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"So I’ve had a single profile for a while now, (previously had a couple’s page) it’s definitely not easy, ladies what do you look for in a guys profile? I’m genuinely interested so I know what I can do better…. Noted I don’t have face pic but share if asked or sometimes in my opening message "Your profile looks decent except from the variety of public pics. And not often you see guys with as many friends pics but given your public ones I'm led to believe most of them are probably just different angles of your cock. I could be wrong but that's my impression. And also your age preference would put me off massively, gives me the ick personally | |||
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"So I’ve had a single profile for a while now, (previously had a couple’s page) it’s definitely not easy, ladies what do you look for in a guys profile? I’m genuinely interested so I know what I can do better…. Noted I don’t have face pic but share if asked or sometimes in my opening message
Your profile looks decent except from the variety of public pics.
And not often you see guys with as many friends pics but given your public ones I'm led to believe most of them are probably just different angles of your cock. I could be wrong but that's my impression.
And also your age preference would put me off massively, gives me the ick personally"Age preference too old? And not all cock pics, varied pics including face etc.. | |||
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"So I’ve had a single profile for a while now, (previously had a couple’s page) it’s definitely not easy, ladies what do you look for in a guys profile? I’m genuinely interested so I know what I can do better…. Noted I don’t have face pic but share if asked or sometimes in my opening message
Your profile looks decent except from the variety of public pics.
And not often you see guys with as many friends pics but given your public ones I'm led to believe most of them are probably just different angles of your cock. I could be wrong but that's my impression.
And also your age preference would put me off massively, gives me the ick personally
Age preference too old? And not all cock pics, varied pics including face etc.."18years old at your age gives me the ick, but that's just my opinion | |||
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"So I’ve had a single profile for a while now, (previously had a couple’s page) it’s definitely not easy, ladies what do you look for in a guys profile? I’m genuinely interested so I know what I can do better…. Noted I don’t have face pic but share if asked or sometimes in my opening message "It's your profile. Make it yours. You know you better than anyone else. All these what do women want in a profile won't help anyone. Not all women are looking for the same. Don't try to appeal to the masses. Know what you want and tailor your profile to match. Trying to make your profile appeal to the masses only makes you blend into the hundreds of guys with bog standard profiles. Be you. | |||
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"Am I the only woman who's tired of the "Ladies....please help...what do you look for in a profile..."posts? Nobody ever fucking listens to any advice given so what's the point? We give frank, honest feedback and are accused of bullying, being up ourselves or end up on the naughty step for bad mouthing. (When you asked for the fucking feedback in the first place....help me work that one out!) Or, we play nice, say your profile is grand and then you come back in a fortnight and ask the same fucking question. You're a 48 Yr old man. How do you conduct yourself in real life? Transfer that to Fab. Unless you're a complete dick, in which case you'll be chugging to the hot pics until you're collecting your pension. " I wouldn’t have posted if I wasn’t interested in feedback, I conduct myself the same no matter the situation…. What got you so wound up breath..!!  | |||
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"Am I the only woman who's tired of the "Ladies....please help...what do you look for in a profile..."posts? Nobody ever fucking listens to any advice given so what's the point? We give frank, honest feedback and are accused of bullying, being up ourselves or end up on the naughty step for bad mouthing. (When you asked for the fucking feedback in the first place....help me work that one out!) Or, we play nice, say your profile is grand and then you come back in a fortnight and ask the same fucking question. You're a 48 Yr old man. How do you conduct yourself in real life? Transfer that to Fab. Unless you're a complete dick, in which case you'll be chugging to the hot pics until you're collecting your pension. " There was me trying to be all nice this time after getting slated in another thread for suggesting a guy work on his self confidence for himself. Anyway.... you are absolutely correct. I often wonder how have folk gotten thru life interacting with people and yet can't work out how to approach a conversation on here  | |||
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"Bluebell my profile says straight, I would have no issue saying bi if I was but I’m 100% female only.. I wouldn’t see why having Vera’s would make you think any different… you’re on my FL are any of my pics with guys?x" You wanted feedback on your profile which I gave. Your veris are hidden so its easy to be misled. | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine "Average. | |||
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"Am I the only woman who's tired of the "Ladies....please help...what do you look for in a profile..."posts? Nobody ever fucking listens to any advice given so what's the point? We give frank, honest feedback and are accused of bullying, being up ourselves or end up on the naughty step for bad mouthing. (When you asked for the fucking feedback in the first place....help me work that one out!) Or, we play nice, say your profile is grand and then you come back in a fortnight and ask the same fucking question. You're a 48 Yr old man. How do you conduct yourself in real life? Transfer that to Fab. Unless you're a complete dick, in which case you'll be chugging to the hot pics until you're collecting your pension. " never a truer word said . i now take onboard not to upset you  | |||
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"Bluebell my profile says straight, I would have no issue saying bi if I was but I’m 100% female only.. I wouldn’t see why having Vera’s would make you think any different… you’re on my FL are any of my pics with guys?x" You have Vera's? So you're a crossdresser now? | |||
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"So I’ve had a single profile for a while now, (previously had a couple’s page) it’s definitely not easy, ladies what do you look for in a guys profile? I’m genuinely interested so I know what I can do better…. Noted I don’t have face pic but share if asked or sometimes in my opening message "You could put anything on your profile, if you can socialise easily does it really matter what you say. Do you struggle to get woman which sounds like you do if I’m honest. | |||
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"Bluebell my profile says straight, I would have no issue saying bi if I was but I’m 100% female only.. I wouldn’t see why having Vera’s would make you think any different… you’re on my FL are any of my pics with guys?x" You asked the question and we are answering it. We are telling you what our impression is and your getting defensive, what's the point. | |||
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"Bluebell my profile says straight, I would have no issue saying bi if I was but I’m 100% female only.. I wouldn’t see why having Vera’s would make you think any different… you’re on my FL are any of my pics with guys?x You asked the question and we are answering it. We are telling you what our impression is and your getting defensive, what's the point." Just say it's minted and it's a complete mystery why he's not up to his elbows in clunge 24/7. | |||
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"I don't get these posts if you can't attract women without a road map at your age then that's kinda your problem to figure out. No point helping someone get a great profile when they're just gonna disappoint whoever they meet anyway because they haven't figured out what the women they are attracted to want "Your profile is good maybe OP could get some pointers from this as in wording. | |||
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"I don't get these posts if you can't attract women without a road map at your age then that's kinda your problem to figure out. No point helping someone get a great profile when they're just gonna disappoint whoever they meet anyway because they haven't figured out what the women they are attracted to want
Your profile is good maybe OP could get some pointers from this as in wording. "Mines is shit but nobody reads it anyway lol | |||
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"It's pretty bland to be honest and no pics. Better?" I dont know what it was like before but now nah.. a shit cock pic is hardly going to attract women | |||
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"Am I the only woman who's tired of the "Ladies....please help...what do you look for in a profile..."posts? Nobody ever fucking listens to any advice given so what's the point? We give frank, honest feedback and are accused of bullying, being up ourselves or end up on the naughty step for bad mouthing. (When you asked for the fucking feedback in the first place....help me work that one out!) Or, we play nice, say your profile is grand and then you come back in a fortnight and ask the same fucking question. You're a 48 Yr old man. How do you conduct yourself in real life? Transfer that to Fab. Unless you're a complete dick, in which case you'll be chugging to the hot pics until you're collecting your pension. I wouldn’t have posted if I wasn’t interested in feedback, I conduct myself the same no matter the situation…. What got you so wound up breath..!! "So you're an arsehole all the time? | |||
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"I don't get these posts if you can't attract women without a road map at your age then that's kinda your problem to figure out. No point helping someone get a great profile when they're just gonna disappoint whoever they meet anyway because they haven't figured out what the women they are attracted to want
Your profile is good maybe OP could get some pointers from this as in wording.
Mines is shit but nobody reads it anyway lol "I read it and I usually read every profile unless I go on someone’s profile and I have sent a message before and they didn’t respond. | |||
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"It's pretty bland to be honest and no pics. Better?" Adding a close up picture of a penis doesn't really improve things I'm afraid. | |||
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"Sassy I never mentioned anything about not having the confidence or struggling to make conversation, I’m actually a very confident guy. The point I was trying to get across was due to the amount of messages females get on here what stands out on a guys profile "Confidence is something that a lot of people finds attractive, though in my opinion, if you ask what they look for so you can make your profile more appealing...it doesn't shows much confidence. | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine
Average."Suppose thats better than shite lol | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine
Average.
Suppose thats better than shite lol"You don't take the huff. I like that 
Update your profile "Not easily offended." | |||
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"Sassy I never mentioned anything about not having the confidence or struggling to make conversation, I’m actually a very confident guy. The point I was trying to get across was due to the amount of messages females get on here what stands out on a guys profile Confidence is something that a lot of people finds attractive, though in my opinion, if you ask what they look for so you can make your profile more appealing...it doesn't shows much confidence. "I don't think the issue is even the fact that a guy has asked for a few pointers. It's the number of these posts. And, as I said earlier, I know several other forumites, myself included, who have offered honest feedback and fell foul of the Fab High Heid Yins. | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine
Average.
Suppose thats better than shite lol
You don't take the huff. I like that
Update your profile "Not easily offended." "Haha I might just do that…however, you do know it cuts deep on the inside lol | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine
Average.
Suppose thats better than shite lol
You don't take the huff. I like that
Update your profile "Not easily offended."
Haha I might just do that…however, you do know it cuts deep on the inside lol "I'd offer a wee consolation cuddle but I've a reputation as a horrible cunt to maintain so nae luck numbnuts | |||
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"If this is profile critique hour, then what do you think of mine
Average.
Suppose thats better than shite lol
You don't take the huff. I like that
Update your profile "Not easily offended."
Haha I might just do that…however, you do know it cuts deep on the inside lol
I'd offer a wee consolation cuddle but I've a reputation as a horrible cunt to maintain so nae luck numbnuts "Ffs…oh hang on…. …..yeah, think I’m over it | |||
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"Sassy I never mentioned anything about not having the confidence or struggling to make conversation, I’m actually a very confident guy. The point I was trying to get across was due to the amount of messages females get on here what stands out on a guys profile "Well just be you then. You will attract those that are attracted to you. A message that would stand out for one woman may not stand out for another. | |||
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