FabSwingers.com forum: What do couples and single F look for in a profile

By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance.

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52 weeks ago

Ultimately for me it isn't about standing out, it's about telling me enough information about yourself that I think we would get along.

I am never keen on profiles that just read like they're looking for just anyone. I want to see if our personalities would mix well.

Attraction is important also, for me it doesn't matter how well we may get along if I'm not attracted I'm not doing anything.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
52 weeks ago

cahoots

That there is a match with our profile

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By *ossannCouple
52 weeks ago

London

Ideally, I'd want to see sexuality, kink friendliness, marital status, objectives and desires.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
52 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance. "

I want your profile to be about you.

So many adopt a "I'm into everything" approach, which makes them very banal and samey.

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Just be urself you wont please everyone, personally i like to see some varied pics to get an idea if id be into you, not a fan of seeing past conquests though

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Thanks for the advice folks.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance. "

Do we fancy them?

Does it seem like they might fancy us?

Could we be a good match?

Are they (preferably) both bi?

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
52 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

I want to see someone funny, approachable and able to tell me what they are looking for. Something more than a dick pic.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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52 weeks ago

East Sussex

Someone I find attractive

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By *ovingittwoCouple
52 weeks ago

Norwich

I think your profile is interesting Mrs xx

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By *rpeggioCouple
52 weeks ago

Baughurst

A match between what we are looking for and what the other profile is looking for. If they are not explicitly saying what they ate looking for, it's unlikely we could be a match to each other.

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Thank you. So is yours x

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Good advice, thank you, nice pics btw

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
52 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
52 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

It’s a good profile with enough to establish fit and what you’re looking for (if you’re going for dating profile/FWB, then you’ve nailed it).

When we do group events, we have found that rugby guys are super respectful, and I’d atleast have something to chat about if all else fails. Personally, I’d keep that in. They also don’t mind me taking a break to check the score. if you’re okay with it, I’d happily hotlist you and send an invite when we next do one in Daventry. Xx

Prof

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By *anJenny 181Couple
52 weeks ago

Preston

Some personality is a massive plus for us and if that can be expressed in your profile you will catch people's eye.

If you have a kink or want to express sexuality 100% talk about it in your profile, someone will want that same thing.

Most of all have fun with fab if all you get out of it is a horny wank then you have got something from the experience

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Hi Prof.

I'm in, thank you so much for the invite. I'll even look over the Boks scarf...

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Thanks guys, appreciate the honesty. Lovely profile btw

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By *icentiousCouple
52 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Girls?

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
52 weeks ago

phoenix

I look for a variety of pics (and it goes without saying I am looking for them to be attractive to me in order to reply). I am very interested in chemistry and witty banter, so a profile that shows a little bit of personality and tells me what they are interested in is also helpful

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

???

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By *penbicoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton

"???"

?!?!

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

Sorry was replying to the comment 'girls'

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By *enelope2UWoman
52 weeks ago

Fife

I look for pictures that show personality.. dick pics only I block.. it says absolutely nothing except there's only one brain that thinks for them...

I like real sex not fab sex so if there's no connection there's nothing sexual that will ever happen

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

"It’s a good profile with enough to establish fit and what you’re looking for (if you’re going for dating profile/FWB, then you’ve nailed it).

Prof

I would very much welcome the invite, thank you, Prof.

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By *iking_WitchWoman
52 weeks ago

Hinckley

Personality, mutual respect, understanding and appreciation of boundaries and a properly thought out and completed profile are the things I look for.

I am not interested in profiles that:

Have no pics/only dick pics

"I'll fill this out later"

Couples where the guy insists he's the only one that will talk and come to a social.

Hundreds of verifications.

"Been here before as XYZ add me"

And as boring as it sounds I am also needing to be attracted to that person facially. I understand that some people can do the"paperbag" scenario but I and many others can't. So if I don't fancy someone I'm not going to be able to play and nobody is going to be everybody's type. I try not to get upset by rejection.

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By *atureguy65Man
52 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Ultimately for me it isn't about standing out, it's about telling me enough information about yourself that I think we would get along.

I am never keen on profiles that just read like they're looking for just anyone. I want to see if our personalities would mix well.

Attraction is important also, for me it doesn't matter how well we may get along if I'm not attracted I'm not doing anything.

Hello, BT. Maybe you can answer a puzzle for me? Why do folk (as you have) hide their profile? What's your reason?

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By *oxy jWoman
52 weeks ago

taunton somerset

you ask that question as if everybody is the same...

no 2 couplws /women will be the same look for the same or indeed want the same ..

so op its a pointless question all you can do is be you and hope that you attract someone

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By *oxy jWoman
52 weeks ago

taunton somerset

"Ultimately for me it isn't about standing out, it's about telling me enough information about yourself that I think we would get along.

I am never keen on profiles that just read like they're looking for just anyone. I want to see if our personalities would mix well.

Attraction is important also, for me it doesn't matter how well we may get along if I'm not attracted I'm not doing anything.

Hello, BT. Maybe you can answer a puzzle for me? Why do folk (as you have) hide their profile? What's your reason? "

because she can ??? why does she need a reason

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By *andb69Couple
52 weeks ago

leeds

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance. "

Honesty! And then whether they're attractive to us (and us to them). Contrary to what a number of women say on Fab, I like to see some nice cock photos. I'm here for fantasy sex, and that doesn't involve cocks I don't find attractive.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

I need to know if I'm physically attracted to a guy - so a good range of pics that shows how he looks, are essential.

I want to grasp a man, so I can perceive him differently from others. Plus what's he about sexually?

The more uncertainty I'm left with, the greater the likelihood that he's overlooked. He may not be forgotten, if there was almost no substance that he'd promoted. (Almost an invisible man).

How a guy presents his reality, is his decision. I'd not advise a guy how to do it, as it should be his unique way; I can emphasise what I need though. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Expect that you will not be right for most of us. But work to make it easy for us to know if you could be

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

Another highly valuable asset - you demonstrate empathy

. How well a guy seems to have grasped what I need and delivered it, is a huge differentiator from the majority of men

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By *ojo2joWoman
52 weeks ago

Penclawdd

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance. "

I think your profile is fab and would stand out to be. A few more tasteful pics would add to it. Rugby kit? Muddy knees?

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By *anted by NightMan
52 weeks ago

Shangri-La

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance. "

Cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

We would look for a profile that reads like he is confident but respectful. What he is looking for and what he is in to sexually and not the usual up for fun bs. I've been a single guy on here and it's hard as fuck as there is so many so you need to get and make you stand out as an individual over the 1000s of other up for fun, will try anything once, or worst yet just a blank profile with a dick in a sink pic.

Not saying writing a decent profile will get meets or even chatting but it would help. Body photos over a dozen dick pics. Decent body photos with and without clothes on I think would go a long way.

if you do have dick pictures though, try and make them look clean and sexy. Not a quick I've pulled my knob out the top of my trousers but you might not see it through the woods and bushes, followed by 20 others doing the same.

If you end up having a profile that is a two or three years old with no verifications it might be worth deleting and starting again with a fresh look.

About verifications, even if you are struggling for meets, try to get to a club and at least try to get a conversation going where they would at least be happy to verify that you are real and hopefully respectful. The amount of people that come onto the forums to complain they can't get a meet but won't go to a club just to socialise and hopefully meet one or two people is amazing. J will talk to anyone, and if you they are respectful and not pushy we would happily verify even if we're not interested.

Hope my waffling is of some use

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Just read op's profile, actually really decent, if we were not 200+miles and fancied a single guy, your profile would actually interest us

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By *ringbackfingering OP Man
52 weeks ago

Coventry

"Just read op's profile, actually really decent, if we were not 200+miles and fancied a single guy, your profile would actually interest us

Thanks guys, love yours

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By *inkystar1Woman
52 weeks ago

Heathfield

"Ultimately for me it isn't about standing out, it's about telling me enough information about yourself that I think we would get along.

I am never keen on profiles that just read like they're looking for just anyone. I want to see if our personalities would mix well.

Attraction is important also, for me it doesn't matter how well we may get along if I'm not attracted I'm not doing anything.

Hello, BT. Maybe you can answer a puzzle for me? Why do folk (as you have) hide their profile? What's your reason? "

It's considered rude to jump on someone else's thread. Why don't you try asking in your own thread and you'd get more luck

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By *andC1000Couple
52 weeks ago

Ashford

"Relatively new to the fab world, although, I've been swinging for years.

What do couples and unicorns want to see in a profile, that will stand out from others.

Thanks in advance.

Do we fancy them?

Does it seem like they might fancy us?

Could we be a good match?

Are they (preferably) both bi?"

All of this and most importantly that they’ve actually read our profile before messaging

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