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By *inkyKentishCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Hi

We are still fairly new but have had lots of fun and we are expanding our horizons.

Julia is quite happy choosing the guys she wants to play with but we have found we have different taste in girls. I am happy watching her enjoy herself but she has suggested that I play as a single guy.

We dont like play with single guys whose partners are unaware primarily because we dont want to be named in a divorce case. If she is happy to confirm she knows at a very early stage we are happy to play.

I can understand why so many single girls advertise for single guys but should that mean that i should not bother sending them a message?

Second, whenever we advertise for guys we get the usual time wasters whose wives are happy with them playing but are always out at work/sleeping/etc. Is there anyway that I can distance myself any further from these time wasters??

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

You will alwasy get chancers, in any walk of life. a polie no thanks will always do...There are lots of single guys who like to play with couples...

choose wisely

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By *inkyKentishCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

thanks for the reply and your advice _pecifically1.

We have been lucky with the single guys we have met so far.

But I was interested if woman like you would be happy being contacted by married men whose wives were happy to confirm that they were aware of what was going on??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only because u don't want to be named in a divorce case??

I found alot of guys lie about being single....

But yeah, just make it clear that your oH is happy to confirm.....

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By *inkyKentishCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"Only because u don't want to be named in a divorce case??

I found alot of guys lie about being single....

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Once we decided we were not going to to it for that reason there was not much point of looking for other reasons we would not do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that was the only reason I would say that's easily overcomable......

Don't let then know where you live, and go by the name of your alter ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or dont go for married couples

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I generally don't like meeting married men. I did have it on my profile at one point, but after 1 or 2 "liaisons" with my married kitchen manager, I thought that was a little hypocritical.

Anyway, back to the point. I'd be happy to play with a married man, if I spoke to said person's partner, preferably face to face over a coffee, after all, she could be anyone, and I rely on body language a lot more than a phone voice.

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