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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " It depends whether the guy was any good .. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. " What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . | |||
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"What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets ." It's the 100% cock pics on his profile that does it. Or have I let the secret out that the "powers that be" don't want you to know? | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets ." Probably be ause his profile being a decent read, very clear on what he's looking for, what he'd like to try etc isnt putting himself or others down. His veris also suggest he's very respectful of all people involved, can follow scenarios people are looking for etc. I'd assume hes also nice in person as he's got many veris that are from the same people so they opted to meet again. Quick trip to the green arrow also shows a pretty positive fab experience which probably also shines through in person. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . Probably be ause his profile being a decent read, very clear on what he's looking for, what he'd like to try etc isnt putting himself or others down. His veris also suggest he's very respectful of all people involved, can follow scenarios people are looking for etc. I'd assume hes also nice in person as he's got many veris that are from the same people so they opted to meet again. Quick trip to the green arrow also shows a pretty positive fab experience which probably also shines through in person. " Thanks four you reply. Could I ask for your honest opinion on my profile. ? I must have re-written it 20 times during my year and half on here. I've tried to be light hearted with my latest bio ,but ive obviously got it wrong again,as I must have all the previous attempts. Any pointers would be appreciated. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets ." Probably goes to clubs and socials. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . Probably goes to clubs and socials. "  | |||
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"Regulars if possible for us. Once we've done all the work in finding a guy, doing a social, working out what we all want we'd rather not redo all that effort for every meet. Something I would love a regular couple or single So long as the guy was reliable, respectful and we all enjoyed ourselves it seems a no brainer as sex tends to get better with some familiarity. It's the same in clubs with ladies and couples, means no need for an awkward ice breaker convo and if we know they are fun and the sex is good, why wouldn't we meet again?" | |||
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"A regular guy to join us would be ideal. It is nice to meet a one off at clubs, but you can’t guarantee meeting someone though "Would love to be a regular  | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . Probably be ause his profile being a decent read, very clear on what he's looking for, what he'd like to try etc isnt putting himself or others down. His veris also suggest he's very respectful of all people involved, can follow scenarios people are looking for etc. I'd assume hes also nice in person as he's got many veris that are from the same people so they opted to meet again. Quick trip to the green arrow also shows a pretty positive fab experience which probably also shines through in person. Thanks four you reply. Could I ask for your honest opinion on my profile. ? I must have re-written it 20 times during my year and half on here. I've tried to be light hearted with my latest bio ,but ive obviously got it wrong again,as I must have all the previous attempts. Any pointers would be appreciated. " You need to have a complete 360 of how you look at meeting on here. Also stop with the posts about the stuffle to get a meet. Stop jumping on other guys threads and dissing them asking for advise as they have verifications. Get out the out the house. Fanny ain't going to come find you. Too busy with the guys who actually embrace the scene and understand it. I doubt you will take this on board tho and continue as you have. whilst complaining to anyone about your lack of success. | |||
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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " If we could find a decent one then it would be regular. Majority cancel before the meet and the few that actually turn up last minutes. We've given up. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . Probably be ause his profile being a decent read, very clear on what he's looking for, what he'd like to try etc isnt putting himself or others down. His veris also suggest he's very respectful of all people involved, can follow scenarios people are looking for etc. I'd assume hes also nice in person as he's got many veris that are from the same people so they opted to meet again. Quick trip to the green arrow also shows a pretty positive fab experience which probably also shines through in person. Thanks four you reply. Could I ask for your honest opinion on my profile. ? I must have re-written it 20 times during my year and half on here. I've tried to be light hearted with my latest bio ,but ive obviously got it wrong again,as I must have all the previous attempts. Any pointers would be appreciated. You need to have a complete 360 of how you look at meeting on here. Also stop with the posts about the stuffle to get a meet. Stop jumping on other guys threads and dissing them asking for advise as they have verifications. Get out the out the house. Fanny ain't going to come find you. Too busy with the guys who actually embrace the scene and understand it. I doubt you will take this on board tho and continue as you have. whilst complaining to anyone about your lack of success. " Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it. Clubs arnt for everyone, and I am one of those people. Maybe that's why I havnt met anyone in my year and half on here Don't get me wrong , I'm not against socials, I would love a public social meet for a coffee or bite to eat, but I'm looking fir a one on one social, not a group social. | |||
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"Clubs arnt for everyone, and I am one of those people. Maybe that's why I havnt met anyone in my year and half on here Don't get me wrong , I'm not against socials, I would love a public social meet for a coffee or bite to eat, but I'm looking fir a one on one social, not a group social." I don't know you, but maybe you have to ask yourself if you're really a swinger if that's the case? I think the vast majority of single guys on here aren't actually swingers. They're just looking for more sex. That's perfectly reasonable, but this is the wrong site for that, and it does explain why so few of them get anywhere. Only you know the answer to that one. | |||
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"Clubs arnt for everyone, and I am one of those people. Maybe that's why I havnt met anyone in my year and half on here Don't get me wrong , I'm not against socials, I would love a public social meet for a coffee or bite to eat, but I'm looking fir a one on one social, not a group social. I don't know you, but maybe you have to ask yourself if you're really a swinger if that's the case? I think the vast majority of single guys on here aren't actually swingers. They're just looking for more sex. That's perfectly reasonable, but this is the wrong site for that, and it does explain why so few of them get anywhere. Only you know the answer to that one." This is a good response. Not specifically to the ValleyDave but to so many of the single men who have profiles on here. Are you a swinger or do you just want more/casual sex? Nothing wrong with the latter but there are better places. BTW the text in ValleyDave’s profile is brilliantly funny and shows personality. Really wish you well in finding what is right for you. | |||
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"Our preference is couples and we would have sex more than once but as we generally go to clubs it's rare to see the same people on a regular basis so it tends to be one offs which we are happy with." Very much our approach as well. Very happy to meet people more than once, but no expectations  | |||
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"Regulars are our preference . Stayed with one guy 10 yrs . Few other guys 2..3 yrs . But met n fucked 50+ guys inbetween .. " Very lucky guys to have played with you both x | |||
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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " Most of my meets are with regulars. | |||
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"I just find it more relaxed if its a regular Couple which also makes it more fun and try different things. What's your secret mate. ? Over 20 meets . Probably be ause his profile being a decent read, very clear on what he's looking for, what he'd like to try etc isnt putting himself or others down. His veris also suggest he's very respectful of all people involved, can follow scenarios people are looking for etc. I'd assume hes also nice in person as he's got many veris that are from the same people so they opted to meet again. Quick trip to the green arrow also shows a pretty positive fab experience which probably also shines through in person. Thanks four you reply. Could I ask for your honest opinion on my profile. ? I must have re-written it 20 times during my year and half on here. I've tried to be light hearted with my latest bio ,but ive obviously got it wrong again,as I must have all the previous attempts. Any pointers would be appreciated. You need to have a complete 360 of how you look at meeting on here. Also stop with the posts about the stuffle to get a meet. Stop jumping on other guys threads and dissing them asking for advise as they have verifications. Get out the out the house. Fanny ain't going to come find you. Too busy with the guys who actually embrace the scene and understand it. I doubt you will take this on board tho and continue as you have. whilst complaining to anyone about your lack of success. Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it. Clubs arnt for everyone, and I am one of those people. Maybe that's why I havnt met anyone in my year and half on here Don't get me wrong , I'm not against socials, I would love a public social meet for a coffee or bite to eat, but I'm looking fir a one on one social, not a group social." I didn't mention clubs or group socials. This is also your regular response to any advice you are given. What you are doing isn't working. Change what you have control over or give up and try other sites. But for the love of God stop moaning. Absolutely no one wants to meet someone who is so negative in their outlook | |||
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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " I would prefer to have randoms. Cali | |||
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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " From every perspective I think regular partner(s) are best. But that doesn’t mean a new partner can’t be amazing too. | |||
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"Regular, that way we can all build trust and explore new boundaries " Totally besides just the naughty stuff which is fwb | |||
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"Just a question dor Couples do they prefer to keep a regular male joining them or do they prefer one offs with different male's. " We prefer one offs. Tried the regular thing and it was wierd. Almost became friends. Meeting strangers last min is exciting for us. Most of the time we don't know their names hahha | |||
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