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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Rochdale

What do ladies like to see men wareing in a club towel or boxers or something else. Dudes what do u ware in a club ? And yes i mean swingers club lol

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By *rpeggioCouple
49 weeks ago

Baughurst

If it's dress down like Chameleons or Kestrels then towel, nothing under. If it's not dress down, smart casual.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
49 weeks ago

Northampton

Mrs WW likes me to wear boxers.

We always carry towels as we’re clean freaks and lay them on the beds

Towel around the waist is an odd look we think

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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Rochdale

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
49 weeks ago

Hyde

Mr wears boxers....

Mrs also prefers boxers..... never got the whole towel look. It feels like you maybe came on the off chance and was in baggy grey boxers so took them off and hiding under a towel

(Yes I have a special brain lol)

Towels are for showers, sweat or splooshes!!

K

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I wear boxers until the hot tub then a towel after

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

In a dress down club I like a nice pair of either short tight boxers (are they called trunks?) or a part of nice briefs by someone like CK or Andrew Christian.

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By *igjohn78Man
49 weeks ago

lincoln

It is just a towel for me and some times it is just over my shoulder

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By *adCherriesCouple
49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

No preference, guys should wear whatever they feel comfortable in.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
49 weeks ago

Vale of Glamorgan

This is my big thing with dress down clubs, I hate wandering round in a towel or shorts whilst the ladies are dressed to the nines. Feel like that old cliche of guys at swingers parties wandering round in just their socks, Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

Mr S

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
49 weeks ago

Sheffield

Boxers or shorts. But I think it’s what you feel comfortable in that’s most important

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By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"This is my big thing with dress down clubs, I hate wandering round in a towel or shorts whilst the ladies are dressed to the nines. Feel like that old cliche of guys at swingers parties wandering round in just their socks, Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

Mr S"

Why can't guys dress too? There are some options. Personally i like sexy shirts and briefs - something beyond the standard such as lacy patterned stretch briefs. There are also all kinds of things edging towards bondage wear - see though t-shirts with some pvc or latex for example. It's shame when ladies make such effort and men turn up in Primark woolly jumpers.

More generally back to OP's question many places are not full dress down and ditto at parties. Go wearing whatever you'd like, although personally I think better to make an effort and be smart and dressed up, and then in play area take off. Afterwards many put back on and maybe take off again later.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
49 weeks ago

cahoots

Just a towel for both of us unless it's naked night

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By *uto564Man
49 weeks ago

Widnes


"This is my big thing with dress down clubs, I hate wandering round in a towel or shorts whilst the ladies are dressed to the nines. Feel like that old cliche of guys at swingers parties wandering round in just their socks, Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

Mr S

Why can't guys dress too? There are some options. Personally i like sexy shirts and briefs - something beyond the standard such as lacy patterned stretch briefs. There are also all kinds of things edging towards bondage wear - see though t-shirts with some pvc or latex for example. It's shame when ladies make such effort and men turn up in Primark woolly jumpers.

More generally back to OP's question many places are not full dress down and ditto at parties. Go wearing whatever you'd like, although personally I think better to make an effort and be smart and dressed up, and then in play area take off. Afterwards many put back on and maybe take off again later. "

Exactly…. My fiancé likes to see what’s on offers…. Towels just are an easy option…. I wear a decent pair of boxers, it gives the ladies something to look at…….

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By *aramel.desiresMan
49 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm soo bored of boxers and everyone wares CK on a night out. So I have a few pieces from Shein that are different including Mesh type material and asymmetric cut!! Some are really comfy. Sizing in the box area has been an issue and I'm not even a bbc. But worth tryingas they are only a few pounds.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
49 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde


"Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs. "

I've been to Chams in mesh boxers and a see through top. There's no rule against men dressing up as well.

Go to Gran Canaria and have a browse around the gay boutiques - you'll find some great stuff for a guy to wear to a swingers club.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
49 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

I've been to Chams in mesh boxers and a see through top. There's no rule against men dressing up as well.

Go to Gran Canaria and have a browse around the gay boutiques - you'll find some great stuff for a guy to wear to a swingers club. "

Most of them make you look like a baddie off Batman or Dafydd Thomas off Little Britain

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By *aramel.desiresMan
49 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

I've been to Chams in mesh boxers and a see through top. There's no rule against men dressing up as well.

Go to Gran Canaria and have a browse around the gay boutiques - you'll find some great stuff for a guy to wear to a swingers club.

Most of them make you look like a baddie off Batman or Dafydd Thomas off Little Britain "

I am hoping more Batman! But at least you stand out!

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
49 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde


"Most of them make you look like a baddie off Batman or Dafydd Thomas off Little Britain "

Oh, come on. I'm sure you'd look smokin in a mankini!

You may not have noticed, but not all women at clubs have conventionally perfect figures, and it doesn't stop them dressing sexy. They put a lot of effort into finding what works for them - why shouldn't we?

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
49 weeks ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"This is my big thing with dress down clubs, I hate wandering round in a towel or shorts whilst the ladies are dressed to the nines. Feel like that old cliche of guys at swingers parties wandering round in just their socks, Wish the guys could dress too, but I guess some of these clubs have to maintain the pretence of being saunas or health clubs.

Mr S

Why can't guys dress too? There are some options. Personally i like sexy shirts and briefs - something beyond the standard such as lacy patterned stretch briefs. There are also all kinds of things edging towards bondage wear - see though t-shirts with some pvc or latex for example. It's shame when ladies make such effort and men turn up in Primark woolly jumpers.

More generally back to OP's question many places are not full dress down and ditto at parties. Go wearing whatever you'd like, although personally I think better to make an effort and be smart and dressed up, and then in play area take off. Afterwards many put back on and maybe take off again later. "

Yes I know not all have this dress code, that’s why I specified that I was talking about dress down clubs. And of course I dress when going to other types of events, whether it be fetish or smart.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
49 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

Really depends where we are, hound usually goes for a towel in one of our regular clubs where there's a large jacuzzi, but when we go to other clubs he usually goes for fancy pants... he has some sheer ones which I think are super hot

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
49 weeks ago

Birmingham

For dress down, I love seeing guys in actual guy lingerie. Something sexy. Instead of the usual boxers which tbf are rarely awe inspiring.

We don't frequent dress down only clubs as its not my personal thing but I've never really liked the towel look and when I've seen it in clubs, I don't think it brings a sexy feeling for me.

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By *litterbabeWoman
49 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics.

I like men in black trunk style lycra boxers.

I find towels unflattering

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
49 weeks ago

Congleton / Derby

I wear a nice pair of oddball boxers. But my fiancée for Christmas bought me a comedy towel with a bare bum and a semi errect or full stiff cock on it depending on how you wrap it round you. It’s a talking point at the clubs.

My fiancé and I prefer the dress down clubs and depending on her mood and if she want to go in for a dip in hot tub straight away or not to towel or sexy underwear or match oddballs underwear to my boxers

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
49 weeks ago

East Anglia

I love dressing up and Mr in his cage sometimes he is in boxers or on full show it’s such a turn on

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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
49 weeks ago

Rochdale


"I love dressing up and Mr in his cage sometimes he is in boxers or on full show it’s such a turn on "
he just walks round naked with cage on ?,

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
49 weeks ago

East Anglia


"I love dressing up and Mr in his cage sometimes he is in boxers or on full show it’s such a turn on he just walks round naked with cage on ?,"
Yes he does the will I won’t I let him play is really excites me

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
49 weeks ago

Gloucester

I like to see guys in a well fitting pair of clean boxers. After all you guys enjoy us in nice lingerie so why not return the favour.

Kink (Mrs)

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