FabSwingers.com forum: club virgin. 1st visit advice

By *igtittybbw OP Woman
43 weeks ago

Portishead

Hi all. thinking of going to first club next week, hopefully with a couple I have been talking to so less pressure.

Any advice? what to wear? what are your rules?

By *abioMan
43 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi all. thinking of going to first club next week, hopefully with a couple I have been talking to so less pressure.

Any advice? what to wear? what are your rules? "

A) you make up your own rules… other than no means no, if they get offended by a no thank you, they should not be in a club…

Your boundaries are yours

B) what to wear … anything that makes you feel comfortable within reason…. Clubs will have their own rules so check before you go

C) any other advice.. just go with an open mind and no expectations!…. The instinctive thing to do is to sit in a corner and just people watch, try not to…

Just go out there and say hello to all and sundry… a hello is just that! Don’t read anything more into it than that… we were all new once so we know the nerves… just try and put your best foot forward and be the best you