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By *alcomsecret OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Manchester

Why do I only get TV/TS and Men clicking my profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Cause most women and couples hide the fact they looked from their privacy settings.. ninja mode

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By *alcomsecret OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Manchester

How do I get them to msg me like how do I make them more interested

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By *ink vixenCouple
43 weeks ago

Medway

You could start a new thread asking for profile advice perhaps or look at the million or so previous threads with that title?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
43 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How do I get them to msg me like how do I make them more interested "

You have to make yourself interesting and appealing to them via your photos and profile text.

Look at other profiles, maybe ones that have lots of verifications and who seem to be enjoying life on site. Then compare them to yours.

Everyone has a shop window. Does yours stand out?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Cause most women and couples hide the fact they looked from their privacy settings.. ninja mode"

We don't hide. But we really only look at couples and single females, as our inbox is full of messages from guys once we choose to open it to them.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
43 weeks ago

brighton

Make your profile more interesting. Also wait 10 years - you're too young for most swingers if I'm honest

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By *J StathamMan
43 weeks ago

Manchester

How often do women make the first move on you in person????

What ever the answer to that is divide it by 100 on here and that's how many woman will message you first on here.

Their inboxes will be rammed with messages and they have 10x as many guys to filter through when they do eventually have a browse.

Best thing you could do is just go to a swingers club and let your personality shine

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By *oxy jWoman
43 weeks ago

somerset


"How do I get them to msg me like how do I make them more interested "

you cant make them anything people are either attracted to you or not most men on here get nothing its just the way the scene is

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By *alcomsecret OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Manchester


"Make your profile more interesting. Also wait 10 years - you're too young for most swingers if I'm honest "
so true so young

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

Because we look in ninja mode.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yeah same as others have said, we look in ninja mode.

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By *he KinkysCouple
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Because we look in ninja mode.

Mrs "

Second this x

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By *orny-DJMan
43 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Because, as many others have already said, most women and couples view in stealth mode, so you'll never know that they've looked at your profile.

Mostly they do this in order to prevent the 'I saw you looked at my profile...' messages

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By *londebiguyMan
43 weeks ago

Southport


"Cause most women and couples hide the fact they looked from their privacy settings.. ninja mode"

Do they?

How weird of them.

Some odd people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Pro-tip, if you don’t want to know when tv/ts or men have clicked your profile, update your message filters to exclude them.

Although this doesn’t stop them from being able to look at you, you won’t see those people in your “looked at me” list.

Out of sight, out of mind

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By *electableicecreamMan
43 weeks ago

The West


"Pro-tip, if you don’t want to know when tv/ts or men have clicked your profile, update your message filters to exclude them.

Although this doesn’t stop them from being able to look at you, you won’t see those people in your “looked at me” list.

Out of sight, out of mind "

I have males, ts/tv/cd and MM couple's blocked from messaging me in my filters and both ts/tv/cd and MM still show up in my Looked at.

It doesn't bother me at all but that's how it works

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Pro-tip, if you don’t want to know when tv/ts or men have clicked your profile, update your message filters to exclude them.

Although this doesn’t stop them from being able to look at you, you won’t see those people in your “looked at me” list.

Out of sight, out of mind

I have males, ts/tv/cd and MM couple's blocked from messaging me in my filters and both ts/tv/cd and MM still show up in my Looked at.

It doesn't bother me at all but that's how it works"

How strange, it works for me when I block single males

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Cause most women and couples hide the fact they looked from their privacy settings.. ninja mode

Do they?

How weird of them.

Some odd people on here."

How's it odd? Soon as u look u get a message saying I seen u looked want to chat.. you cant just be nosey without getting a message

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