FabSwingers.com forum: Profile update advice

By *reative-mind OP Man
43 weeks ago

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So been here a while and had a meet or 2 so this isn't a "I can't get a meet" post.

I just think my profile could do with an update as it seems to get views but no messages or actually very few replies.

So what would people advice be? I'm sure I'm not the only guy with this issue so anything general might help others as well.

By *revaunanceCouple
43 weeks ago

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So on the positive side, you've got a good range of photo's and you've clearly taken time to put your best foot forward in terms of your profile. Having a distinctive profile pic always helps you to stand out and be remembered too.

However, the simple truth of why your profile views far outweigh your messages could be that your too young for some, too old for others. Right colour for some, wrong colour for others. Too tall for some, too short for others. Right sexuality for some, wrong sexuality for others, etc, etc, etc.

The short answer is that no one appeals to everyone, but we all appeal to someone sooner or later

By *reative-mind OP Man
43 weeks ago

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"So on the positive side, you've got a good range of photo's and you've clearly taken time to put your best foot forward in terms of your profile. Having a distinctive profile pic always helps you to stand out and be remembered too.

The short answer is that no one appeals to everyone, but we all appeal to someone sooner or later

Thank you for the kind reply. I think that is probably the case and I'm thinking to much into it maybe.

Have a great day/weekend.