FabSwingers.com forum: Help

By *om66668 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Sunderland

Hoping for some help on here to get replys and more views.

If someone could review my profile and tell me how I could improve it that would be great.

Also what kind of pictures I should be uploading as I don't want my profile to be full of dick pics hahaha.

Thanks in advance T

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By *restonCouple555Couple
46 weeks ago

preston

Hey! My advice would be swap the word ‘females’ for ‘ladies’. using the word ‘females’ just gives me that vibe of a guy that doesn’t actually know any real women to me. Might be personal but comes off a bit creepy to me.

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By *om66668 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Sunderland

"Hey! My advice would be swap the word ‘females’ for ‘ladies’. using the word ‘females’ just gives me that vibe of a guy that doesn’t actually know any real women to me. Might be personal but comes off a bit creepy to me. "

Thanks

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
46 weeks ago

Chester

I’d change your profile pic to something that’s not the standard silhouette - often people will delete messages that come from accounts with no profile pic.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
46 weeks ago

Hyde

Ok.... remember that your profile is yours and you can have it as you wish but since you asked for opinions here is my honest one....

Pics- change your profile pic to an actual pic, maybe add some more less blurry.

Bio;

"Interested in taking pictures as well of ladies in sexy lingerie and doing sex acts (masturbating,sucking,fucking also getting facials)"

So... 'doing sex acts' as a phrase is weird wording

'Getting facials'... do you mean giving them or are you bi?

Pics and vids 'for my own viewing and to upload here'... again something sounds a little creepy and you may be better talking about gaining consent in this.

'Bdsm stuff' .... what's that? Be specific

'Safe sex if you wish' - this would make me run a mile as it sounds like your norm is bare and for me that's a red flag/major no.

Sorry if this is too honest or blunt .... just trying to help.

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Agree with others on pic thing, set one as your avatar or many will delete you.

It reads a bit as it's all about what you want, nothing about what you offer, so maybe expand on that a bit.

Also I think second paragraph should start with always, so change that too.

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By *istr3ssWoman
46 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"I’d change your profile pic to something that’s not the standard silhouette - often people will delete messages that come from accounts with no profile pic. "

I do that. I don't reply to anyone who hasn't bothered to put some sort of picture there

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By *om66668 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Sunderland

Thankyou all ill make some changes where I can

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Sorry to say that this is the issue I have with all of these constant profile advice threads. Using the example of one bit of advice given above - we now have a profile that previously would have been a good filter for people like myself who don’t want to meet people who engage in bareback sex, that is going to be amended to obscure this fact.

No harm intended at all to the OP, just some food for thought…

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I don’t look at messages sent from someone without a profile pic.

You have public pics OP, easy to use one of them as a profile one.

If also lose your end sentence “I don’t bite….”

Honestly, it’s really cheesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"I don’t look at messages sent from someone without a profile pic.

You have public pics OP, easy to use one of them as a profile one.

If also lose your end sentence “I don’t bite….”

Honestly, it’s really cheesy."

*I’d not if*

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I’d change your profile pic to something that’s not the standard silhouette - often people will delete messages that come from accounts with no profile pic. "

To me this is an important point.

A guy once kept thinking I wanted to meet him but in reality he had a nice profile name but the blackhead main picture. I kept tapping on his profile and realising I didn't fancy him. He was adamant that I really fancied him and was playing hard to get ...

Wtf...?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
46 weeks ago

South Down

"Sorry to say that this is the issue I have with all of these constant profile advice threads. Using the example of one bit of advice given above - we now have a profile that previously would have been a good filter for people like myself who don’t want to meet people who engage in bareback sex, that is going to be amended to obscure this fact.

No harm intended at all to the OP, just some food for thought…"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

No harm intended at all to the OP, just some food for thought…

Couldn't agree more "

Thank you, good to know this isn’t just me. Thinking this more and more with every one of these threads that I do wish were prohibited…

…but of course, they’re mostly all the same and likely only posted for attention because the OP has taken little to none of the advice given

quelle surprise……

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By *ink vixenCouple
45 weeks ago

Medway

No harm intended at all to the OP, just some food for thought…"

Agree with this normally but I think in this case a couple of messages will be an effective enough filter.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
45 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"…but of course, they’re mostly all the same and likely only posted for attention because the OP has taken little to none of the advice given

quelle surprise……"

It is a bit strange when the top five threads in this forum are guys asking for advice and getting the same sort of replies. Couldn't they just read one of the other threads?

Maybe it's a thing for guys to edit their profile and deliberately make them rubbish, so that they can come on here asking for advice? Just so they get some attention?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
45 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Become a Geordie rather than a Mackem!

(Sorry, couldn't resist.) All the best.

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By *orny-DJMan
45 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

As others have said, profile pic, profile pic, profile pic.

Whilst you have the black silhouette, most of those you try to engage with will simply delete your message without reading it and most likely won't even check out your profile to see if you have any pics.

It screams lack of effort.

You've been given some very sound advice, but one of the most important bits of that advice is to make sure you have a profile picture.

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