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By *antrav OP   Man
51 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

Hello beautiful people,

A bit of advice please. I’m into crossdressing but unfortunately my wife doesn’t know….i would love to do it with her and play, but I don’t know how to start the discussion. She is traditionalist….and I’m scared that she wouldn’t like it.

Any advice is welcome.

Thank you!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

East Sussex

I haven't been in this situation so this might be of no help at all.

If I was your wife I'd feel hurt that you kept something secret from me that you shared with other people, that might be something to consider when you do tell her. I'd also be upset and blame myself that you felt unable to tell me. I'd probably have a lot of questions.

However I'm not your wife so all I can really suggest is that you emphasise that you love her and just tell her.

Are you absolutely sure she has no idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Don't bother but you never know she might already be suspicious

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
51 weeks ago

Weymouth


"I haven't been in this situation so this might be of no help at all.

If I was your wife I'd feel hurt that you kept something secret from me that you shared with other people, that might be something to consider when you do tell her. I'd also be upset and blame myself that you felt unable to tell me. I'd probably have a lot of questions.

However I'm not your wife so all I can really suggest is that you emphasise that you love her and just tell her.

Are you absolutely sure she has no idea?"

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By *antrav OP   Man
51 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

Thank you for the advice

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
51 weeks ago

Cheshire

Crossdressing can be simply putting on a pair of knickers to fully dressed wig and makeup. The former probably won’t be enough for divorce proceedings but the latter could be.

I always tell a partner about my Transvestism and always encourage others, better for you both in the long run.

Only advice is try and get an idea how she may react by bringing up scenarios and what ifs.

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By *antrav OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

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By *antrav OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Sutton in Ashfield

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