FabSwingers.com forum: Threesome

By *enguin7 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Devon

What are Couples looking for when they are looking for a extra male joining them for some fun.

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By *ilyandronCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

2 mouthfuls of cum.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
43 weeks ago

Portstewart

Very broad answer range for that but only the couple who agrees to meet you would be able to answer your question

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By *enguin7 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Devon

I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something

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By *entle_lover_xMan
43 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

"I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male. "

There are so many options:

- somebody to fuck the lady with the man just watching

- somebody to fuck the lady and humiliate the man watching

- somebody to join in equally and take turns fucking, being sucked, maybe spit roasted, maybe DVP or DP

- somebody to play with the male half as well with all kinds of options

- somebody with knowledge of a certain kink (eg shibari or impact play) to give the lady or both of them a new experience

- etc. etc.

Everybody is different what they want and expect. You won't find a simple anwer.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "

Absolutely that

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By *rpeggioCouple
43 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "

As a general question, this summarises it. The clue is in the word: threesome. Whatever the dynamic and degree of involvement of each of the 3 parts, the wants of everyone must be known in advance and fulfilled as best as possible.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
43 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "

Absolutely this.

As a guy joining a couple you have to respect their wishes and be thankful that you have been invited to join them.

There is no one answer fits all because each couples desires and motivations will be completely different, so ultimately communication is key so you can understand what they want.

You have to accept that they are the ones calling the shots. If you can’t, you’re not what they’re looking for

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
43 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

"I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male. "

Probably someone who doesn't think that all couples are looking for the same thing from a threesome...

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By *enfella4uMan
43 weeks ago

staffs

I would love to meet a couple for mmf fun I’m up for it anytime xx

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I would think that would be down to each couple, not all will want the same op.

So it would be a matter of talking to couples or reading their profiles, to see if you want the same things.

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By *ay234400Man
43 weeks ago

corby

I’m sure it would be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Got to be easy on the eye with a fit body

Dress well with good footwear ( don’t ask)

Not a fucktard

Smell good

Respectful yet take it upon yourself to release the inner caveman

Decent sized cock 7”

Intelligence doesn’t really come into it, he’s there to serve a purpose

Stamina… don’t need an early release

He buys the first couple of rounds

Doesn’t fall in love and get clingy

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By *oxy jWoman
43 weeks ago

somerset

if only life was so simple.....

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Really varies wildly from couple to couple I'd say.

We want a guy who will give and receive oral from us both then to spitroast my wife with me and cum on her back.

Another couple we know wants a guy to be in the middle on the pair.

Then another couple we know want each guy to take turns with giving the wife a creampie.

Theres so many possibilities its impossible to give a single concise answer.

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By *ouMeandThemCouple
43 weeks ago

Birmingham

Somebody who actually turns up would be a good start!

We've been let down last minute on the last four occasions!

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
43 weeks ago

South East Coast

Someone who can hold a conversation, isn't alpha and thinks they are their to control the situation. Easy on the eye, respectful. Understands it's for everyone's enjoyment, not just theirs!

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By *jlondon78Man
43 weeks ago

Suffolk

Your there to add to there experience and remember that you are not the center of attention. I usually ask the couple before hand and try to read the room. Remember they are letting you into there personal space do be fully respectful

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By *enguin7 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Devon

There's quite a lot of different answers, i suppose being respectful and having a chat with the Couple first is usually best to find out what they are looking for, do you tjink its usually the male of the Couple or the Female that wants ot most, just a question, there's no right or wrongs so long long as they both enjoy tje experience.

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By *adgerMan
43 weeks ago

york

Every couple I’ve met has been different… the key to has always been respect and communication

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By *entle_lover_xMan
43 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

"There's quite a lot of different answers, i suppose being respectful and having a chat with the Couple first is usually best to find out what they are looking for, do you tjink its usually the male of the Couple or the Female that wants ot most, just a question, there's no right or wrongs so long long as they both enjoy tje experience. "

Just had a thought - you're not from Sydney University conducting a research project are you?

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By *enguin7 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Devon

No lol Devon, jist trying to find out what Couples enjoy.

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By *helroyCouple
43 weeks ago

Skegness

Us as a couple looking for the 3rd to join us we like that we all get on in and out of the bedroom friendship as well is good

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

The thrill if adding another body into the mix.

Watching her enjoying another guy

Frottaging

Spit roasting

DVP

We can't do most of these with just the two of us.

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By *jlondon78Man
43 weeks ago

Suffolk

"The thrill if adding another body into the mix.

Watching her enjoying another guy

Frottaging

Spit roasting

DVP

I dont know what to say

I agree with you both totally and might i add amazing ink work unfortunately when trying to reply private i was unable to

We can't do most of these with just the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"2 mouthfuls of cum."

Luv this answer

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By *bflirtyCouple
43 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

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By *bflirtyCouple
43 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

From our point of view we would be looking for someone with staying power and an interest in pleasing the fem not just nipped round for 30 seconds of self gratification.

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By *enguin7 OP Man
43 weeks ago

Devon

I thought it was supposed to be a bit of extra fun for the female, she's supposed to be the centre of the attention.

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By *bflirtyCouple
43 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

You’d be surprised how many single guys will say stuff like “I’d love her to go down on me”.

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By *acksparrow99Man
42 weeks ago

London

Cleanliness, manicured hands, politeness, knowing when no means no, and asking how we want to play.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
42 weeks ago

Coventry

First and foremost someone we both get a good vibe from. Even as a straight male couple it's important that the guys get on well together as well as ticking Mrs' boxes. It is all about team work and mutual enjoyment after all.

Someone who doesn't take themselves to seriously and is easy to have a laugh with. We like it when the interaction is just effortless and natural.

Someone who both comes across as reliable and is also actually reliable. We get life happens (it happens to us all) but we don't want to me messed around as we don't want to mess others around.

Obviously (and should go without saying) someone who is clean and fresh.

We dont have a specific list of requirements, body types, must haves. Basically man, woman, couple or group what we look for is basically the same. Natural free flowing chemistry and hot mutually enjoyable times.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

"2 mouthfuls of cum."

To share

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By *ertie basset all sortsMan
42 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"2 mouthfuls of cum.

To share

I love cum swap and sloppy kissing with husband and wife x

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By *enfella4uMan
42 weeks ago

staffs

When I had a threesome I arranged a guy to come over and had my mrs come in blindfolded to a warm room of nice candle lights and soft relaxation music playing as we both slowly rubbed our hands all over her then slowly sat her on the edge of the bed to start slowly wanking and sucking us both off then gently laid her back into the bed as he went down on her pussy as she then carried on sucking my cock then slowly worked our way up to swapping over as I lick her pussy she sucked him off then we both took turns on fucking her then she rode us both in turn whilst wanking and sucking the other and then when all had a real good time we sped it all up and then got her to sit on bed again as we both finished each other off and we came all over her whilst she was rubbing her pussy was seriously hot and the most important thing is that we all agree on what happens and that everyone feels comfortable with one another xx

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By *orn-in-69Couple
42 weeks ago

Shipley

Respect our boundaries.

For us it is about all three of us being involved and all having a turn being the focus of attention.

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
42 weeks ago

Congleton / Derby

Why we stopping at 3 lol some of our spontaneous fun has been 4/6/8 people on one large bed.

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By *j555Couple
42 weeks ago

Huntingdon

"I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male.

There are so many options:

- somebody to fuck the lady with the man just watching

- somebody to fuck the lady and humiliate the man watching

- somebody to join in equally and take turns fucking, being sucked, maybe spit roasted, maybe DVP or DP

- somebody to play with the male half as well with all kinds of options

- somebody with knowledge of a certain kink (eg shibari or impact play) to give the lady or both of them a new experience

- etc. etc.

Everybody is different what they want and expect. You won't find a simple anwer. "

We'd be your third point

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By *enelope2UWoman
42 weeks ago

Fife

Stamina of two guys

Two mouths on me

Four hands on me

A hand holding a toy in my clit while his dicks inside and my boobs kissed

A dick inside and a dick inside

Someone to hold the camera and my hair

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By *enelope2UWoman
42 weeks ago

Fife

"When I had a threesome I arranged a guy to come over and had my mrs come in blindfolded to a warm room of nice candle lights and soft relaxation music playing as we both slowly rubbed our hands all over her then slowly sat her on the edge of the bed to start slowly wanking and sucking us both off then gently laid her back into the bed as he went down on her pussy as she then carried on sucking my cock then slowly worked our way up to swapping over as I lick her pussy she sucked him off then we both took turns on fucking her then she rode us both in turn whilst wanking and sucking the other and then when all had a real good time we sped it all up and then got her to sit on bed again as we both finished each other off and we came all over her whilst she was rubbing her pussy was seriously hot and the most important thing is that we all agree on what happens and that everyone feels comfortable with one another xx"

Bliss!!! Lucky her

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By *enelope2UWoman
42 weeks ago

Fife

"I thought it was supposed to be a bit of extra fun for the female, she's supposed to be the centre of the attention. "

Most here don't care about that.. closet bi guys will use mmf for their get iff

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By *revaunanceCouple
42 weeks ago

Exeter

"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "

Bingo!

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By *jlondon78Man
31 weeks ago

Suffolk

True

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By *ung nine inchMan
31 weeks ago

leeds

Love to watch mrs with another guy

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
31 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Someone who's respectful, at ease with both of the couple and follows the rules and boundaries. Both love being watched and it situation feels good joined xx

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By *linky1Couple
31 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

Depends on the guy.

Everyone brings something different to the party.

The fun is all about finding what that is.

Being comfortable and knowing that a 3sum is about making space for all involved.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
31 weeks ago

manchester

"Someone who's respectful, at ease with both of the couple and follows the rules and boundaries. Both love being watched and it situation feels good joined xx "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

All couples are different and are looking for different things - chat to them see what each is looking for, but I have found when meeting things can change.

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By *ature4CoupleMan
31 weeks ago

Penicuik

Each couple varies. Most importantly respect their wishes - it’s a privilege to be asked to join. Limits must be adhered to - paramount is their enjoyment. Fulfilment of their fantasy is most important - whatever that may entail.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Respect of us both like we would with them and maybe role play or even just a laugh before hand not just meet 10 or 15min and leave lol

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By *rish In DubaiMan
31 weeks ago

Carlow

Respect is key as is some level of connection or chemistry.

Know the boundaries and respect them and also don't forget that 3 people are involved.

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By *atureSensualgentMan
30 weeks ago

Somewhere near

What about enhancers, is it common, do many take them to keep up with the pace. I will soon have the pleasure of a threesome, I can easily go the distance one on one :D

I'm just preoccupied in such an erotic setting I might not last as long

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
30 weeks ago

Folkestone

I've found after years on here, that it's what the couples wants there and then.

It's a waiting game for fellas, and hope you are what they are looking

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By *herryEatersCouple
30 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"What are Couples looking for when they are looking for a extra male joining them for some fun. "

Oooh complicated... To summarise - Orally bi, Mrs must fancy you, super discrete, non-pushy and respectful, trustworthy, polite, super clean and smelling nice, same interests, not a tiny or thin cock !, shaved balls, no genital piercings, good sex drive, great kisser, no quick meets, not playing away, can accomodate in a clean and tidy place and so on ! (no wonder we have so much trouble finding one

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Respect of us both like we would with them and maybe role play or even just a laugh before hand not just meet 10 or 15min and leave lol "

10 or 15 mins definitely some disappointed people out there.

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By *nj6969Couple
30 weeks ago

Grimsby

"2 mouthfuls of cum."

Ha ha spat my coffee out, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Its usually either the wife wants to be fucked by someone new and different, or the husband wants to watch his wife being fucked.

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By *ndy8goldMan
30 weeks ago

blackburn

The post is about putting himself forward rather than seeking the holy grail of answers.

Communication is often the key to the most enjoyable meets.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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30 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Every couple will be different.

And always remember - it's a 'threesome', not a couple plus a guy.

The guy is as important in the equation as the couple. His preferences, tastes, comfort and consent are as important as theirs.

He's not a sex toy just there to please and service the couple.

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By *ockerbeckMan
30 weeks ago

Northallerton

For us many years ago it began fantasising about her having both of her tits sucked together at the same time, one by me and the other by another guy, and then we had the opportunity to do this, and then it moved on and we decided that this was something we both enjoyed

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By *imandher123456Couple
30 weeks ago

gosport

"What are Couples looking for when they are looking for a extra male joining them for some fun.

Definitely this !!!!!

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By *ysonfuryMan
30 weeks ago

Stockport

I love a meeting with a couple. I tend to go with the flow with what the couple enjoys and the more you meet the better the fun gets. I think it helps if you are prepared to accommodate as well as travel. In short I don't think anyone is looking for anyone thing every one is different and enjoys different aspects of the lifestyle. Happy fabbing everyone

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By *eardAndBoobs69Couple
29 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

Decent looking guy,not too young,decent size cock and willing to please.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
29 weeks ago

manchester

"Its usually either the wife wants to be fucked by someone new and different, or the husband wants to watch his wife being fucked."

It absolutely is not!

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