FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile too long ?

By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?

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By *ucka39Man
48 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Nope it isn't too long and you've put enough information and lovely photos x

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Hiya op

Nope it isn't too long and you've put enough information and lovely photos x"

Thanks, that’s good to hear

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By *ucka39Man
48 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Hiya op

Nope it isn't too long and you've put enough information and lovely photos x

Thanks, that’s good to hear "

Welcome

You could just continue to fill your photo gallery nothing much else people can do

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No I don't think so op

Didn't take me long to read and very clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?"

Have your profile however you want it.

Don't feel bad if some men don't read it- that's their problem not yours. Some just look at pics.

If you're not interested just tell them so. Or don't reply at all. Up to you.

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"No I don't think so op

Didn't take me long to read and very clear. "

Thank you, always going to get messages from guys who clearly haven’t read it

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By *imi_RougeWoman
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I honestly don't think it makes any difference, majority of people don't read them!

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?

Have your profile however you want it.

Don't feel bad if some men don't read it- that's their problem not yours. Some just look at pics.

If you're not interested just tell them so. Or don't reply at all. Up to you. "

Thanks. I have learned to not reply as otherwise it start a cycle of why not or meet me and you’ll have a great time

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Excellent profile and pics. You clearly state what you are looking for. Wishing you every success.

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I honestly don't think it makes any difference, majority of people don't read them!"

Yes so I have found, makes it an easy decision which messages to answer

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Excellent profile and pics. You clearly state what you are looking for. Wishing you every success. "

Thank you, you too

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?"

Seems about right to me, you'll find a lot dont read them regardless of length.

Mind have seen some like war and peace

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By *electableicecreamMan
48 weeks ago

The West

Personally I would pass your profile by as I find it leaning to far into negativity.

The people you are writing all of those Don'ts and Won'ts for are not your target audience and they are not going to read or abide by what they read anyway so for me all the text about why you won't reply etc is redundant.

I think you could remove all the negative text and get a nice positive profile out of it.

Just my opinion of course!

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By *ongueFkYouMan
48 weeks ago

Bradford

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?"
nothing wrong with your profile! X

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By *rpeggioCouple
48 weeks ago

Baughurst

It's clear and to the point, not long. Should do the job.

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Personally I would pass your profile by as I find it leaning to far into negativity.

I think you could remove all the negative text and get a nice positive profile out of it.

Just my opinion of course!"

Thanks, very thoughtful advice. I may try a shorter basic profile of what I’m looking for without the negatives

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?"

Thanks everyone, seems majority think it’s okay so I’ll have a think, appreciate all the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It's informative and clear, it doesn't waffle on about nothing ha its important information if the people reading it are genuinly intersted. It's a good profile.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
48 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

"The people you are writing all of those Don'ts and Won'ts for are not your target audience and they are not going to read or abide by what they read anyway so for me all the text about why you won't reply etc is redundant.

I think you could remove all the negative text and get a nice positive profile out of it."

I'd agree with this. Whatever you do, you'll get lots of responses. But obviously, what you should focus on is making sure the people you want message as well.

Actually, I'm sure you'll get LOTS of responses

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Advice welcome. Is my profile too long ? I have tried to say what I’m looking for and what messages I’ll reply to. Do I need different/new pictures. Should profile be very basic ?"

Thanks you fab people, now updated without the negatives

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
48 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

Looks great! I would!

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