hard time on here regardless.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
41 weeks ago

Denbighshire

Hi Op, as others have pointed out your profile doesn’t make sense and is difficult to read. My advice is start again but don’t use text talk and explain properly what you can offer and what you’re looking for.

Also you’ve been here no time, this isn’t a quick fuck site, it’s a lifestyle and takes a lot of time and effort. Good luck

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most people will look at a profile before reading a message. If there isn't a coherent idea of who the person is, what they want and what they offer, many simply won't bother

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
41 weeks ago

brighton

One photo with no full body (clothed is fine!) pic - take some better photos and upload them

Your bio is...incomprehensible. I have no idea what you're about, what you can offer me, or why I should spend any time talking to you. This will be the same for most women I expect.

Also, fab is not an auto fuck site. There aren't many single women or couples compared to single men. Adjust your expectations to avoid disappointment.

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By *esparate danMan
41 weeks ago

glasgow

You might be a good listener but it would still be good to brush up on your communication skills

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By *heSuccubusWoman
41 weeks ago

Darlington

I'm going to hazard a guess that you may struggle with your written communication. Maybe ask a friend to help you write your bio so it's easier for people to read. If you make contact with someone maybe explain that, and ask to communicate via voice notes? It won't be for everyone that's for sure, but communication is really important and finding the best way to do so key.

Even better, go to organised socials so you can avoid the writing part

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

The 1st thing we do when we get a message is read the profile & look at the pics.

You have nothing on your profile and 1 pic (the pics decent)

But absolutely nothing to go on so I wouldn't reply.

I'd assume if you put so little effort into meeting people the bedroom effort would match.

Mrs

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

Tamworth

I'm not sure a bio of "give up lol" is really going to sell you to anyone honestly.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
41 weeks ago

Flagrante


"I'm not sure a bio of "give up lol" is really going to sell you to anyone honestly.

"

There was more in there when this thread was started.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
41 weeks ago

andover

If it was us, we’d want to see more photos, dick pics wouldn’t interest us as there are hundreds on here we could choose from, if anything it would put us off, maby some nice photos looking smart and approachable. Like you’re going to be respectful.

Also a well thought out bio, not to long that we skip most of it, but long enough to describe yourself and what your looking for

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By *appytaffWoman
41 weeks ago

blackwood

OP -Putting a bio saying give up just screams petulant child !

It certainly sends the wrong message

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By *ojo2joWoman
41 weeks ago

Penclawdd

I think your pic is decent but your name is offputting.

It sounds like you’re not fussy which can be a turn off unfortunately. Regardless of what a lady is looking for, they want to feel at least a little wanted and not just a number.

If you message me, I’m happy to give you feedback on your private message.

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By *JandJJCouple
41 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"huya yeah a newbie. lol sent few mails only one reply I doing something wrong. is my profile that bad ? any help pointers be grand thank u x "

What profile??

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By *uliette500Woman
41 weeks ago

Hull


"huya yeah a newbie. lol sent few mails only one reply I doing something wrong. is my profile that bad ? any help pointers be grand thank u x

What profile??"

There was more on his profile when he first asked for advice. He probably deleted it after reading the comments on here.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I'm not sure a bio of "give up lol" is really going to sell you to anyone honestly.

There was more in there when this thread was started."

Yeah, I saw the previous bio

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By *heelerMan
41 weeks ago

Northants


"huya yeah a newbie. lol sent few mails only one reply I doing something wrong. is my profile that bad ? any help pointers be grand thank u x "

Its about par for the site so keep trying .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago

Hiya all thank u to those who commented Guess this is not for me More of a private person one to one. X but thank u.

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