FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By *iguyforcouples2025 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Can I have opinions please?

Had an issue with a couple of different couples.

I'm a single guy, looking to meet and accommodate. I am more than happy to supply a face pic, as should be expected, however my issue is this :-

The couples concerned have agreed to meet me, but refuse to supply me face pics of them, they expect me to invite them to my home, as complete strangers, without even seeing a face pic. I find this unacceptable,it's my home and my safety.

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By *ornyMarriedCouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Ellesmere port

Don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't meet them."

Yep, this. Or meet in a pub first

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

A lot of people don't want to send face pics online.

You could just offer to have a coffee with them before going to your house?

Face pics aside, I wouldn't be inviting strangers to my house no matter what they looked like.

Social meet first. Then decide.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If they won't send face pics and they want your address it's a massive humongous red flag. Be careful who you're interacting with, not all profiles have the right motives.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I would generally take that as a warning sign. In my experience genuine people are happy to share. If I did decide to meet them then I would go with a public social first.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Use the safest option meet for a social in a pub or something. A social is always important prior unless there has been in-depth conversation for a period

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By *iguyforcouples2025 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thanks for all your replies. Suffice to say I will try and arrange a social first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone refuses to show me their face then I'm not meeting.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just because someone doesn’t supply face pics doesn’t mean they are not genuine. We had someone copy our pics and distribute to others so we are now super sensitive to sharing our face pics.

Having said that we would arrange a social and would not ask for your address or your face pics. Our multiple verifications prove we are genuine we just don’t want our faces shown to who knows who. You can’t get more genuine than just meeting face to face for a drink.

So different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone refuses to show me their face then I'm not meeting.

This ^

Safety aside they aren’t being fair with you OP, and that’s no way to go about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because someone doesn’t supply face pics doesn’t mean they are not genuine. We had someone copy our pics and distribute to others so we are now super sensitive to sharing our face pics.

So different strokes for different folks. "

Erm, there’s ways round this.

I’m sorry but the majority of those who won’t send a face pic are probably timewasters or fakes, there is no way we would arrange the time or effort to meet someone who won’t show their faces!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Personally I'd stop chatting

They could be anyone and sounds like they're expecting you to do all the compromising ie accommodating and not seeing their face.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Just because someone doesn’t supply face pics doesn’t mean they are not genuine. We had someone copy our pics and distribute to others so we are now super sensitive to sharing our face pics.

So different strokes for different folks.

Erm, there’s ways round this.

I’m sorry but the majority of those who won’t send a face pic are probably timewasters or fakes, there is no way we would arrange the time or effort to meet someone who won’t show their faces!"

Depends. In Ireland it's much less common to share face pics and almost unheard of for anyone to have a public facepic.

I don't send or ask for face pics.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincs. yorks.

if they dont show you a face pic , they re not genuine and taking the piss .. consider this as a warning sign ..

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Just because someone doesn’t supply face pics doesn’t mean they are not genuine. We had someone copy our pics and distribute to others so we are now super sensitive to sharing our face pics.

So different strokes for different folks.

Erm, there’s ways round this.

I’m sorry but the majority of those who won’t send a face pic are probably timewasters or fakes, there is no way we would arrange the time or effort to meet someone who won’t show their faces!"

What are the ways round this that would stop people copying you face pics ? Interested to see how this would work.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London

Sorry I'd never go and meet someone kowing that I could see their face and want to leave.

There is a highly verified couple on here and they won't show any pics of the guy except a headless torso shot through a mirror. This guy is also quite old. It was like they wanted us to agree to meet them because I shouldn't care what this super old guy actually looks like at all.

Truth is, I'm not very looks oriented but I wanted to see if this guy is really 60ish because I suspected he was much older and frankly, I want a hard cock in the room

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

Sitting on the table

"Can I have opinions please?

Had an issue with a couple of different couples.

I'm a single guy, looking to meet and accommodate. I am more than happy to supply a face pic, as should be expected, however my issue is this :-

Thoughts"

Did they explicitly ask you for a face pic before you sent one to them?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not a chance, I'd never meet someone without seeing their face, the face is the most attractive part to me.

To meet someone take one look and be like no thanks would be a huge waste of everyone's time, plus not many take a no thank you well & definitely not like to be in that situation in my home.

Mrs

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If you find it unacceptable then don't meet them.It is that simple.

To be honest I don't know why a face pic would make you feel safer meeting them anyhow for the first time. Yes it might show you that you're not attracted to them but not safer.

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