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By *oupleNE OP   Couple
51 weeks ago

North Shields

Hi everyone, we’re very new to this and a bit unsure of things.

We’re quite specific on what we want - it is all about F having fun with girls for us (with M in the same room), we’d love to meet a single female or a couple but if a couple we’d want only for the girls to play together and the guys only to touch their own partners. Girls having fun then both having sex with their own partners in the same room would be ideal.

We’ve been thinking about going to a club (club shhh in Newcastle) but we’re worried that nobody would be interested in what we want and would all be looking for more of a full swap. Any advice or experiences people have had in similar situation would really help.

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By *tsOnlyMe1980Man
51 weeks ago

derby

Firstly. Welcome

Secondly, relax,- most people in clubs are completely fine with different scenarios, and yours isn’t that unique. Honestly.

Just be open, friendly and explain what you’re looking for when it comes to potential play, you won’t have any problems

Enjoy!

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
51 weeks ago

Nottingham

Go on a couples night and explain what you want before play , loads of couples are soft play and bi females.

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By *aomilatteCouple
51 weeks ago

Midlands

For our first club night we only played with each other. Our second club experience was girl on girl and sex with own partner. Most people at clubs are friendly and respectful. You may be able to have fun just how you want it, however never go to a club with expectations. Go to a few club nights, you'll get more experienced the more you go. Good luck

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51 weeks ago


"Hi everyone, we’re very new to this and a bit unsure of things.

We’re quite specific on what we want - it is all about F having fun with girls for us (with M in the same room), we’d love to meet a single female or a couple but if a couple we’d want only for the girls to play together and the guys only to touch their own partners. Girls having fun then both having sex with their own partners in the same room would be ideal.

We’ve been thinking about going to a club (club shhh in Newcastle) but we’re worried that nobody would be interested in what we want and would all be looking for more of a full swap. Any advice or experiences people have had in similar situation would really help. "

Before we went to our first club we checked on the forum if the night had a thread, we then got talking in there and got into some DM convos with a few people. So when we arrived as newbies there was some friendly faces there to make sure we had a good time.

What you are looking for is pretty usual honestly, but on your first night just relax, meet some new people and have some conversations. You will more likely than not be asked why you decided to come to a club and then you can explain what kind of scenario you want. If they arent into it, they may know people who are

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
51 weeks ago

Northampton

It was already mentioned, just be open and up front. Lots of people looking for what you are.

For us we’d want to know early on in conversation that’s what you want. It would be a waste of time for all if we got to a play area and then we found out you were only looking for FF

Have fun, don’t overthink it

xx

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By *oupleNE OP   Couple
51 weeks ago

North Shields

Thanks everyone, that’s really helpful!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
51 weeks ago

North Shields


"Hi everyone, we’re very new to this and a bit unsure of things.

We’re quite specific on what we want - it is all about F having fun with girls for us (with M in the same room), we’d love to meet a single female or a couple but if a couple we’d want only for the girls to play together and the guys only to touch their own partners. Girls having fun then both having sex with their own partners in the same room would be ideal.

We’ve been thinking about going to a club (club shhh in Newcastle) but we’re worried that nobody would be interested in what we want and would all be looking for more of a full swap. Any advice or experiences people have had in similar situation would really help. "

We go to Shhh regularly, we look for something very different to you so I can't say if you'd get what you want, but I'd say what you are looking for isn't "that" unusual.

I'd definitely suggest you go and experience it. A Friday or Saturday would be best I'd think.

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