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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

Anyone want to give me feedback about my profile? Relatively new here and not having *a lot* of success. Curious to know whether there is anything I can change to improve my chances of people replying. Please don’t pull any punches; my ego will survive!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not your target audience but I like your profile as it is. It's straightforward, uncomplicated with no bs.

It's standard for single men to not get a lot of luck though.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there."

Great feedback, thanks!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't use superfluous stuff, where you can instead have viewers see more relevant and engaging material. If photos say it, you don't need to repeat it in text

People need to sense that they have a good feel for you and how you could be, if with them.

Photos were a little samey.

Make realistic expectations, so that you stay upbeat

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

Sitting on the table

Change your username to Alejandro Garnacho & ask admins if you can rebrand as a TV/TS.

In your profile text say you're non-binary as you have no idea which side you're playing on from week-to-week

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there."

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

Club nights could be the way forward for a guy like yourself though, as long as you can chat happily to folks you would likely have a crackin night later on

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Change your username to Alejandro Garnacho & ask admins if you can rebrand as a TV/TS.

In your profile text say you're non-binary as you have no idea which side you're playing on from week-to-week "

I’m so confused by this…

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

"

Consider me told will definitely change this when I can be bothered to get up from my sofa today

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

Consider me told will definitely change this when I can be bothered to get up from my sofa today"

Now I'm the confused one..... Your phone was in your hand typing that reply (and logically reading this one!)

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

Consider me told will definitely change this when I can be bothered to get up from my sofa today

Now I'm the confused one..... Your phone was in your hand typing that reply (and logically reading this one!) "

Having a sick day today; I’m curled up on the sofa feeling sorry for myself and cba to activate my brain

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Less cock and more AbsHOTS could help. Keep em guessing. Apart from that you gonna be fine. You're bi so should get a lot of action from couples.

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

Ok. Have removed the brags. Thanks for the honest feedback folks.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

Consider me told will definitely change this when I can be bothered to get up from my sofa today

Now I'm the confused one..... Your phone was in your hand typing that reply (and logically reading this one!)

Having a sick day today; I’m curled up on the sofa feeling sorry for myself and cba to activate my brain "

Aww get well soon!

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By *anchbiguy84 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"Describing yourself as good looking, in shape with a big cock will put some people off. Send some pics and let others be the judge of that. You should crop your mates face out your pic ASAP. A trim downstairs might be preferred for some. You could try a few club nights, you may have more luck there.

This - completely. The first line would put me and several of my ladyfriends off (we all agree on this kinda thing).

Consider me told will definitely change this when I can be bothered to get up from my sofa today

Now I'm the confused one..... Your phone was in your hand typing that reply (and logically reading this one!)

Having a sick day today; I’m curled up on the sofa feeling sorry for myself and cba to activate my brain

Aww get well soon! "

Thank you

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By *uzie_jennifer_2TV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Anyone want to give me feedback about my profile? Relatively new here and not having *a lot* of success. Curious to know whether there is anything I can change to improve my chances of people replying. Please don’t pull any punches; my ego will survive!"

Your face pics don't look alike. That's slightly concerning for me.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Anyone want to give me feedback about my profile? Relatively new here and not having *a lot* of success. Curious to know whether there is anything I can change to improve my chances of people replying. Please don’t pull any punches; my ego will survive!

Your face pics don't look alike. That's slightly concerning for me. "

Ooo I see what you mean! Wonder if it's a trick of the light?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing from reading through the thread that you’ve already made changes since the first post so well done for taking on board some of the comments.

I have to say that I actually like your profile as it is right now. A good mix of photos that give a good idea of what you’re about with a “to the point” profile text.

I think you’ve done a good job and you’ll never please all the people all the time so now it’s in the hands of fate so to speak , best of luck

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