FabSwingers.com forum: Solo male profiles

By *cnugatug OP Man
over a year ago

Chatham

I find it extremely alarming about the amount of solo male profiles that are popping up claiming to have wives. I mean they could be telling the truth but also it could be a lie or just the male trying to play away without the partners consent. Maybe the female has a solo profile and I'm completely wrong. I just find it suspicious when a solo male starts chatting about the wife and yet she's not in any pics and the ones that have a female in isn't the wife. Am I alone in this train of thought?

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

No you're not. These are the guys who go on about fantasising about seeing their wife with someone else, but actually she is not involved or aware of what he is posting or saying about her

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I don’t think we’re alone in assuming the vast majority of ‘single’ males on here are attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Extremly alarming' really???

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of singles have partners who have absolutely no idea their other half is an active swinger. It's not just men.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

We have two couples we're friends with in the lifestyle, both have a couples account and separate single accounts as they play separate and together. Both are genuine, but yes I'd say a lot definitely aren't.

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By *cnugatug OP Man
over a year ago

Chatham

I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner "

If they're talking about them 9 times out of 10 the partner exists. If they're telling you they will bring their partner along or you need to meet them first then you get to meet her...she doesn't exist. Only ever agree to meet a couple from a couples profile, if a woman exists and is aware there's no barrier to setting one up.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner "

The threads where they're trying to swap pics of a wife or partner concern me. Many a time there's no mention of a wife or partner on their profile either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

The threads where they're trying to swap pics of a wife or partner concern me. Many a time there's no mention of a wife or partner on their profile either. "

If you see those report them please, admin have asked us to remove them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

The threads where they're trying to swap pics of a wife or partner concern me. Many a time there's no mention of a wife or partner on their profile either. "

These are the ones I find really disturbing. There is a guy local to me who posts frequent updates offering to meet men with pairs of his wife’s knickers to let them smell them. Again, could be a fantasist but seems like an incredibly worrying violation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of these guys are genuinely single…. For a reason.

As couples are seen as less of a threat and more likely to get a response. As most people either block hate or ignore single males.

Secondly I have had a lot of guys from the couple stating “hi my wife is away for the weekend.. would you like to have a threesome with us. Ok come around this weekend and show me what you have and then I can convince her” please as if

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

The threads where they're trying to swap pics of a wife or partner concern me. Many a time there's no mention of a wife or partner on their profile either.

If you see those report them please, admin have asked us to remove them.

I will do, thanks.

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By *cnugatug OP Man
over a year ago

Chatham

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

The threads where they're trying to swap pics of a wife or partner concern me. Many a time there's no mention of a wife or partner on their profile either.

If you see those report them please, admin have asked us to remove them.

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I do report those profiles that do raise my concern

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner "

I would say “extremely alarming” is for when the zombie apocalypse actually arrives alongside an alien invasion fleet and the sun goes super nova.

Single males claiming to be something they are not is possibly classified as “very slightly almost amusing”.

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By *cnugatug OP Man
over a year ago

Chatham

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

I would say “extremely alarming” is for when the zombie apocalypse actually arrives alongside an alien invasion fleet and the sun goes super nova.

Single males claiming to be something they are not is possibly classified as “very slightly almost amusing”."

I'm genuinely looking forward to the inevitable zombie apocalypse tbh been training for it since I was young watching all these films and playing these games I'm actually ready for it

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I say extremely alarming because there's been a huge increase of profiles I've seen talking about a possible non existent partner

I would say “extremely alarming” is for when the zombie apocalypse actually arrives alongside an alien invasion fleet and the sun goes super nova.

Single males claiming to be something they are not is possibly classified as “very slightly almost amusing”.

I'm genuinely looking forward to the inevitable zombie apocalypse tbh been training for it since I was young watching all these films and playing these games I'm actually ready for it "

Haha good answer, and I'm sure you are ready...

I hate it when people sarcastically say ... "Oh first world problems". Yes they are and in context of the world we live in, or in this case liars in FabSwingers who the Mods want to know sbout.

Frequently I'll be chatting to a couple and as soon as the male asks to meet alone, I politely say, please take a ticket and join the queue of solo men outside my front door...

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

I'm a single male who claims to have a partner, but doesn't have any pictures of her on my profile.

I'm quite happy if this puts you off meeting me, because I have absolutely no intention to meet anyone through this profile.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I’m in a relationship myself (we met on fab), both of us still have our solo profiles as well as a couples profile too which are verified on, has pictures of us both on there and which also both respond to messages from.

We also explicitly state on our individual accounts that we are in a relationship (stating our profile username) and that anyone looking to meet us both TOGETHER should reach out there.

If someone reaches out to us on said couples declaring an interest in just one of us, we’d redirect them to the respective person’s solo account… in the event someone believed me to be lying, i’d happily (with my chest) have no hesitation in saying that can check in with my partner themselves should they need extra reassurance I’m not playing away…

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Ive had several males message who admit they are single, with no swinging wife.Or married with a non swinging wife.Yet often there are photos of a female on their profile.

They tell Me they pretend so they can get attention.The males message them with offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been like this for a while on here, guys catfishing in order to try and get meets, there is an alarming amount of single guy profiles on here which has changed the whole dynamic of the site, so nobody wants anything to do with the majority, this is why they set up couple profiles to try and work around the not looking for single males,, just sad how somes minds work on here , due to them ruin it for all

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd assume that most people would treat them as single men, unless they have a corresponding couple's profile that's readily identified as of the same person.

We probably don't need to give much attention to these guys, as it's couples' profiles that are just a single person only, that may mislead people.

Obviously a lot of men may try to bigup their

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I take the credibility of a profile on a case by case basis.

We both have solo profiles and we are both clear about being in a relationship and link our couples profile (for those who maybe intrested in a couple).

If a solo profile is contacting you or selling themselves as an individual I don't see so much the concern regarding the presence of a female partner (real or fake). However if they are approaching you on a single profile and putting their partner on the table as part of the deal that's different. Why not contact you off a couples account or send you a link to it? That's iffy. There's no guarantee they're lying but it's a pretty safe bet and thus worth avoiding. We get this occasionally. Single males who's opening play is telling us that they have a wife or some other female who joins them as a clear enticement to us (not knowing really what entices us). Either come to us as a single male playing as a single male or as couple on a couples profile.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'm a single male who claims to have a partner, but doesn't have any pictures of her on my profile.

I'm quite happy if this puts you off meeting me, because I have absolutely no intention to meet anyone through this profile.

I likewise I have no pictures of My Girl on my single profile (bar her hand in one). I don't see why you should have one on your lone profile? I'm very proud of her, she's awesome and there's lots of us both on the this profile because this is a couples profile and we are selling us as a couple. But on a singles profile why put up photos of something your not selling? Likewise it's men often choice to put pictures up of them with other women. My personal opinion (even though hopefully fully consenting) it's bad form on a single profile (certain nuances excluding). Maybe I'm a bit of purist by I think a single profile should only show yourself and advertise yourself from a lone player point of veiw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off this site for over 10 years, originally as a single, then as a couple and bank to single again.. it's never changed.. people lie and cheat, mostly single guys because they outnumbered everyone else, but a lot of couples aren't innocent either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on and off this site for over 10 years, originally as a single, then as a couple and bank to single again.. it's never changed.. people lie and cheat, mostly single guys because they outnumbered everyone else, but a lot of couples aren't innocent either"

Most men tend to turn a blind eye to women here without their partners knowledge. Yet slate the men for doing the same thing.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"I'm a single male who claims to have a partner, but doesn't have any pictures of her on my profile.

I'm quite happy if this puts you off meeting me, because I have absolutely no intention to meet anyone through this profile.

Mr"

Maybe don’t refer to women as “something you’re not selling.”

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

its a problem thats as old as the internet ... people lie to be involved ie fantasy .... however bad you think it is x it by 100 ... its nothing fab can do about it people will always find a way..

ive notice there are hardly any pic swap post of late so big well done fab and mods for that .... some/alot of men will alway exploit women for sexual reasons there are 100s of sites public and private full of vids/pics/cam recording owned by single men who swap ... some women and couples are ok with that but 99% have no clue

its a great filter tho easy to spot them and block as for reporting trouble is some real couples /women will get caught up in it it only takes no thanks for a pissed of guy to report a profile as fake desperation and the horn does funny things to some men

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'm a single male who claims to have a partner, but doesn't have any pictures of her on my profile.

I'm quite happy if this puts you off meeting me, because I have absolutely no intention to meet anyone through this profile.

Maybe don’t refer to women as “something you’re not selling.”"

Em.... I didn't expect anyone to take this in the literal sense

Anyways paraphrasing aside I wasn't so much reffing to the selling of the individual female as an object more the selling of a proposition beyond that of a single male profile (accidental or intentional) if that adds clarity. And I stand by that statement.

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By *untimeswithme69Man
over a year ago

London

Been approached by several "couples" where it turns out the wife has no idea or the male is still trying to "convince" the wife.

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

" I find it extremely alarming about the amount of solo male profiles that are popping up claiming to have wives. I mean they could be telling the truth but also it could be a lie or just the male trying to play away without the partners consent. Maybe the female has a solo profile and I'm completely wrong. I just find it suspicious when a solo male starts chatting about the wife and yet she's not in any pics and the ones that have a female in isn't the wife. Am I alone in this train of thought?"

No you are not alone it seems from the replies on this thread.

It was this type of thread that made me delete my photos and hide my profile.

That way I cannot be accused or tarred with the single man profile.

I go out in to the real world were people can see me talk to me, without judgement.

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