FabSwingers.com forum: Going to clubs alone...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having never been to one, I do quite fancy the idea of going if nothing else but to see what it is like but the I can't imagine single guys being particular welcome!

Do many guys go alone to clubs? What is it like?

Just the thought of going, let alone going alone fill me with trepidation.

Ahhh well, maybe one day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a club alone for the 1st time on Sunday, it was great fun. There were a few single guys there too, do its pretty normal. I'd say bite the bullet & give it a try x

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

There's many threads about this mate. Guys are welcome at clubs, the more well known clubs ask for a couple of forms of id.

When you're at the club, don't think that its a certainty that you will get some play time. I find that good manners and friendly/ flirty banter will get you everywhere in that respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that tend not to like singlemen tend to go on couple only nights.

Go and yiu'll be fine. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get guys asking me if they will be welcome at xotix or the other clubs I attend alone.. Some its okay... others dont really seem to do well.

I think though that as a single guy you have to be really confident with yourself.. it is well worth it.. and as the single guys at xotix on Friday can vouch, there are times its great to go alone..

Just make sure you talk to people and dont do what one single guy was doing on saturday which was getting closer and closer rubbing his cock.. and then touching without asking... The ladies playing were not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's many threads about this mate."

Yeah apologies, I didn't search! Sometime it's just nicer to hear it directed at you I guess.

"Just make sure you talk to people and dont do what one single guy was doing on saturday which was getting closer and closer rubbing his cock.. and then touching without asking... The ladies playing were not impressed..."

I would laugh but that is just a bit too weird. Don't think I'd be doing that somehow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's many threads about this mate.

Yeah apologies, I didn't search! Sometime it's just nicer to hear it directed at you I guess.

I would laugh but that is just a bit too weird. Don't think I'd be doing that somehow..."

Oh good... he also the previous week had started to give me a massage and then rubbed his cock on my foot... which lead to me squeeling... and everyone laughing...I was not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to xstasia on my own and always have fun but i do put the effort in to talk to people.If you just sit in the corner looking hostile then no one will want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to xstasia on my own and always have fun but i do put the effort in to talk to people.If you just sit in the corner looking hostile then no one will want to know."

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

give it a try, you have nothing to loose, but be friendly and dont expect anything to happen, if it does then bonus, treat it as a fun night out with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a few nights with single males and its a very friendly atmosphere for all. I don't think anyone does much judging and loads of males turn up on their own. After all everyone is there for similar reasons.

Be Polite friendly and respectful and that's what pays off. Frantically tugging away under your towel without any prior interaction with people may put people off.

Love clubs I'm sure you will have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"give it a try, you have nothing to loose, but be friendly and dont expect anything to happen, if it does then bonus, treat it as a fun night out with like minded people"

Brilliant advise, and exactly what I followed, met some great people, had some great banter and it was a fun, chilled, relaxed experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same don't know if its cool for lads to but it seems like its a norm? Anyone bin to isis Leeds? Is that closest to York to?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm the same don't know if its cool for lads to but it seems like its a norm? Anyone bin to isis Leeds? Is that closest to York to? "

There is also Youtopia but thats more of a couples club, and its mainly camping as its a bit remote. Isis is easy enough to get to from Leeds Station, and single guys are welcome most nights. You do have to join though so phoning first would be your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers love will do they have a website don't they? Or do u recommend a good night for me?

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