FabSwingers.com forum: How did you become what you are?

By *1996D OP Man
42 weeks ago

kent

Let me explain a little more.

Sooo for some time now I’ve been into the whole hotwife fantasy, wouldn’t say cuck would just love to see my future gf with another man. I’m not insecure and I do rate my self a high value man.

I only ever trusted to tell one ex at the time and she said if I want to see her with other men it must mean I don’t love her. Even after explaining my self in depth.

Been scared ever since to bring it up to new partners.

I don’t know why I have this fantasy or where it came from.

Who and How did you and your partner bring it up and move forward with it?

I thought I would join fab to try my fantasy but not had much luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

People usually have a long and epic tale to tell, ours is a let down lol.

We had an idle conversation in the car about porn. Mrs asked if I had ever thought about her with other people, which I hadn't at the time. But thinking later I realised I liked the idea.

So I went into the kitchen and asked if she wanted to start swinging and she said yes.

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By *herryEatersCouple
42 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Cherry dumped me soon after meeting even though we got on amazingly. It transpired she thought I'd not be interested in her 'other life'.... I quickly corrected her and we haven't looked back since lol

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By *1996D OP Man
42 weeks ago

kent

I guess you just have to be brave and take a shot I guess. If I get serious with someone and then they bring up one day getting married I’m like fk, it’s the only thing that would hold me back thinking average sex for the rest of my life. Didn’t know it at the time but probably why I ended my last one as there was no chance

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By *omRachCouple
42 weeks ago

Wirral

I told Rach of my desire to watch and share her with another man. She totally dismissed the idea on the spot but would often revisit the idea in chat until one day she asked me 'who would you want to share me with'? I did have somebody in mind (a friend who lived about 200 miles away and who we only saw occasionally) and when I mentioned his name she just said 'oh' and had a small smile.

To cut this sory short - The next time he visited us he ended up fucking her.

The whole process did take about 18 months though.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I think I was always bi…curious if you’d like, I always felt drawn to leaders, confident guys and always hung around with lads older than me.

As I reached my 20s I found myself in the unique situation of having a gf that was stunning…over time she slept with others and we’d break up and get back together..she always told me about the with the others, at the time it was painful.

Then I stayed away from anything serious for a few years, eventually I had another 3 serious relationships all ending the same…they loved me but I wasn’t enough…

I found the cuckold lifestyle as I broke up with one of these, she was quite spiteful anyway and it seems to fit…since then it’s been somthing I’ve craved, I have spoken with an ex about it but she said the same, I must not love her enough…

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

When I was 24 I randomly bumped into a couple that I had known from my school days (they weren't together then) that I hadn't seen in years. We chatted and drank for a few hours before asking me if I wanted to have "fun with them at a club" to which I naively agreed. Having got to the club, and having got over the shock at the cost and finding it odd that I was classed as as an 'invited guest' (I was still oblivious) it's fair to say my eyes were well and truly opened and my horizons broadened! I often think of that night.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

I’ve basically always been non-monogamous and liked sex.

That’s it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Our story is very long, but I will describe it short.

I (Mrs.Hot) had a very few men in my life (9yrs with 1 boyfriend,

12 years with my hubby) and I confessed that I want to explore my sexuality, I feel there is a huge gap of what I have missed.

After a very brutally honest conversation we decided to try swinging.

By involving other people I have find out myself of being absolutely whore and our sexual life has improved enormously. We also have some very funny stories in our pocket. Life is good.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

First cuckold relationships wasn't really planned and evolved after a d*unken threesome at a uni party and it kind of snowballed from there.

Second cuckold relationship was cuckold from day one met her on a dating app and told her about my previous relationship and got I was looking for a similar one

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By *1996D OP Man
42 weeks ago

kent

A girl I was in a short term thing with she had only ever been with two guys. I brought it up to her and said I know she hasn’t had the experience most others have had at her age and if she would want other lovers in the future and she was adamant she just wanted me.

So yea definitely depends on the person aha but that’s a good gateway in I guess! Thanks for sharing

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Farnborough

In a nutshell …..

… tried on my mums tights as a kid - liked it x

… bought my own tights and stockings in my teens - liked it

… bought myself some heels in my 20s - liked it

… went to a dressing service in my 30s - loved it!!

… first ventured out in my 40s - loved it.

… still going out …. and staying in

… still loving it, when I get the chance!

R xx

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By *arialoueWoman
42 weeks ago

bradford

Too many people have let me down treated me like shit all my life so now I don't trust anyone n keep everyone at arms length friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I was on holidays in France. I saw a couple in love. He had that Alan Delon look about him, white trousers and linen jacket. She wore high cork platfroms, a white see-through blouse tied behind her back with most of her back in full view. The tiny "torn off" pair of skimpy jeans pants revealed about a quarter of the backside. They walked slowly along narrow streets of the old town holding hands, looking at each other with love... then I noticed that her back and thr back of her legs, the backside, the thigs and the ankles were marked with long streaks of red and deep blue... he whipped the hell out of her the previous night and she loved it and was proudly wearing those marks in public. I was mesmerised and could not take my eyes off her. That's how I became who I am.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
42 weeks ago

outside of penrith

Introduction to swing was my ex always loved reading top shelf mags commenting on look of ladies pussy tits etc. We read stories together out mags read adds etc.

We talked fantasies then talked did we want to do some of them.

We put add in mag don't think either of us was sure we meet anyone we did and swapped .

Looking back I was always turned on hearing what she done others before me. Plus had girl friend as teenager that told all about how many lads slept with I enjoyed hearing it. Where as some lads would be don't go near her she had half the village

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don’t think I became gay. I think I have always been gay. It was during my early years at secondary school that I realised I was attracted to men rather than women.

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