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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there,

Spanking before,during or after sex can be a major stimulant as it releases a chemical into the blood causing a euphoria in some people. I had a lady friend who asked me to spank her before sex as fore-play and it certainly worked for her.

Jon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm spanking does very naughty things to my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it too

But its got to be mutual x x

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By *exy firemanMan
over a year ago

essex

its a real turn on if done properly! Mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. Drives me insane to point I plead with Kyle to spank me. Definitely find I get even more turned on when spanked hard.

Getting turned on thinking bout it now!!lol.

Amazin thing came so quick and so hard on Kyle when I straddled him and he spanked me at same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it too

But its got to be mutual x x"

Ooops I don't mean I like to spank people lol. I mean they have to enjoy spanking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking is creeping into our sex life more and more started with the hand then a hair brush. Now a riding crop with a heart on the end. Only problem is all the horse riding she has done has toughened up her cute little behind so much that I don't get to leave the odd reminder mark for her to be a good girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

my wife loves to be spanked drives her mad by hand or whip tied up or just put over my knee lol

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I love spanking naughty young ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked to the point of orgasm. not too hard though but just enough to make a lovely sharp sound with a tingle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I have to admit I'm finding that I like it more after sex, Ian used his belt on me a few weeks ago and I loved it , came so hard. We have brought a flogger and a riding crop but not used them yet. Any tips on these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked and spanking, only done it with my hand as yet but would love to bring some toys like the crop and hairbrush into play. I love being bent over someone's knee for a spanking gets me really turned on, but I wish I could find a lady willing to spank me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being spanked and spanking is such a turn on- even more so if it stings a little bit then have it licked where you've been spanked- the wet tongue on ur hot skin feels even more intense!

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


" We have brought a flogger and a riding crop but not used them yet. Any tips on these? "

Start gently.

Even a gentle crack from a crop will hurt and mark. Unless he is trying to mark you, warm the skin with hand spanking first. Crops will bite/sting more than spanking so start gentle and spread the landing spot around the cheeks or the heat can turn to pain quickly. Depending on what the flogger falls (dangly bits) are made of will determine how much sting and how thump you get with each stroke.

Try pausing if it is getting a bit intense and changing implements to change the sensations. With Nat it helps if she cums between them so it is a beat cum beat cum splash sort of thing

Flogging is all about rhythm, for the recipient it is like a wonderfully sensuous massage. There are some wonderful videos on youtube if you get serious about it.

But the overriding rule is, do what works for you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being spanked and spanking is such a turn on- even more so if it stings a little bit then have it licked where you've been spanked- the wet tongue on ur hot skin feels even more intense! "

Mmmmm like the sound of that being licked on a nice set of rosy cheeks never tried that but it sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being spanked and spanking is such a turn on- even more so if it stings a little bit then have it licked where you've been spanked- the wet tongue on ur hot skin feels even more intense!

Mmmmm like the sound of that being licked on a nice set of rosy cheeks never tried that but it sounds good "

Its more than good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being spanked and spanking is such a turn on- even more so if it stings a little bit then have it licked where you've been spanked- the wet tongue on ur hot skin feels even more intense! "

Ooh I might have to get Ian to try this on me sounds good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? ! "

Different strokes for different folks (excuse the pun!) Lol, but yeah this is perfectly 'normal'. Different sexual things satisfy different people I'm all for trying something once otherwise you'll never know if you like it. And its so much fun expanding on ur new turn ons with each other/others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spanking and have some nice paddles, as well as a good hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? !

Different strokes for different folks (excuse the pun!) Lol, but yeah this is perfectly 'normal'. Different sexual things satisfy different people I'm all for trying something once otherwise you'll never know if you like it. And its so much fun expanding on ur new turn ons with each other/others "

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By *ensualkinkMan
over a year ago

hotel or at yours

Great thread, thanks OP.

I enjoy spanking and this threads given me a hard problem

I must admit that I prefer hand to paddles / other supplements. I like the warm feel and enjoy caressing in between hard spanks. Especially love to run my fingers all over before commencing steady strokes again. I find spanking as sensual and have had great results when mixed with oily massage.

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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

You could look at your local Fetish/BDSM scene for info and join one of the fetish web sites like Fetlife.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Well I have to admit I'm finding that I like it more after sex, Ian used his belt on me a few weeks ago and I loved it , came so hard. We have brought a flogger and a riding crop but not used them yet. Any tips on these? "

Depends what you kind of spanking you want.. floggers are good for warming up as they cover a bigger surface area, they will cause the whole arse to feel fiery.

The crop, will concentrate the heat in a smaller area, good if you are into symmetrical markings.

You could also involve whips, as they create a different sensation...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Very much a favourite for us, C is a bit of a spanking addict, loves to receive from me, and from women we have met too. Table tennis bat is the favourite implement so far, although they don't seem to stand up to repeated use very well, sadly.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

Would strongly recommend a fish slice...Bizarre I know but leaves wonderful marks...and arneca cream.....helps to soothe afterwards..

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Love beeing spanked by a dominant guy,barehand spanking is my fav but when in role enjoy a paddle+flogger,too.

(susie)

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

I very much like being spanked, I won't ask for it during a meet but if a guys read my profile he should know what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one thing to say about spanking and that's "mmmmm yes please I'm a bad bad girl"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

More common than you realise then. Mind you it is very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? ! "

I don't know about normal but reading this thread is certainly getting me turned on so much that u could just do with a good spanking right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum "

Are they just called spanking creams?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Was smacked on the botty recently during sex andvthe man was still breathing after so he was lucky lol.

I actually surprised myself about how when the moment was right it felt good x

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

My wife/slave loves to be put over my knee for a punishment spanking. As we are kinksters, spanking is not confined to bums but all over! Not too hard though, just enough to slightly redden

I always chance a little sly slap on the bum when i'm playing with another woman! Never had a bad reaction yet you would be suprised how kinky people are if you create the atmosphere and chance your arm....lol

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams? "

arnica cream....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams?

arnica cream...."

Thanks will get some from the chemist.

Apart from the FISH SLICE ( which I'm going to try) anybody else used something peculiar for spanking?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

sometimes a bum just says id love a little smack. im always surprised when the recipient tells me how nice it felt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams?

arnica cream....

Thanks will get some from the chemist.

Apart from the FISH SLICE ( which I'm going to try) anybody else used something peculiar for spanking? "

I once got asked to collect a selection of household items that I could be spanked with.

I got a stick that the balloons come on from mcdonalds.

a carpet beater.

Spatula

Hair brush

old cord from the kettle.

wooden ruler.

table tennis paddle

Amongst other things..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me "

I'd love to spank you my dear, you've been a very naughty girl and deserve to be chastised

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Long steel and plastic shoe horns

Cake frosting Knife/spatula rubber coated steel

a bit of the hose of a steam stripper

handful of birch saplings

an old police truncheon

a mop head fastened to a loo chain handle

a length of armoured cable wrapped for safety in some shrinkwrap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams?

arnica cream....

Thanks will get some from the chemist.

Apart from the FISH SLICE ( which I'm going to try) anybody else used something peculiar for spanking?

I once got asked to collect a selection of household items that I could be spanked with.

I got a stick that the balloons come on from mcdonalds.

a carpet beater.

Spatula

Hair brush

old cord from the kettle.

wooden ruler.

table tennis paddle

Amongst other things..

cali"

Ooh I really like that idea might have to tell Ian about that! Thanks Cali. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Long steel and plastic shoe horns

Cake frosting Knife/spatula rubber coated steel

a bit of the hose of a steam stripper

handful of birch saplings

an old police truncheon

a mop head fastened to a loo chain handle

a length of armoured cable wrapped for safety in some shrinkwrap"

Dare I ask where you got the policeman crunching from? Lol They all sound like fun to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams?

arnica cream....

Thanks will get some from the chemist.

Apart from the FISH SLICE ( which I'm going to try) anybody else used something peculiar for spanking?

I once got asked to collect a selection of household items that I could be spanked with.

I got a stick that the balloons come on from mcdonalds.

a carpet beater.

Spatula

Hair brush

old cord from the kettle.

wooden ruler.

table tennis paddle

Amongst other things..

cali

Ooh I really like that idea might have to tell Ian about that! Thanks Cali. X "

Not forgetting a good wide leather belt

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Gosh nothing turns me on more than receiving or giving a good spanking. Equally as much as i like being paddled you cant quite beat a firm palm. Not quite sure why it does such things to me to the point im begging for one but its getting me incredibly horny thinking about it..

"The most forbidden and sensitive part of the bottom is the lower half, where the muscles are plumpest and the division between them is deepest. The "sweet spot," a spanker's delight, is the lower central portion of the buttocks, spreading generally from the crest of one nether cheek to the crest of the next. This spot, situated over and around the cleft, is highly susceptible to both painful and erotic sensations." Lorelie

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to be a time, i'd probably have hit someone if they tried to spank me, now i'm loving it! to the point of orgasm and beyond... mmmmmmmm dammit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U can get nice creams for ur bottom after a spanking session. Saw some the other day. Anyone tried them?

A bit of spanking really intensifies sex for me especially if my bf is thrusting into me at the same time!

Yumyum

Are they just called spanking creams?

arnica cream....

Thanks will get some from the chemist.

Apart from the FISH SLICE ( which I'm going to try) anybody else used something peculiar for spanking?

I once got asked to collect a selection of household items that I could be spanked with.

I got a stick that the balloons come on from mcdonalds.

a carpet beater.

Spatula

Hair brush

old cord from the kettle.

wooden ruler.

table tennis paddle

Amongst other things..

cali

Ooh I really like that idea might have to tell Ian about that! Thanks Cali. X

Not forgetting a good wide leather belt

"

Have only had a belt used on me once by Ian, wasn't a wide one but God it was good! Have never came so hard in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swapping ends so you occasionally get the buckle is a treat too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swapping ends so you occasionally get the buckle is a treat too "

Have not tried that one might get Ian to do it tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even more pleasurable if you're cuffed, he pulls the belt from his trousers, then folds it before you, then pushes you face down to reveal your ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "
OMG I love a good Spanking during sex, I also love to spank my Nipples & Clit with my leather Spanker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even more pleasurable if you're cuffed, he pulls the belt from his trousers, then folds it before you, then pushes you face down to reveal your ass"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it! "

Mmmm nice, nice I have a headmasters cane I want to use... if only you were closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it!

Mmmm nice, nice I have a headmasters cane I want to use... if only you were closer"

Don't know if my arse could take a caning!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it!

Mmmm nice, nice I have a headmasters cane I want to use... if only you were closer

Don't know if my arse could take a caning! "

from what have seen on videos and dvds it's pretty painful and leaves spectacular marks, not sure I'd enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

I love it arse and pussy - but not to hard just enough for that gasp effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane is lush. Spanking is lush. So much to play with. Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being spanked during and after it gets me well horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cane is lush. Spanking is lush. So much to play with. Yummy "

I have never been caned.. but find the crop anything but lush... hand or paddle yes...

but cane even watching someone else get it fills me with fear.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


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but cane even watching someone else get it fills me with fear.

"

Its not the implement used but the person using it that makes the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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but cane even watching someone else get it fills me with fear.

Its not the implement used but the person using it that makes the difference."

when being used on me.. then yes..but even seeing a cane or the word... well it makes me feel fear.. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even good girls need a spanking every once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe our user name says it all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looooooove spanking ass

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it!

Mmmm nice, nice I have a headmasters cane I want to use... if only you were closer

Don't know if my arse could take a caning! "

A cane is the only thing I've had to say no to so far, it was just pain and no pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I was caned I squirted on the fiest stroke. We never do too many. I think it makes him want to fuck me too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also really enjoy using crop, cane, flogger, paddle, hand etc!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even good girls need a spanking every once in a while

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Id love to be spanked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes love this sort of play but it has to be at the right time and with someone I trust not to get out of hand with it.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


"

but even seeing a cane or the word... well it makes me feel fear.. lol."

OK well just pop this blindfold on and I'll gently tap you with this stick of wilted celery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

but even seeing a cane or the word... well it makes me feel fear.. lol.

OK well just pop this blindfold on and I'll gently tap you with this stick of wilted celery "

Never used wilted celery just as long as it does not have cream cheese in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm I am now thinking I might want to try cane and paddle.

So now the question how do the two differ so to speak, pain/Mark wise?

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

As far as paddles are concerned, the softer the facing material, the less bite they will have. The heavier the paddle, the thuddier each hit will be.

So a thin suede paddle or slapper would be very gentle where as an ebony paddle with a ridged face would sting and burn.

With canes, thin bites and is more likely to mark, thick thumps and is more likely to bruise below the surface giving that lovely ouch when sat on days afterwards.

With both the effect increases with the force that they are used. If you want cane stripes use a thin cane hard on a bottom that hasn't been previously hit. If you want sore but not marked then an extending paddling followed by a caning with lots of strokes that start soft and get stronger will be best.

In ultimate terms a thin whippy cane probably hurts the most and a big fluffy paddle the least but all of them will hurt if wielded with force.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am a total innocent in all of these conversations and have nothing to add

However, I have 'heard' that's it also depends on the experience of the person doing the spanking/whipping/caning and also the wood things have been made out of (the weight of)and also the texture of said spanking paddle used or flogger for that matter....

But then, I have only 'heard' about these things so could just be urban myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many spankable asses... but all so far away

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


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but even seeing a cane or the word... well it makes me feel fear.. lol.

OK well just pop this blindfold on and I'll gently tap you with this stick of wilted celery

Never used wilted celery just as long as it does not have cream cheese in! "

cream cheese should never be included in sex...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

cream cheese should never be included in sex..."

Should never even be quoted! Boak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

I, s, it appears love to be spanked, it makes me extremely horny.... just go with what you are doing, if it is working xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As far as paddles are concerned, the softer the facing material, the less bite they will have. The heavier the paddle, the thuddier each hit will be.

So a thin suede paddle or slapper would be very gentle where as an ebony paddle with a ridged face would sting and burn.

With canes, thin bites and is more likely to mark, thick thumps and is more likely to bruise below the surface giving that lovely ouch when sat on days afterwards.

With both the effect increases with the force that they are used. If you want cane stripes use a thin cane hard on a bottom that hasn't been previously hit. If you want sore but not marked then an extending paddling followed by a caning with lots of strokes that start soft and get stronger will be best.

In ultimate terms a thin whippy cane probably hurts the most and a big fluffy paddle the least but all of them will hurt if wielded with force."

Thank you for such good information, I find it very refreshing that you have taking the time to answer me back.

So my next question is .... where to buy a paddle and cane and which one is the best?

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


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So my next question is .... where to buy a paddle and cane and which one is the best? "

I would seriously suggest you try anything you want before you buy. So take a trip to London on the first Sunday of the month and visit the London Alternative Market. Look out for stalls from Jacks Floggers and Canes or Carneval. Both make lovely kit, jacks have a gorgeous website to wet your appetite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So my next question is .... where to buy a paddle and cane and which one is the best?

I would seriously suggest you try anything you want before you buy. So take a trip to London on the first Sunday of the month and visit the London Alternative Market. Look out for stalls from Jacks Floggers and Canes or Carneval. Both make lovely kit, jacks have a gorgeous website to wet your appetite."

Won't be able to make it too London at the moment as we 're currently out of the country but would you send a link to there website please.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

just put the names in google

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

So my next question is .... where to buy a paddle and cane and which one is the best?

I would seriously suggest you try anything you want before you buy. So take a trip to London on the first Sunday of the month and visit the London Alternative Market. Look out for stalls from Jacks Floggers and Canes or Carneval. Both make lovely kit, jacks have a gorgeous website to wet your appetite.

Won't be able to make it too London at the moment as we 're currently out of the country but would you send a link to there website please. "

Pm me and I can give you a couple of sites you can order bespoke pieces for what you might be looking for

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

oh i love being spanked ! huge turn on !

also love spanking a willing partner . can make situation real intense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So my next question is .... where to buy a paddle and cane and which one is the best?

I would seriously suggest you try anything you want before you buy. So take a trip to London on the first Sunday of the month and visit the London Alternative Market. Look out for stalls from Jacks Floggers and Canes or Carneval. Both make lovely kit, jacks have a gorgeous website to wet your appetite.

Won't be able to make it too London at the moment as we 're currently out of the country but would you send a link to there website please.

Pm me and I can give you a couple of sites you can order bespoke pieces for what you might be looking for "

Thanks for the websites, WOW so many to choose from, some scared the shit out of me! But looking for a nice paddle first , then might get up enough courage to buy a cane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ebay for most things

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Lol I'm a fan of the paddles from the wood company link I sent you, I went for the one 3rd from the bottom, it's 2 toys for the price 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just "Love" it, such a turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every body likes spanking!

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"Cane is lush. Spanking is lush. So much to play with. Yummy

I have never been caned.. but find the crop anything but lush... hand or paddle yes...

but cane even watching someone else get it fills me with fear.

"

My wife hates being caned, so she gets it as a punishment for insobordination.

a gentle caning of herbreasts is a favourite of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would willingly spank you. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would willingly spank you. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a great thread. I love spanking and being spanked in the right circumstances and with the right person. so incredibly horny and erotic

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Adore being spanked... Very sexy. Turns me on massively. When the man is on later he will probably comment on this too lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne and I have just started exploring this in some depth recently, as Jayne has found a gentle spanking turns her on hugely!

We have invested in a few different floggers and whips, and enjoy trying them out.

Great to see so much good advice here too, some stuff we will definitely be trying out!

Jayne prefers to be gently spanked or whipped and her bum caressed between each strike, or group of strikes.

Another thing that gets her really wet is to use the tip of a whip to flick her nipples and clit, she can cum from just that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"what a great thread. I love spanking and being spanked in the right circumstances and with the right person. so incredibly horny and erotic"

Erotic! That's exactly the word I would use, intense would be another...nothing quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what a great thread. I love spanking and being spanked in the right circumstances and with the right person. so incredibly horny and erotic

Erotic! That's exactly the word I would use, intense would be another...nothing quite like it "

Think my best experience so far was being throat fucked and flogged both together! Intense was definitely the word then....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"what a great thread. I love spanking and being spanked in the right circumstances and with the right person. so incredibly horny and erotic

Erotic! That's exactly the word I would use, intense would be another...nothing quite like it

Think my best experience so far was being throat fucked and flogged both together! Intense was definitely the word then...."

That might be a little bit too intense for me but I can see what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't knock it until you've tried it!! I can deep throat this guy too and that makes it so much more delicious. Horny just thinking about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't knock it until you've tried it!! I can deep throat this guy too and that makes it so much more delicious. Horny just thinking about it."

Not knocking it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what a great thread. I love spanking and being spanked in the right circumstances and with the right person. so incredibly horny and erotic

Erotic! That's exactly the word I would use, intense would be another...nothing quite like it

Think my best experience so far was being throat fucked and flogged both together! Intense was definitely the word then...."

now that sounds good to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jayne and I have just started exploring this in some depth recently, as Jayne has found a gentle spanking turns her on hugely!

We have invested in a few different floggers and whips, and enjoy trying them out.

Great to see so much good advice here too, some stuff we will definitely be trying out!

Jayne prefers to be gently spanked or whipped and her bum caressed between each strike, or group of strikes.

Another thing that gets her really wet is to use the tip of a whip to flick her nipples and clit, she can cum from just that! "

hi there, i wanted to see if other people had experienced similar and also to get advice from others too, we too have a riding crop and a flogger but love a good spanking from ians hand mmm,

for some reason i love the spanking more after we have had sex it makes me come again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't knock it until you've tried it!! I can deep throat this guy too and that makes it so much more delicious. Horny just thinking about it.

Not knocking it! "

Don't worry, that was said in jest not critically!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't knock it until you've tried it!! I can deep throat this guy too and that makes it so much more delicious. Horny just thinking about it.

Not knocking it!

Don't worry, that was said in jest not critically!! "

You horny Welsh minx....I need to move

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had any bad experiences with spanking at all curious to see if there are any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope! Only good one's here, the only thing I have learnt about myself, is I am slightly extreme, as I love to see my bruises afterwards! But hey, just explore and expand on what you enjoy!

No doubt I will be sporting more after this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to spank Sue , she is so nawty it gets us both horny .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope! Only good one's here, the only thing I have learnt about myself, is I am slightly extreme, as I love to see my bruises afterwards! But hey, just explore and expand on what you enjoy!

No doubt I will be sporting more after this weekend "

Think I'm becoming that way inclined too love seeing the bruises but never have had it that hard where I'm covered all over. Wishing and hoping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive used a fly swatter lol that leaves some good marks on his ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it.

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I have had "dark thoughts" since the start of adolescence. Its so wonderful now that I have people in my life that I can share this with. Its like a craving with me if I don't indulge from time to time.

Everyone has different needs and different levels of what they can take. I am always conscious that the ladies that I spank are in control. I am just delivering what they want.

I don't have to go really hard but can do. Its amazing what some will take and the marking is often minimal with these people but technique is key. I spent a lot of time as a kid doing fly fishing so it comes naturally to me.

Very hard sessions can cause feinting and many subs actually like this state and want to get into it. The first time I saw it happen I was ready to call an ambulance but others around be knew what to do. Its important to be able to detect this state and you can put something in a sub's hand so they loose their grip at the point of passing out and this is your point to stop and nurse them.

I didn't realize I was particularly good at this until I was at a fet party and started caning a lady then I became rather popular.

There are many shades in the scene. I am more a top than anything as I don't demand submission as such and I'm not a particularly controlling person.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a good spanking

I love otk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love spanking too very sexy doggy style and spanking mmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ian spanked me yesterday with my flip flop! Stung like a bitch but hmmmm my arse was nice a warm afterwards.

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By *dwinaTV/TS
over a year ago

congleton

i like to be spanked on regular occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a belt to the inner thighs is very arousing

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By *oubleDsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"we love spanking too very sexy doggy style and spanking mmmm"

hmmmm can't beat it hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we love spanking too very sexy doggy style and spanking mmmm

hmmmm can't beat it hehe "

Agree, we love a bit hanky spanky nothing wrong with a bit of spanky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly my fetish :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking is a big part of our sex life. We have a flat belt with a large surface area that I use with absoloute enthusiasm to try and leave a mark. Never happens that's what I get for dating a horsey riding chick. Tough saddles.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

spanking is totally normal, now my cane is perhaps another matter.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quickly moved on from spanking to whipping My wife now absolutely loves having me spread-eagled on the bed while she gives my back shoulders and bum a good reddening and of course I also love it

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By *irtyAdi73Man
over a year ago

Sale

I love to spank a woman that really gets off on it

Make her cum or even better helps keep her just on the edge

Best is spank n tickle orgasm control with loads of clit play mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BiSwing--you look like the perfect lady to spank,lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ian spanked me yesterday with my flip flop! Stung like a bitch but hmmmm my arse was nice a warm afterwards. "

Flip flops are evil... Lee gave my arse a good spanking with one the other week. Stung like mad... But was all warm for hours x

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over a year ago


"Ian spanked me yesterday with my flip flop! Stung like a bitch but hmmmm my arse was nice a warm afterwards.

Flip flops are evil... Lee gave my arse a good spanking with one the other week. Stung like mad... But was all warm for hours x"

Totally agree flip flops are mean...wait til he is out and burn them!! Hmmm the wooden paddles would burn well too

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me "

I find my self doing naughty things do my hubby will punish me. fuck I wish he was home right now!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? ! "
yes!!!!!! Also hubby gently rubs my ass in between spankings to the point I never know when the spanking is going to come. Fuck very hot thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me

I find my self doing naughty things do my hubby will punish me. fuck I wish he was home right now!"

Know how you feel mines away for 6 weeks although I generally rack up plenty of reasons in that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also wanted to know is deemed "normal" to like get turned on by spanking this much? ! yes!!!!!! Also hubby gently rubs my ass in between spankings to the point I never know when the spanking is going to come. Fuck very hot thread..."

Or which implement is coming out next!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me

I find my self doing naughty things do my hubby will punish me. fuck I wish he was home right now!

Know how you feel mines away for 6 weeks although I generally rack up plenty of reasons in that time "

I have been threatened with one just this morning for not taking the camping stuff to storage. Last time I got a spanking I had bruises on my ass for a week and hubby broke his belt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong in a bit of slap and tickle, light strangulation also does it for me

I find my self doing naughty things do my hubby will punish me. fuck I wish he was home right now!

Know how you feel mines away for 6 weeks although I generally rack up plenty of reasons in that time

I have been threatened with one just this morning for not taking the camping stuff to storage. Last time I got a spanking I had bruises on my ass for a week and hubby broke his belt... "

Hee hee I like it when they break their toys small payback! Bruises can be a pain (no pun) its August and I still can't wear shorts

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Lol... I was wearing a bikini bottom and a family member asked me what happened... Lmao luck only you couldn't see the whole hand shaped bruise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol... I was wearing a bikini bottom and a family member asked me what happened... Lmao luck only you couldn't see the whole hand shaped bruise."

Lol I got caught out when I had to go into hospital unexpectedly to have my appendix out...I had cane stripes but told the nurse I backed up against an electric fence....don't think she bought it!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried

Flip Flops

Riding crops

Hair brushes

Belts and some old school hand action and never left anything more than a temporary reddening and I do it hard!!!

Not sure what to try next!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Ok so now I have a question . Is it hitter yo be spanked because you are being punished? Or is it just as hot to be spanked just because its fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried

Flip Flops

Riding crops

Hair brushes

Belts and some old school hand action and never left anything more than a temporary reddening and I do it hard!!!

Not sure what to try next! "

Have a look online at Caneiac...that's where D gets all his evil implements...I'm still bruised after 2 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tough one....D gets annoyed when I get turned on after an actual 'punishment' but I can't help it!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"That's a tough one....D gets annoyed when I get turned on after an actual 'punishment' but I can't help it! "

I have been told that I'm not supposed to enjoy this... Which makes me even hotter, and leads to more spankings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a tough one....D gets annoyed when I get turned on after an actual 'punishment' but I can't help it!

I have been told that I'm not supposed to enjoy this... Which makes me even hotter, and leads to more spankings..."

Never never reply to "you're not supposed to be enjoying this" with "well quit doing it so well and shag me instead" during punishments...leads to trouble!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"That's a tough one....D gets annoyed when I get turned on after an actual 'punishment' but I can't help it!

I have been told that I'm not supposed to enjoy this... Which makes me even hotter, and leads to more spankings...

Never never reply to "you're not supposed to be enjoying this" with "well quit doing it so well and shag me instead" during punishments...leads to trouble! "

Hmmm ....

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

My newest spanking fantasy is for me to do something "wrong" so that I deserve a spanking, my new girlfriend asks for hubby's permission to carry out my "punishment" while hubby supervises.. Damn this thread has got me all hot and bothered!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico


"Gosh nothing turns me on more than receiving or giving a good spanking. Equally as much as i like being paddled you cant quite beat a firm palm. Not quite sure why it does such things to me to the point im begging for one but its getting me incredibly horny thinking about it..

"The most forbidden and sensitive part of the bottom is the lower half, where the muscles are plumpest and the division between them is deepest. The "sweet spot," a spanker's delight, is the lower central portion of the buttocks, spreading generally from the crest of one nether cheek to the crest of the next. This spot, situated over and around the cleft, is highly susceptible to both painful and erotic sensations." Lorelie

Mrs x "

Damn...

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I would love a guy to spank me x

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham


"I would love a guy to spank me x"

I am quite surprised it haven't happened yet. Especially, taking into account that you are not shy about meeting with guys...

Anyway, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My newest spanking fantasy is for me to do something "wrong" so that I deserve a spanking, my new girlfriend asks for hubby's permission to carry out my "punishment" while hubby supervises.. Damn this thread has got me all hot and bothered!"

Hmmm but what if he thought she hadn't done a good enough job, resulting in both getting more punishment...!

D is currently negotiating with a guy on here to come over and punish me on his behalf as he is away so much he can't always do it himself!

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Very hot! Thank you for adding a whole new dimension to my fantasy!

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Hmmm but what if he thought she hadn't done a good enough job, resulting in both getting more punishment...!

D is currently negotiating with a guy on here to come over and punish me on his behalf as he is away so much he can't always do it himself! "

Gosh... what is there to negotiate?

Who, into spanking of course, wouldn't like to "punish" such sweet body?

The only concern should be to choose sane guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope hubby packs a few spanking accessories for our hols for when I"m naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked before and during sex it gets me really turned on, o love the sensation on my arse cheeks of a nice firm hand spanking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been into spanking for nearly a year now ....for a short while it was even getting me hard from the excitement of spanking a woman's arse red raw ....kinda not so much now but might throw it in there at the right moment ....normally during doggystyle

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over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X "

Love to spank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My SO needs spanking otherwise she gets really uptight and unhappy. Once a week is about right. She gets spanked or caned to tears but the aftercare a d calm down following leaves her settled and content. She says clear headed. I hadn't met this before and it's been quite a learning curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I wanted Ian to spank me, during or after sex I find extremely sexy and I get really turned on by this to the put where I can come over again.

Are there others men/ woman who like be spanked or be the spankee.

Would like to look more into this, part or role play etc for us. Any advice would be greatly received. X OMG I love a good Spanking during sex, I also love to spank my Nipples & Clit with my leather Spanker "

I totally agree with you. I recently gave my FB free reign to do as he pleased, knowing I would get a good spanking. Started with the hand and ended with a riding crop. Bum, clit & nipples all got warm and tingly. Best bit was I was blindfolded too so not knowing what was going to be smacked & how hard was a thrill. Then occassionally he lent over to kiss or lick where he'd just spanked me. AMAZING. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BiSwing--you look like the perfect lady to spank,lol xxx"

Why thank you.

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By *lounder30Man
over a year ago

chard

Spanked for sure

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I love to spank, I have great hands for spanking a nice ass or pussy.x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Could do with a spanking right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could do with a spanking right now! "
I'd love to help you out,lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the sound of a well connected spank on the bum, followed by the ooh and giggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love the sound of a well connected spank on the bum, followed by the ooh and giggle. "

I love the sound too as Ian's hand connects my bum. And also the sound I make usually a gasp or an mmmmnnnffff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to spank mrs hedo doggy style, certainly hits the spot for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love, love, LOVE being spanked by Tod, be it during role-play or not.

The harder the better in my books, & if it leaves a mark? Perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both and not a couple of lovely toys from Ann Summers and had them used on me and used them on him whilst he was fucking me, very erotic and hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spank and tickle the same spot over and over again x

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By *dwinaTV/TS
over a year ago

congleton

i like to be seriousley chastised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give a good spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not quite the belt but had a riding crop and flogger used just a now, Wow! Arse is pretty sore, but it was worth it! "
Have a look in outdoor/equestrian shops,loads of little horsey crops,lol.

btw you have a spectacular arse xx

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