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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on this site a while now and have not met anyone off here. I think its because i havn't been to any clubs and got any verifications. The reasons i have not been is because ive traveled to thailand twice in the last six months. Can you help and look at my profile as i now want to meet people from here. Any suggestions to improve my profile and get the interest of sexy females x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site a while now and have not met anyone off here. I think its because i havn't been to any clubs and got any verifications. The reasons i have not been is because ive traveled to thailand twice in the last six months. Can you help and look at my profile as i now want to meet people from here. Any suggestions to improve my profile and get the interest of sexy females x"

u cud upload sum pics for a start

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"Ive been on this site a while now and have not met anyone off here. I think its because i havn't been to any clubs and got any verifications. The reasons i have not been is because ive traveled to thailand twice in the last six months. Can you help and look at my profile as i now want to meet people from here. Any suggestions to improve my profile and get the interest of sexy females x"

what are you looking for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What type of pics? I only want to show my face to people i add as friends? I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but the ladies are right..no pics, no info about what you are looking for. Seems to be more about cleanliness that getting down and dirty..lol..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry but the ladies are right..no pics, no info about what you are looking for. Seems to be more about cleanliness that getting down and dirty..lol..xx"

sorry _ilandlarry I [ Trix ] have only just noticed that you are a couple. I was mesmerised by that lovely bum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of pics? I only want to show my face to people i add as friends? I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol"

was gonna say a pic of yur body maybe,or just say on yur profile u will send face and body pics on request

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just want to have fun really have a laugh and lots of sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What type of pics? I only want to show my face to people i add as friends? I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol

was gonna say a pic of yur body maybe,or just say on yur profile u will send face and body pics on request "

Ok cheers good idea i can send that if people ask but again no verifications dont think they will ask for them in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want to have fun really have a laugh and lots of sex "

Don't we all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok gonna go in shower add more info to profile and upload some pics, need to sort this out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just want to have fun really have a laugh and lots of sex

Don't we all"

It would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of pics is doing you no favours.

And the profile is a bit weird, you don't say much and seem to have an obsession with cleanliness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha thanks for the tip, when i first joined the site all i read on womens profile was make sure your clean and smell good, which i do. I was a bit shocked by this as i thought everyone would be clean if they were going to a club or a meet, id shower first wouldnt you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds more like an add for a dating site really..apart from the licking pussy bit..

u havent been to any clubs/socials in 9mths cos of thailand?- clubs can be daily/weekly so thats never gonna hold up lol

and as everyone knows and urself knows...theres thousands of men with pics on display..think of it as a way of cutting down on timewasting for others

ur profile is one I'd pass by if I was a fem or cpl

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol"

pssst but they would find that out if they were going to meet you, so not really much point trying to keep it a secret....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol

pssst but they would find that out if they were going to meet you, so not really much point trying to keep it a secret.... "

Yes your right im just taking some pics now as we speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol

pssst but they would find that out if they were going to meet you, so not really much point trying to keep it a secret.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is shit, use the search box for "help" "my profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I dont mind sending pics but also im a bit over weight so body pics aint gonna be great lol

pssst but they would find that out if they were going to meet you, so not really much point trying to keep it a secret.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lack of pics is doing you no favours.

And the profile is a bit weird, you don't say much and seem to have an obsession with cleanliness."

Agree with this.

A re write and profile pics would certainly help. Loads of great profile advice in the forums if you do a forum.topic search. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is!

Next question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok added pics re done profile please let me know what you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok added pics re done profile please let me know what you think? "

nice cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok added pics re done profile please let me know what you think?

nice cock"

I meant clock

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Yes it is!

Next question "
}+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really? Ive just changed it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a clear face pic in opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a clear face pic in opinion"

I have got them but i can send them to people who are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But might not get interest without one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok fuck it clear face pic on profile!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it better to get to know women through the forums or in chat?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Ok fuck it clear face pic on profile!!!!"
it wont make a difference if your not happy having a face pic on for everyone to see then dont. having one for the people who are interested will be fine

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Ok fuck it clear face pic on profile!!!! it wont make a difference if your not happy having a face pic on for everyone to see then dont. having one for the people who are interested will be fine "

Agree, you didnt want a face pic on your profile so dont put one on there, you can send one to anyone who is interested easily enough.

Your profile looks fine to me, you will never please everyone so just make sure it shows the 'real' you and put some fun into it. Enjoy the site and enjoy the forum too.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The subject has come up in forums before and the majority of ladies preferred clear face pics

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"The subject has come up in forums before and the majority of ladies preferred clear face pics"

Depends on what the face looks like

Blurred ones are sometimes better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The subject has come up in forums before and the majority of ladies preferred clear face pics

Depends on what the face looks like

Blurred ones are sometimes better "

Tut tut lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think mine is clear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it the way it is.

That way we get a true reflection of who you are.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I think mine is clear?"

Yours is clear and fine hun, was just a joke.

xx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

You can get verified by webcam. Try chatting in the chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get verified by webcam. Try chatting in the chatrooms."

Try getting a word in edge ways in the chat rooms! I've spent weeks saying hello in all of them only to be totally ignored by the 'cliques' in there.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"You can get verified by webcam. Try chatting in the chatrooms.

Try getting a word in edge ways in the chat rooms! I've spent weeks saying hello in all of them only to be totally ignored by the 'cliques' in there. "

I would answer you if I was there. One thing going against you tho for me personally is your username as I hate having to say Hello Usernametaken...it's too long and not a proper name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pictures wouldn't harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no hard fast rule to follow to guarantee meeting and getting to know people. Stop thinking about how to impress and be yourself cos when you meet you won't have your profile to hide behind. Never ever take anything that happens or said to you to heart and eventually.....yes eventually it will happen even if that takes five years lol!!!! Remember Rome wasn't built in a day and I hope you eventually get to meet lots amazing people as I have over the past year, regardless of whether you play with them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say shit, just uninspired

So you have a tattoo, have been to partners once and would like to try a mff

They'll be queing round the corner now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok fuck it clear face pic on profile!!!!"

You might want to change the bit in your profile about having one in private.

The new profile is much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it better to get to know women through the forums or in chat?"

I found the chat rooms were a place to get to know people when I first joined Fab. Try one of the old ones like the Directing Room x

But I've also got to know quite a few via Forums too, so use both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get verified by webcam. Try chatting in the chatrooms.

Try getting a word in edge ways in the chat rooms! I've spent weeks saying hello in all of them only to be totally ignored by the 'cliques' in there.

I would answer you if I was there. One thing going against you tho for me personally is your username as I hate having to say Hello Usernametaken...it's too long and not a proper name "

Lol I chose the name cos every time I tried one it told me it was taken. Ill look for you now - call me mike lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all tge replys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok fuck it clear face pic on profile!!!!

You might want to change the bit in your profile about having one in private.

The new profile is much better. "

What they said.

So nice to see a fella actually take on board the critique in the manner it's meant and actively do something about it.

Good on ya man.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"sorry but the ladies are right..no pics, no info about what you are looking for. Seems to be more about cleanliness that getting down and dirty..lol..xx

sorry _ilandlarry I [ Trix ] have only just noticed that you are a couple. I was mesmerised by that lovely bum xx"

no worries, I am Lil and ty xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Looks okay, but you lack an 'edge' to make you stand out.

You have to think what you can do to present yourself above the other hordes of blokes on here. Being genuine and a nice guy will only make you stand out from the 'wanna fuk?' morons but you still need to stand out from the rest.

Clubs are a great way to get yourself known, as are the chat rooms and forums.

Good luck

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