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What makes a good email

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, a quick question aimed at couples and women. What makes a good email that stands out enough for you to reply?

Examples would be appreciated, so i can copy and paste them (a joke by the way) lol.

many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself show yourself and dont put fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try "I am a lottery winner looking for fun "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A nice friendly chatty message will get me to look at the profile, but the best sonnet wouldn't get me to meet if the profile wasn't what I was looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not much use asking this question to be honest because if you fill a mail with what you think people wanna hear, how is that a fair reflection of yourself and your personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try "I am a lottery winner looking for fun " "

i will start using that one lol. many thanks for the people who have answered so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour flattery and identifying that you meet that persons/couples needs.

Nice and informative about yourself with a pic would also make you stand out.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Make it nice and friendly, not too long and not too short. Make it obvious that you have read the profile of the lady you are mailing, and attach a recent face pic. And most of all, steer clear of "fancy a fuck" or "wanna suck my cock"!! Lol!! Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to agree with no graphic fantasies or cheesy one liners about what you want to do etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it nice and friendly, not too long and not too short. Make it obvious that you have read the profile of the lady you are mailing, and attach a recent face pic. And most of all, steer clear of "fancy a fuck" or "wanna suck my cock"!! Lol!! Good Luck "

I'll go with that

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Make it nice and friendly, not too long and not too short. Make it obvious that you have read the profile of the lady you are mailing, and attach a recent face pic. And most of all, steer clear of "fancy a fuck" or "wanna suck my cock"!! Lol!! Good Luck "
Agree with the above and would suggest not using "hun" or "babe", some people dont like it. Good luck

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Got to agree with no graphic fantasies or cheesy one liners about what you want to do etc. "

Hehe, those "fantasy" emails are soooo funny! Makes me laugh every time I get one - do the guys really think its a turn on?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had one that said, hey, that was it just hey, bet he wonders why i blocked and deleted him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just had one that said, hey, that was it just hey, bet he wonders why i blocked and deleted him lol "
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Think that's good my latest consisted of subject line "x" message "x" really impressive hey, Must have took him all day to think of that!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"just had one that said, hey, that was it just hey, bet he wonders why i blocked and deleted him lol "

I just had a "hey" as well! Wonder if its the same guy? Deleted and blocked here too! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually try and make people laugh and see if they reply back with something in response..doesnt work lol

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Truthfully. I go straight to their profile. If I like the look of them, then I read the message. A face pic is good as its awkward down the line asking and then not liking.

Just be yourself in your message. They have to like you, not a copy of someone else. The person has to find you and your personality attractive. As do you them.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

If it contains the following,

"hi, my real name is Brad and do you mind if I invite my wife Angelina as well.

We would love you to pop to our place in the south of France from summer, and a courier will pop over in a few hours to deliver your first class plane tickets.

Don't worry about clothes, just pack a days worth and we will pop into Cannes to pick up a few bits and bobs for you.

Don't worry about cash, my casa is your casa..

Oh and I am really bi, and Angelina, well of course she is..

Pack your camera

Cheers

brad

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"If it contains the following,

"hi, my real name is Brad and do you mind if I invite my wife Angelina as well.

We would love you to pop to our place in the south of France from summer, and a courier will pop over in a few hours to deliver your first class plane tickets.

Don't worry about clothes, just pack a days worth and we will pop into Cannes to pick up a few bits and bobs for you.

Don't worry about cash, my casa is your casa..

Oh and I am really bi, and Angelina, well of course she is..

Pack your camera

Cheers

brad

""

Hahaha! Best post of the day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice friendly chatty message will get me to look at the profile, but the best sonnet wouldn't get me to meet if the profile wasn't what I was looking for."

Same here

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

Its a swing site, we know your not contacting us for a recipe exchange, lol, so just saying lets fuck is pretty lame. If you are funny, send a fun message, if charming, be charming, etc. remember with a couple it could be the man or woman seeing the message first so tone it in a way less likely to offend either. Thats how single guys get past our "here is another one" filter.

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