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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago

Hope everyone is well and thank you for taking your time to read my post.

So I have been on fab for a while and have had profiles in the past with meets and such! But I am not sure if it is how I come across or my profile but I am getting very little interaction, and even less meets. I do understand I am not for everyone but if anyone has advice or hints for me or my profile please let me know

J

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
43 weeks ago

Leicester

There's nothing terrible about your profile to my eye (Mr) but I suppose it doesnt really say much about what you are into, what your experience is and importantly what you have to offer. This together with your relatively young age may limit how much interest you get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"There's nothing terrible about your profile to my eye (Mr) but I suppose it doesnt really say much about what you are into, what your experience is and importantly what you have to offer. This together with your relatively young age may limit how much interest you get"

Thank you very much, I will create an update on my description

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By *aughtyLittlePicsCouple
43 weeks ago

Belper

You seem to be a good looking guy so I’d agree with above it’s the description/bio that lets you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"You seem to be a good looking guy so I’d agree with above it’s the description/bio that lets you down "

Thank you so much!!! Will have to have a good think

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Literally just down to ratio, location and luck. Fab is a tough nut to crack nowadays.

Come here with no expectations and you can not go wrong. Get a meet. Thats a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"Literally just down to ratio, location and luck. Fab is a tough nut to crack nowadays.

Come here with no expectations and you can not go wrong. Get a meet. Thats a bonus. "

Haha yeah the ratio is not in my favour! But thank you, see what the future holds!

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By *r SensualMan
43 weeks ago

London

Wouldn’t say there’s a problem with your profile per se. On the whole, it looks okay although a bit of beefing up of your bio with more about who you are and what you have to offer along with a variety of pics (different angles, lighting etc.) would help.

Many men (including myself) struggle to get any interactions online. Much much easier making connections IRL at social gatherings, clubs and parties. People can take you on face value without any preconceived ideas about you based on characteristics you cannot change.

People will say it’s age that may play a part,

but I don’t think it’s anything to do with that as there’s plenty folk who go for guys around your age.

Heck, I was only a year older then you are now when I first joined the site just over 4 years ago

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
43 weeks ago

Cumbria

Nothing really bad about your profile but also nothing that really catches the eye. It doesn’t say much about you, or what you have to offer, it doesn’t really say what you want either. I suppose it’s just a little bit bland and inoffensive. Not that I’m saying you should go out to offend but in a world of sourdough, and seeded bloomers it doesn’t pay to be a sliced white loaf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"Wouldn’t say there’s a problem with your profile per se. On the whole, it looks okay although a bit of beefing up of your bio with more about who you are and what you have to offer along with a variety of pics (different angles, lighting etc.) would help.

Many men (including myself) struggle to get any interactions online. Much much easier making connections IRL at social gatherings, clubs and parties. People can take you on face value without any preconceived ideas about you based on characteristics you cannot change.

People will say it’s age that may play a part,

but I don’t think it’s anything to do with that as there’s plenty folk who go for guys around your age.

Heck, I was only a year older then you are now when I first joined the site just over 4 years ago"

Thank you for the tip!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"Nothing really bad about your profile but also nothing that really catches the eye. It doesn’t say much about you, or what you have to offer, it doesn’t really say what you want either. I suppose it’s just a little bit bland and inoffensive. Not that I’m saying you should go out to offend but in a world of sourdough, and seeded bloomers it doesn’t pay to be a sliced white loaf."

Yeah I do like your analogy of the bread! Think from what people have suggested a more comprehensive description is needed. Thank you

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
43 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Nothing really bad about your profile but also nothing that really catches the eye. It doesn’t say much about you, or what you have to offer, it doesn’t really say what you want either. I suppose it’s just a little bit bland and inoffensive. Not that I’m saying you should go out to offend but in a world of sourdough, and seeded bloomers it doesn’t pay to be a sliced white loaf.

Yeah I do like your analogy of the bread! Think from what people have suggested a more comprehensive description is needed. Thank you "

It’s better to be really appealing to 20% of people than not really register with 100%

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By *adCherriesCouple
43 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

As lovely as you seem, I wouldn't meet someone younger.

You said you have had profiles and meets before, any chance you could get verified by them again?

If not then going to a club would help as we always look at verifications, to get an idea on what the person is like and if they turn up.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
43 weeks ago


"As lovely as you seem, I wouldn't meet someone younger.

You said you have had profiles and meets before, any chance you could get verified by them again?

If not then going to a club would help as we always look at verifications, to get an idea on what the person is like and if they turn up.

Mrs "

And that is fair! I can see my age going against me with some people I did try to find a couple I used to meet but not had any luck so unsure if they are still on here!

Yeah I think going to the Club again will be a good idea, it’s been awhile since I have been to townhouse so might have to make a trip up there!

Thank you for the advice

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