FabSwingers.com forum: First time club visit

By *elpieandSelkie OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Hello fellow fabbers!

We have finally managed to make some time to visit a club but what should we know? What should we wear and pack with us? The club provides nibbles, towels and condoms but what else do we need? x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ancelot1633Man
49 weeks ago

weybridge

"Hello fellow fabbers!

We have finally managed to make some time to visit a club but what should we know? What should we wear and pack with us? The club provides nibbles, towels and condoms but what else do we need? x"

would help to know which club so people who frequent it can give tips specific to that venue

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elpieandSelkie OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Hello fellow fabbers!

We have finally managed to make some time to visit a club but what should we know? What should we wear and pack with us? The club provides nibbles, towels and condoms but what else do we need? x

would help to know which club so people who frequent it can give tips specific to that venue"

We are going to CJ’s in Glasgow x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
49 weeks ago

wonderland.

I'd take your own condoms. You know which ones fit you and you like..

I take wipes, hair bobble, some hand sanitiser and several changes of clothes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adCherriesCouple
49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Hello fellow fabbers!

We have finally managed to make some time to visit a club but what should we know? What should we wear and pack with us? The club provides nibbles, towels and condoms but what else do we need? x"

Just an open mind! Go with no expectations and then you cant be disappointed. Have fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ope_kisses22Couple
49 weeks ago

Hyde

For me .....

Flip flops for when my heels hurt and for going home in

Bobble for when needing my hair out the way

Wet wipes for a freshen up

Deodorant /perfume

A little touch up make up

Hair brush

My own condoms/lube

Some women take toys/a vibe if desired

For him....

Sliders

Smellies to freshen up

Condoms too

Some men use the little blue pills or a cock ring

Some ppl choose to shower so maybe stuff for that

Have fun!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adCherriesCouple
49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"For me .....

Flip flops for when my heels hurt and for going home in

Bobble for when needing my hair out the way

Wet wipes for a freshen up

Deodorant /perfume

A little touch up make up

Hair brush

My own condoms/lube

Some women take toys/a vibe if desired

For him....

Sliders

Smellies to freshen up

Condoms too

Some men use the little blue pills or a cock ring

Some ppl choose to shower so maybe stuff for that

Have fun!!!

Xx"

Flip flops are a must. You dont want to walk around a club in your bare feet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elpieandSelkie OP Couple
49 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"For me .....

Flip flops for when my heels hurt and for going home in

Bobble for when needing my hair out the way

Wet wipes for a freshen up

Deodorant /perfume

A little touch up make up

Hair brush

My own condoms/lube

Some women take toys/a vibe if desired

For him....

Sliders

Smellies to freshen up

Condoms too

Some men use the little blue pills or a cock ring

Some ppl choose to shower so maybe stuff for that

Have fun!!!

Xx"

Thank you for that! That’s a pretty comprehensive list

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ope_kisses22Couple
49 weeks ago

Hyde

And maybe an odd change of clothing .... incase of wet patches!!

How could I forget that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atBottomGirlsWoman
49 weeks ago

St Austell-ish

First time? Yay, hope you enjoy it!

Things to know: no means no. This goes for everyone! If you're interested but they are not, or vice versa ... Move on, and don't let that stop you.

Just plan on a fun time. It might involve others, or not. Either way, you'll get to know people and may be different next time. Then again...you may get lucky first time!

Go with no expectations and just have fun!

Hope it's a good first experience!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entle_lover_xMan
49 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

Flip flops? Well guess depends on the club but yuk I'm not at the beach. It's either barefoot or back with clothes/shoes on for a while. Personally I prefer to just keep naked. If my feet hit a wet patch so be it but hasn't happened yet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss DevilWoman
49 weeks ago

Bedford

I'd say don't rely on condoms available at the club as most clubs go for cheaper brands that not everyone gets on well with. I don't, so always have my own.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ueen CatWoman
49 weeks ago

fife

You don't need flip flops or anything like that at cjs. It's not that kind of club, it's not dress down. Same stuff you would take on night out and to freshen up.

I prefer afterdark for freshening up as proper locker room and showers.

Never had the chance to use cjs shower as it's in a bathroom.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xposedInTheMaleMan
49 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

Make sure you've agreed what you're open to, and how to signal between the two of you whether you're interested or not.

Remember, for a first visit it's better to leave having missed opportunities, than to leave regretting what one or the other of you did.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adCherriesCouple
49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Flip flops? Well guess depends on the club but yuk I'm not at the beach. It's either barefoot or back with clothes/shoes on for a while. Personally I prefer to just keep naked. If my feet hit a wet patch so be it but hasn't happened yet. "

Flip flops are a must in most clubs. Unless you enjoy walking through piss on the toilet floors

. We've been to many clubs all over the uk and going barefoot in them is not a nice experience.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rpeggioCouple
49 weeks ago

Baughurst

Some may require ID for both of you for the first time you go, so don't forget that.

If there's a bar, a debit card and a pouch to keep it and the other things that you would want with you without going back to the lockers room

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Have been going to one regular club where I feel settled and stuff and now want to branch out to other clubs in the northwest but anxiety kicks in.

Any tips/suggestions how to stop myself from stopping myself trying somewhere new??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *razytimesinloveCouple
49 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Always take flip flops !

Definitely take your own condoms/lube/wet wipes as well.

We always take a few toys and floggers/paddles with us as well.

Recommend taking something comfortable for afterwards. We normally throw a pair of joggers/hoody on when we’re finished

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ope_kisses22Couple
49 weeks ago

Hyde

"Have been going to one regular club where I feel settled and stuff and now want to branch out to other clubs in the northwest but anxiety kicks in.

Any tips/suggestions how to stop myself from stopping myself trying somewhere new??"

Some clubs and events have other places to chat before the actual event.

Townhouse use Discord (book directly on their website) and some other hosts use kik and the hosts can be found on the forums.

Great way to get to know others before the events

Good luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread