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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly? "Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights | |||
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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly?
Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc
Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing
I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights "You only need one person to make your night in a club, and that doesn’t mean to have a play either! Just to feel welcome, respected as a person, and included in the location, is what will have you wanting to go again. Most clubs couldn’t care less about solo guys once they’ve paid their entry fee, so long as they don’t upset others inside. See if you can get in to one of the messenger group chats for the club, to get yourself known in the wider circle. Club nights tend to be full of EGOF’s (Established Groups Of Friends), so mostly pre-arranged meets inside, freezing out people not known outside the circle…..  | |||
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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly?
Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc
Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing
I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights
You only need one person to make your night in a club, and that doesn’t mean to have a play either! Just to feel welcome, respected as a person, and included in the location, is what will have you wanting to go again. Most clubs couldn’t care less about solo guys once they’ve paid their entry fee, so long as they don’t upset others inside.
See if you can get in to one of the messenger group chats for the club, to get yourself known in the wider circle. Club nights tend to be full of EGOF’s (Established Groups Of Friends), so mostly pre-arranged meets inside, freezing out people not known outside the circle….. "I wouldn’t know if there’s anything like that or not, so dunno, just know there was an organised social that I was unfortunately too late to get in and I hadn’t seen anything on a pre drink, so one of these things, it can’t be helped and no-one responded to the original post last week, so can’t be helped, did what I could. | |||
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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly?
Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc
Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing
I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights
You only need one person to make your night in a club, and that doesn’t mean to have a play either! Just to feel welcome, respected as a person, and included in the location, is what will have you wanting to go again. Most clubs couldn’t care less about solo guys once they’ve paid their entry fee, so long as they don’t upset others inside.
See if you can get in to one of the messenger group chats for the club, to get yourself known in the wider circle. Club nights tend to be full of EGOF’s (Established Groups Of Friends), so mostly pre-arranged meets inside, freezing out people not known outside the circle…..
I wouldn’t know if there’s anything like that or not, so dunno, just know there was an organised social that I was unfortunately too late to get in and I hadn’t seen anything on a pre drink, so one of these things, it can’t be helped and no-one responded to the original post last week, so can’t be helped, did what I could."Clubs are all about cliques mate, and you’re either in the clique, or you’re not. Good luck  | |||
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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly?
Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc
Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing
I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights
You only need one person to make your night in a club, and that doesn’t mean to have a play either! Just to feel welcome, respected as a person, and included in the location, is what will have you wanting to go again. Most clubs couldn’t care less about solo guys once they’ve paid their entry fee, so long as they don’t upset others inside.
See if you can get in to one of the messenger group chats for the club, to get yourself known in the wider circle. Club nights tend to be full of EGOF’s (Established Groups Of Friends), so mostly pre-arranged meets inside, freezing out people not known outside the circle…..
I wouldn’t know if there’s anything like that or not, so dunno, just know there was an organised social that I was unfortunately too late to get in and I hadn’t seen anything on a pre drink, so one of these things, it can’t be helped and no-one responded to the original post last week, so can’t be helped, did what I could.
Clubs are all about cliques mate, and you’re either in the clique, or you’re not. Good luck "Can only try bud and every days a school day. | |||
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"Sounds like your average solo guy’s experience in any club mate! They really are hit or miss for us, don’t beat yourself up about it! Reading your veris, I would say the Glasgow Greedy Girls would be a great, and possibly better option? I would certainly be visiting them if I was more local, and it sounded like you enjoyed your time there? More welcoming for single guys possibly?
Ach, I had wanted to go the clubs given that’s the advice I’ve seen to get to meet people through that and widen amount of people I know etc etc
Can’t be helped and maybe different if I went again to an evening thing
I’m restricted in terms of time off at weekends and usually don’t get free at nights
You only need one person to make your night in a club, and that doesn’t mean to have a play either! Just to feel welcome, respected as a person, and included in the location, is what will have you wanting to go again. Most clubs couldn’t care less about solo guys once they’ve paid their entry fee, so long as they don’t upset others inside.
See if you can get in to one of the messenger group chats for the club, to get yourself known in the wider circle. Club nights tend to be full of EGOF’s (Established Groups Of Friends), so mostly pre-arranged meets inside, freezing out people not known outside the circle…..
I wouldn’t know if there’s anything like that or not, so dunno, just know there was an organised social that I was unfortunately too late to get in and I hadn’t seen anything on a pre drink, so one of these things, it can’t be helped and no-one responded to the original post last week, so can’t be helped, did what I could.
Clubs are all about cliques mate, and you’re either in the clique, or you’re not. Good luck
Can only try bud and every days a school day.
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