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By *agicmarc OP Man
41 weeks ago

tonyrefail

been on and off swinging scene now for around 10 years but only swinging as a single guy for around 5 on and off but still can’t get over my nerves and always clam up

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41 weeks ago

This is in fact totally normal, but something you can overcome with enough persistence

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By *agicmarc OP Man
41 weeks ago

tonyrefail

"This is in fact totally normal, but something you can overcome with enough persistence"

i just seem to clam up there’s been numerous nights where i’ve not spoke to anyone due to being nervous then i’ve p*saed myself off then

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By *orkspoonMan
41 weeks ago

nearby

Have you tried any of the social meet ups in your area? They are a good way to get used to talking to swingers without the pressure

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By *agicmarc OP Man
40 weeks ago

tonyrefail

"Have you tried any of the social meet ups in your area? They are a good way to get used to talking to swingers without the pressure"

yes had a decent night at one social but a terrible might at a different one x

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By *ink vixenCouple
40 weeks ago

Medway

Talking comfortably to strangers can be a learned skill.

Try going to a pub in town and beginning conversations with strangers.

It doesn’t have to be weird.

Most people want to talk about themselves and their lives if you let them so make some general comments and than ask some non intrusive questions.

You’ll soon feel comfortable and it can be an eye opener just how much people are willing to share.

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